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Marriage is the most important thing in a person's life, sooner or later.
In today's environment, there are very few people who can talk about falling in love with each other, and more are known through blind dates, and after slowly understanding, they join hands to enter the palace of marriage.
However, in the blind date market, not all people occupy a certain advantage, we often find that those who are younger and better are often sought after by everyone, while the older ones, even if the external conditions are excellent, there are few people around.
01 Confident in their appearance, there is no plan to be stable
Xiao He has always been online because of his appearance, even in college, there are many suitors around.
However, at that time, Xiao He only wanted to study hard and prepare for his future work and life, so he never considered the love part.
After graduating, Xiao He stayed in the local city to work, and in the work, she met many high-quality men, and they all fell under Xiao He's pomegranate skirt.
Some people say that society is like a big dyeing vat, which will make everyone in it gradually lose themselves, and under the stars of the people around them, Xiao He will gradually drift a little.
Over the years, Xiao He has also talked about several boyfriends, but each time it is a no-brainer, either the two can't get along together, or because their hometown is too far away and end up breaking up, but after a relationship, Xiao He can attract new suitors with his own beauty, and soon, he will plunge into the next relationship.
Therefore, Xiao He gradually believes that since he can get "love" so easily, why not take this opportunity to experience the thousands of tastes of life.
So, over the years, Xiao He's boyfriend is one after another, even if he meets more suitable, Xiao He has no intention of settling down, after all, Xiao He has always thought that he is very young, plus his education is not low, so in these hurried years, Xiao He does not have a stable reliance around him.
02 Back to his hometown to go on a blind date
Although Xiao He was not in a hurry, Xiao He's marriage upset her parents.
Finally, at the strong insistence of her parents, Xiao He bid farewell to the city where she had lived for a long time and returned to her hometown, after returning to her hometown, because Xiao He still had some savings in her hands, she did not rush out to find a job for the time being, so Xiao He's life has always been unemployed at home.
In order to meet the requirements of his parents, Xiao He had to embark on a blind date journey.
In fact, Xiao He is very repulsive to blind dates, because these years of experience, as well as the encounters of friends around him, make Xiao He deeply aware that the chances of love encountered by blind dates are very small, and most people are preparing to live a life with a partner and embark on the road of blind dates.
But the orders of his parents cannot be violated, Xiao He still dressed up well, and prepared to follow the matchmaker to meet his blind date.
After Xiao He finished grooming, he looked at himself in the mirror, although his age was 33 years old at this time, but because he usually paid attention to maintenance, he could not see his actual age in the mirror at all.
Therefore, Xiao He was full of confidence: Although I am 33 years old, I have a good face, and the suitors must be indispensable.
However, when Xiao He followed the matchmaker to the blind date and met his first blind date, the next development of things greatly surprised Xiao He's expectations.
03 was punched in the face by a blind date
Xiao He's blind date is a man in his early 30s, in the chat process, Xiao He learned that the other party is a small company's middle level, the annual income is OK, although at the beginning this man was attracted by Xiao He's appearance, but in hearing that Xiao He is now in a state of unemployment, especially in the hearing that Xiao He is now 33 years old, the original enthusiastic tone instantly indifference, until finally, the man said: Although you are very good, but you are too old, sorry, I can't accept it.
This blind date experience gave Xiao He a blow, she thought she would be very popular in the blind date market, but she did not expect to be punched in the face in the end.
But Xiao He is not reconciled, and then get rid of the matchmaker and then introduce himself to the blind date object, but every time the other party minds Xiao He's age and refuses the blind date request, then Xiao He deeply realizes that the original age has always been the biggest shackle of a woman, no matter how good this woman has been, or has good external conditions, once she passes this age, all the advantages she has will be gone.
At this time, Xiao He recalled that he had not had a suitor around him for a long time, and nearly 3 years had passed since he had last rejected the suitor.
After thinking about this, Xiao He felt a pang of discomfort in his heart, thinking that he had an absolute advantage in the blind date market, but he did not expect to be punched in the face.
Conclusion: We cannot deny that although appearance occupies a certain advantage in love and blind dates, the age problem is a feature that everyone cannot avoid, in many cases, even if you have more advantages, as long as you are over 30 years old, all advantages will be infinitely reduced in front of age. After all, comparing heart to heart, after the age of 30, you are no longer young, and there is almost no reason to choose.
Therefore, when you meet the right person at the right time, you must firmly grasp it, after all, love and fate are unattainable, since you come, if you let it sneak away, it is very likely to regret it for a lifetime.