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Psychology: A boy who "likes you" from the bottom of his heart

He Suohuan, a writer of sexual affective psychology, writes love stories, interesting strangers, and material knowledge.

Psychology: A boy who "likes you" from the bottom of his heart

What is love?

Eat many meals together, sleep many times, see a lot of scenery, try many new things.

In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, people's emotions are often hidden in some details.

Like what:

the degree of feedback and sharing during the chat;

the degree of engagement in each other when getting along;

whether it can bring enough emotional value to each other;

Whether you are willing to have more contact with the other person.

Relatively speaking, the love of boys is more obvious, and the love of girls is more restrained.

Boys' love is often direct and passionate; When guys like you, they don't hide their behavior and the love they have in their eyes.

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Boys who like you and have a strong "desire to share"

What is desire to share?

Psychology regards the desire to share as an important means of "measuring the feelings of two people".

Whether in social or intimate relationships, the desire to share is important.

The rise in the desire to share means that the relationship between two people is warming up;

And the desire to share decreases until it disappears, which also shows that the relationship between the two people has been going downhill until the end.

What are the manifestations of the desire to share, specific to the opposite sex?

Like what:

The boy will share with you his day's experience in every detail.

What you did, what you ate, what you were busy with, what you planned to do after work, and express your thoughts.

During your chat, you discover that he is the "active party".

Take the initiative to find a topic and take the initiative to send you a message.

Common conversations are:

He asks you, "Are you busy?" ”

You say, "yes, what's wrong? ”

He replied: "It's okay, I just want to ask you and talk to you." ”

Although the boy is trying to restrain his emotions, he still shows his liking for you between the lines.

Psychology: A boy who "likes you" from the bottom of his heart

The desire to share, for intimate relationships, is the most important means of managing feelings.

The guy shares food with you, shares his job, shares his hobbies, shares everything about him...

His purpose is not to share with you, but to involve you in his life.

I think for adults, the desire to share is really romantic.

To me, you are my uniqueness;

For me, sharing it with you is my greatest expectation every day.

Have you ever had a fawn bump?

After sending a message to someone you like, stay in front of the screen, anxious, expectant, and nervously waiting for the other party to reply to the message.

If the other person replies to your message in a timely manner, you will laugh happily.

That's like.

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Guys who like you and have obvious "desire to perform" in front of you

Ever thought of the romance and beauty of your student days?

A group of boys play on the court, and when a favorite girl appears, you will find that one of the boys suddenly becomes very excited.

On some occasions, as long as there are favorite girls passing by, the rest of the boys will follow along.

This is the feelings of adolescence.

In the bones of boys, when facing the girls they like, they will have a strong "desire for expression".

This reminds me of the drama in "Those Years":

Is the male protagonist working against the female protagonist everywhere because he hates the female protagonist?

No, he just wants to get the girl's attention and then show himself in front of the girl.

Psychology: A boy who "likes you" from the bottom of his heart

In reality, boys like your desire to perform, which ones?

He will be in front of you, more proactive and more serious;

Where you appear, his attention tends to focus on you;

He is silent in your absence; When you come, he speaks loudly;

He will deliberately create opportunities to get close to you, pretending that the encounter with you is a "coincidence".

Boys who really like you will become "childish".

Boys who don't like you are so cold that you can't get close.

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If a boy likes you, "self-interest" will become "altruism"

Most people, when making choices and doing things, are "self-interested".

Because in human nature, they all "seek benefits and avoid harm".

"The bustle of the world is for profit, and the world is for the benefit."

But sometimes, there are exceptions.

The exception to this is when you are faced with someone you like, and you are willing to change your principles for the sake of the other person.

Isn't this a romance, a renunciation and choice?

Let go of your previous principles and choose a new path;

Turns "egoism" into "altruism."

When a guy likes you, this performance is very obvious.

Psychology: A boy who "likes you" from the bottom of his heart

For example:

He goes from the state of taking to the state of "giving" in you;

He has gone from being unwilling to suffer losses, and he has become "don't mind losing money" in front of you.

Psychologically speaking, the truest and most direct manifestation of liking a person is self-sacrifice.

Human giving is divided into 3 levels: self, id, and superego.

Self-interest;

The self is the truest feeling in the heart;

The superego transcends the level of love.

Boys like you, which is the trend of transitioning from "id" to "superego".

This state is also reciprocal when the opposite sex is along.

As long as there is love for each other, they will definitely subconsciously give for each other.

Think about each other, give for each other, no matter what you are doing, there is always a thought in your subconscious that you are thinking about each other.

Psychology: A boy who "likes you" from the bottom of his heart

Today's Topic:

What do you think is the expression of liking someone?

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