He Suohuan, a writer of sexual affective psychology, writes love stories, interesting strangers, and material knowledge.
Crush is a person's chaos and has nothing to do with the other party.
Human feelings come in many forms.
Including: good feelings, likes, ambiguity, crushes, love, marriage, extramarital affairs, etc.
But only the secret love is the beauty hidden in the heart, no matter how long it has been, thinking of the memories of your crush again, you feel sweet in your heart.
It is not unwillingness, but a kind of "regretful beauty".
In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, the boy has a crush on you, what are the details?
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The boy who has a crush on you will pay attention to you silently
A consulting case comes to mind.
When a boy goes to college, he likes a girl in the same class.
But the huge gap between the two people made the boy feel inferior, and he never dared to confess, but silently watched the goddess behind his back.
He had a crush on the goddess for 7 years, until 3 years after graduating from college, the goddess got married.
Seeing the goddess in the circle of friends at the wedding, smiling happily, the boy's youth completely disappeared.
He said he had no regrets, no sadness, just blessings.
Boys like a girl, but dare not confess, in fact, the main reason is: inferiority.
It is precisely because he likes you that he becomes inferior;
It is precisely because of his inferiority that he is timid, cautious, and always retreats.
For crushes, they dare not confess easily.
Because confession sometimes means "end".
Why confess?
If you don't confess, at least you can be friends; But if you confess, you may not even have to do it.
The guy who has a crush on you will pay attention to your life, follow your circle of friends, and always tune you into a special concern.
He sees your every move.
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The boy who has a crush on you, it's all about you in the afterlight
A movie line comes to mind:
"I like the way you look like me in the afterlight."
Although he did not look at you, his afterglow was all you.
Have you ever had such an experience?
In the face of someone you like, you dare not look at him.
When he turns, your eyes are all focused on the other person;
He turns around, and your eyes hurry away.
They didn't dare to look at each other, but Yu Guang always stared at each other.
Such a like, careful and cautious, for fear that he is too active and will make noise with each other.
-03
The boy who has a crush on you will create a lot of "accidents"
For example:
He will deliberately create chance encounters with you.
On the way to work, on the car to work, even the time to enter and exit the company is the same;
On the way from school, on the way back to the dormitory, on the way to the cafeteria, you can often see each other's figures.
When you message him, he replies to you in seconds;
You just posted a circle of friends, saying that you have encountered a problem, and this boy will come forward to help you as soon as possible.
He always creates some "inevitable in chance".
"Leave no merit and fame behind."
For people in crushes, all their efforts are spontaneous actions.
"I love you, it has nothing to do with you; I'm just willing to accompany you silently in this way. ”
What is the highest state of loving someone?
Maybe we won't be together, but that doesn't stop my feelings for you, who says that if you like someone, you have to be together?
-04
The guy who has a crush on you will be nice to everyone around you
What is the most poignant thing about crushes?
Probably it is:
In order to make the other person not know that you have a crush on her, so you are nice to everyone around her, just to hide your true purpose.
It's really sad.
Boys in crushes will also have various emotions.
Seeing girls intimate with other members of the opposite sex, boys will be jealous;
Seeing that girls are in trouble, boys will be anxious;
Seeing the girl's mood down, the boy can't wait to appear in front of each other immediately.
The person with a crush is conflicted in his heart.
intermittent bravery, persistent cowardice; Eager to take another step forward, but eventually stopped.
-05
Crush on someone, do you want to confess?
In fact, love has long disappeared.
At least in the current marriage market, true love is rare.
Love has become a bargaining chip, a combination of interests, and a fig leaf for people with ulterior motives.
You talk to him about love, he talks to you about interests;
You fall in love with him, and he uses you as a spare tire;
You plan to marry him, he pats his ass and runs.
The relationship between people is full of mistrust, full of calculation and profit.
Crushes don't actually need to be confessed.
Think of it another way:
If your crush also likes you, then he must be able to detect your uniqueness and affection for him;
If he doesn't like you, even if you try hard, give more, and confess fancy, you will eventually fail.
Instead of not even having friends, treat this relationship as a memory.
I think of the heart-wrenching experience of a friend around me.
He had a crush on a girl for 15 years, watching her change from a girl to a woman, from single to marriage, and then to a mother.
Later, the woman divorced with 1 child, and this friend made a decisive move.
Finally, hug the beauty home.
Either way, just follow your heart's thoughts.
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Do you think that a crush should not confess?
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