Whether a person is "stable" in his later years depends on whether he has these actions before the age of 60

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People are a certain age, and they have only one wish - the evening scenery is stable.

You can toss when you're young, and you can toss when you're middle-aged. Only in the old age, we can not toss too much, but need a "stable" life.

Why is old age so "special"? Because old age is the stage of the most "contradictions". If we are not careful, we will be "entangled in contradictions", not to mention living a better life, and may not even be able to take care of stability.

In reality, young people and middle-aged people, most of them look down on the stable days, feel that it is not interesting, and it is meaningful to have a magnificent life. As everyone knows, ordinary people can live a stable life, and not everyone can stand the twists and turns of life.

Just like "the joy of heaven", what kind of old age do you think is the old age of having "the joy of heaven"?

In fact, we only need to do two things, the first is family stability, and the second is personal stability. These two places become stable, so don't we be happy?

However, all stable lives will not come to our side for no reason, and we need to prepare in advance and take precautions in order to face the wind and rain, see the world, and be stable.

Whether a person's old age is stable depends on whether he has these actions before the age of 60.

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Whether or not the old age is stable depends on how many "family conflicts" there are.

The ancients once said: "Those who do not seek the world are not enough to seek a moment; those who do not seek the overall situation are not enough to seek a domain." ”

Whether it is to be a person or to do things, it needs to be planned from a macro perspective. Just like you and me in our later years, it is closely related to the quality of "family".

A good family can only be good in our old age. And the family is not good, or even full of contradictions, then our old age is not tragic? The individual and the family are not independent beings, but complementary wholes.

Before the age of 60, we need to manage the family well and try to be a good example for future generations. At this time, the offspring will respect their parents and reduce unnecessary contradictions in a harmonious family atmosphere.

The emergence of contradictions is closely related to our failure to understand "stewardship". The key to "managing the family" is to "make the family prosperous", and there will not be too many disputes and noises.

Therefore, "self-cultivation and family" is an inseparable existence after all.

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Whether or not the old age is stable depends on whether the "peripheral relations" are good or not.

When people are old, how should we live? Do you live as a lonely personality, or do you live as someone with you?

Being too lonely and living as an island is not a good thing. Imagine that we don't even have an old friend around us who can talk, how is this different from being alone?

If someone is with us, it is better to be happy alone than to be happy together, and that must be a good thing. Imagine that having time to chat with old friends, or hiking and traveling, accompanying each other, is this not happiness?

In this regard, some people are very confused, isn't it true that people are more and more lonely the more they live? Why do we have to deal with old friends around us more?

People, the more they live, the lonelier they are, this is the maturity after "breaking away". However, what we want to "break away" is not the old guys who have been friends for many years, but the meaningless passers-by and strangers.

Treat old friends with affection and don't abandon these relationships. You know, it is a blessing to have a confidant by your side. And to grow old with old friends is a great blessing in old age.

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Whether the old age is stable or not depends on whether the "money" is ready.

Wilde said that when I was young, I always felt that money was everything. When I got older, I found out that this was indeed the case.

No matter how old a person lives, they need to rely on "money" to live. Whether there is money or not, in the moment of old age, in fact, we live a different life.

If you have a little money, you will find that the attitude of the relatives around you has become better, and the relatives have learned to respect people. Even outsiders are close to you, and you are surrounded by "good people" anyway.

If you don't have any money in your hands, you will find that the attitude of your relatives around you is indifferent a lot, and your relatives can't see that you are doing well, and only hope that you are getting worse and worse. Slowly, you will live a humble life.

A person will live a noble life because he has money, and he will also live without dignity because he has no money. In fact, money is a pass, making people's old age unimpeded, without too much risk.

Therefore, save more money for yourself and hold your assets in your own hands, then you will not have a bad second half of your life.

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Whether or not you are stable in your later years depends on whether your "physical condition" is okay.

The old man is not in good health, how big is the impact? The light affects one's own life, and the heavy affects the development of the family. To exaggerate, the family's impoverishment is not unrelated to the elderly's illness.

Some people are chronically ill, either something goes wrong here or it's uncomfortable there. As a result, all the family's money flowed to the hospital, and the savings of the first half of life were directly destroyed.

Moreover, when people are old and the pain is more serious, they can only "lie in bed".

The four words "lying in bed" are actually particularly frightening. Not only are the old people unable to take care of themselves, but the children have also become unfilial. At this time, the situation of "no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, and no virtuous wife in the long-poor family" appeared.

Just think, who hopes that in their old age, they will encounter the dilemma of "no filial piety before the bed for a long time"?

The only thing we can do is to have a positive and sunny mentality, exercise more, so as to improve the quality of life and lay the foundation for happiness in old age.

Wen/Shushan has deer