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Life after retirement, presumably is what many people are looking forward to, busy life, tired life, finally can unload the burden of body and mind, completely return to themselves, live their long-awaited life.
There is no longer a need to go from nine to five, no longer need to look at other people's faces, no need to worry about interpersonal communication, how to be happy and how to live, how to live happily.
To a certain extent, life after retirement is beautiful, and the whole person has relieved the burden and become very relaxed and happy. And after retirement, I can finally return to my family and live a life with my children and grandchildren on my knees, which is very beautiful to think about.
It's just that even if you are happy, there will be some annoying things, such as no social interaction and inner emptiness, which is also something that many people have to face.
Because of their inner emptiness, some people will regard showing off as a kind of fun in a boring life, and like to show off their lives every time, but in the eyes of others, they will only annoy people, and they are not willing to have more contact with them.
No matter when, it is inevitable to deal with people, only low-key people, can have a good popularity, so that their retirement life will not be too lonely.
After retirement, these things should not be shown off everywhere, and it is easy to be disliked.
Don't show off what you've been
There are many people who like to do their favorite thing after retirement, which is to tell people about their past achievements.
How popular he has been in the workplace, how good his popularity has been, how many successful projects he has done, and what important positions he has held. Of course, these things are their proud achievements, but others may not like to hear them.
First of all, others have an instinctive rejection of those who are higher in positions than themselves and who live better than themselves, and no one will really be interested in your brilliance.
Secondly, no matter what the past is, it has passed, there is no need to mention it again, and living a good life now is the most important thing.
Those who habitually mention the past, in fact, most of the current life is very empty and lackluster, so they will never forget the past things, covet the glory brought to them by the past.
The first time you talk about your past, others may show some interest, but the more times, others will only think that you are pitiful and ridiculous, react lightly, and even want to stay away from you, and do not want to listen to your nagging.
No matter what the past, you don't have to mention it frequently, focus on the present, keep in touch with people with your same frequency, cultivate new hobbies, find a few like-minded people, and enjoy the happiness of your old age is the most important.
Don't tell anyone how good your children are
In fact, we have been living in comparison all our lives, different stages of comparison of things are completely different, many people in old age, the most favorite comparison is their children.
Comparing their children who marry well, who finds a good family, who has a better job, who is more filial piety, this is something that many old people like to do.
Some old people are because they are mediocre in their lives and have nothing to tell, so they want to find a sense of existence through their children, and overwhelm each other through the excellence of their children.
And some people simply like the feeling of being envied by others, and their greatest interest in life after old age is to compare everywhere, so that they feel that their lives have a taste.
As everyone knows, such a show-off will only provoke the disgust of others, so that the people around them can't help but want to stay away.
Su Wangdi in "Heart Residence" is such a person, her life is not good compared to other siblings, so she wants to gain a sense of existence through her son.
Son Gu Xin climbed a rich family, planning to buy a high-end house, Su Wangdi is proud, everywhere want to overwhelm others, every time the dinner, will deliberately show off, words outside the words are want to step on others, always will spoil the good atmosphere, the family is not willing to interact with her.
No matter how good the children are, they do not have to show off to others, no one will sincerely bless them, and living their own lives is the most important.
Don't show off how many places you've traveled to
After retirement, there is finally time, many people will choose to travel everywhere, there is no time when they are young, and they can finally walk around after retirement.
There are some elderly people with pensions, who after retirement, finally have money and leisure, and can go to the places they have longed for for a long time at will to add a bright color to their retirement life.
Go around the country to see, presumably the hope of many people, after all, who does not like to appreciate the great scenery of the world, go to their own places outside of their own lives to see.
"Life is not only in front of you, but also poetry and far away", but many people only have Gou in their lives, and they have no chance to go to a distant place to see.
Tourism is the need for money, a trip to the far door, are needed to use money as a foundation, some people can only be confined to a small place all their lives, just to cope with life has been exhausted, which has the leisure to travel.
Not everyone has the opportunity to look around in old age, and many people are still running for their lives even when they reach the age of 60.
No matter how rich you are, no matter how many places you have been to, you don't have to tell people, you can choose people who are at the same level of life as you to tell, some people don't say, only make others jealous of you.
Most of our lives are living in comparison with others, along the way, comparing and contrasting, aren't we tired?
Living to old age, in fact, many things can already be seen through, you should understand that blindly comparing and showing off, really has no meaning, will not make your life better, will not make your heart more calm.
Life has always been for yourself, and you don't have to live in the eyes of others. When you care too much about the evaluation of others, always want to get the envy of others, it means that your heart is actually very empty.
Rather than looking for a sense of existence externally, it is better to focus on your own life, feel happy inside yourself, and happiness is the most important.