Everyone's youth is wonderful and unique, and the past feelings will always bring them different experiences, and gradually become the most beautiful memories of their memories with the development of time.
And for their own experience, some people can do a good job of being ashamed, face their every choice well, face their every past well, so as not to let themselves regret, nor will they let their future be ashamed of the past, while some people do not know how to cherish when they are young, do not know how to change, in the face of a piece of feelings only care about their own feelings, care about their own pay and return, and gradually lead to the failure of feelings, want to seek more suitable for their feelings again and again, Step by step to seek someone who loves themselves more, but they fail again and again, leaving a wealth of emotional experiences for their past.
When the age gradually grew older, it also began to be anxious, began to want to find a solid feeling, at this time the honest person has become their own best choice, after all, can live a solid life, serious life is still the choice of many people.
But what happens to life after an honest man marries a woman who has had a lot of emotional experiences? Three men tell the big truth.
Mr. Huang, married for three years
I only talked about one relationship before I got married, I didn't have a lot of emotional experience, and I wasn't very good at communicating with the opposite sex, getting along, not to mention saying anything sweet, romantic things, these were my disadvantages, so I didn't get married until I was 30 years old, until I finally started to go on a blind date, and I met my current wife.
In fact, the wife belongs to the kind of person who looks very lively, very outgoing, in our contact I can also feel that she has endless topics and endless conversation days, and she is one year older than me, but also because I did not meet the right object, so I began to go on a blind date, at first I did have a good feeling for her, I think her age is also just right, give me a good feeling, so I also boo cold and warm every day, so we gradually became acquainted, in fact, I will not interact with the opposite sex, Other aspects of the conditions are still good, there is a car and a house, there is a stable job, this is also my only confident place, so we came together, she told me that she has talked about six loves, in fact, I did not mind, after all, I think there were several loves when I was young or normal, I did not care, in fact, life after marriage is also relatively happy, the only thing that makes me feel dissatisfied, that is, the distance from the opposite sex.
Because I am a more honest person, and I do not have much contact with the opposite sex, so there are almost no friends of the opposite sex in life, but she is different, her friends of the opposite sex are quite large, often about to play games together, or go out to parties, although these she did not hide from me, nor deliberately concealed, but for me always feel uncomfortable, after all, has been married, but she does not think so, always feel that this is a very normal thing, blame me for thinking more, but this matter is the most difficult for me to accept, We also quarreled over this, but in the end we did not resolve it.
Mr. Bai, married for two years
My wife and I were former classmates, but we also met each other, we used to be classmates in high school, but then there was no contact, until the time of the blind date we officially began to know each other.
In fact, after the first contact, I still like her, after all, I have the experience of having classmates, and now there are many topics, so gradually we began to fall in love, and finally got married, and now I have been married for two years, in fact, I still feel very happy, because she is also very good to me, and she is also very dedicated to this family, so the days are getting better and better.
But for my wife's past, I still have some times in my heart, because I know that she has talked about many loves, in high school she has begun to fall in love, and more than once, after all, she was very beautiful at that time, not to mention later went to college, after entering the society, I have also tentatively asked her how many relationships she has talked about, why she broke up, but she laughed and said more than ten times, although I will think she is joking, but I also think it may not be a joke.
Now that we have been married for two years, we also have a child, but for me sometimes it is uncomfortable, I think she has talked about a lot of love, may not be very willing to accept, but she does not know, and she is still living our life.
Mr. Zhao, married for one year
My wife is a beautiful woman, she is very beautiful, I know her for two years, but it is very clear until she has talked about four loves, the longest half a year, the shortest is only one month, such a love experience compared to me is indeed a lot, but we have always been called colleagues, until later our work reasons, so that we have contact between us, but also let us between the distance closer and closer, so gradually come together, I am very fond of her, so in life has been very serious about her, In the end, it gradually became worse than marriage.
I am very happy to be married, after all, I am quite happy with the person I like, and she is also very good to me, very concerned about our family, I have also asked her how to compare me with her ex, she always laughed and said:
"You are too honest, suitable for life, love is certainly romantic, but not so stable, now I want to live a down-to-earth life." 」
I have to say that my wife's words still make me very happy, now our life is also very stable, very down-to-earth, I also feel very happy, but in the process of getting along with my heart will always feel uncomfortable in the place is that my wife has talked about a lot of love, the pursuit of her people is also quite a lot, even if it is now married, in fact, there are occasional chats of the opposite sex, although the wife does not reply too much, but my heart is easy to think more, which is also a hurdle that I have so far difficult to resolve.
Write at the end:
Maybe everyone will have their own emotional experience, everyone will also talk about a few loves when they are young, maybe failure, maybe success, but in any case, in the face of a marriage should be serious and cautious, marriage is not easy, and do and cherish, the past does not necessarily represent the future, live well in the present is the most important, do you think?