The TV series "Heart Residence" has two poor men, one Gu Xin and one Shi Yuan. Gu Xin showed looking for dependence everywhere, and Shi Yuan showed that everything depended on himself. But in essence, they are a type of person, both men who let go of their self-esteem and picked up their self-esteem halfway, and then completely abandoned their self-esteem.
When you meet such a man in life, don't hesitate, get away from him, and coming with him is the greatest misfortune in life.
First, do not want a face and force a face
1. Gu Xin who forcibly asked for his face
Gu Xin and Sun Qi have been in love for 10 years, and the relationship is stable: the affection is so deep that even Gu Xin's mother told her aunt that the daughter-in-law her son was looking for was tall, thin, and a big beauty.
As a result, as soon as he arrived at the door, he saw Gu Xin holding the skinny little Ge Yue high, intimate.
Gu Xin's mother warned Gu Xin, but she didn't dare to do this, and it would be bad to be seen by Sun Qi. Gu Xin opened his mouth and threw out a thunderbolt: I am going to marry Ge Yue, and the parents of both sides will meet. Reason: Ge Yue's father is a big man.
Sun Qi paid for 10 years, and was unilaterally broken up by Gu Xin; less than half a year after getting along with Ge Yue, Gu Xin married someone else.
Love and future, spirit and bread, Gu Xin did not hesitate to step on his self-esteem and chose the latter.
Since you don't want a face, then pay for your choice of not having a face, and it is also a frank villain. However, Gu Xin, who got the material cheapness, had to get up again, refusing to accept the added value brought by "eating soft rice", such as the discomfort of sending people under the fence, the ridicule of the mother-in-law's three words, etc., annoyed and angry, and remembered the beauty of the first love.
He ran to the old place where he was dating his first love, got drunk, borrowed the hand of the shop owner and got into the car of his old love. In the face of the old love, through the wine Xing said that he had been wronged by eating soft rice, sun Qi, who was originally deeply injured and could not walk out, was soft-hearted and willing to turn around and take over the plate.
Gu Xin, who had abandoned his self-esteem once, barely braced his face under the pretext of being in the name of Ge Yue: "Ge Yue is now pregnant, and such a thing has just happened in her family, and I don't want to be sorry for her at this time." ”
Less than two days after saying this, he did not have the aura brought by his father-in-law in the unit, so he took the initiative to make an appointment with Sun Qi again, planning to fly with her. Dare to be sorry for Ge Yue, all depends on his material situation!
2. Force the source of the face
Compared with Gu Xin, Shi Yuan's abandonment and picking up of dignity is more obvious.
Shi Yuan was originally the proud son of heaven, with a noble birth, excellent grades, good basketball, and a good piano. In the eyes of Shi Yuan's mother, they were superior at this time, much more noble than the later "upstarts".
I didn't think that the college entrance examination was wrong that year, a good deck of cards played poorly, not only lost with the dream of Shanghai famous university, but also forced by reality to choose a tour guide secondary school that is convenient for employment, and swept to the end.
Originally, this was fine, after all, their relatives were all over the world, and Shi Yuan was still very popular as an international tour guide with an English level 8 certificate after graduation. If they go abroad to join their relatives as planned, the future is still bright.
Coincidentally, Shi Yuan bought shares and made a fight, thinking that God opened his eyes to return the good luck that had been folded in the past to him, and he invested all the money in the family, and the result could be imagined, a loss.
The people who have won such a thing as a windfall from heaven do not believe that they are the last wave of leeks. Shi Yuan didn't believe it, and he borrowed 1.5 million yuan to smash it into it, and the result was nothing.
The failure of his studies, the huge debt, the illness that Shi Mu spent money on, and the three mountains crushed Shi Yuan's self-esteem. Since then, he has abandoned his face and done anything as long as he can make money.
When he reunited with Gu Qingyu, he was doing the most disgraceful thing - fake marriage. And he has done this kind of thing many times, and he is familiar with it. He just didn't expect to be reunited with the beautiful white moonlight in such a faceless scene.
From this moment on, Shi Yuan rebounded like a bottom and picked up his abandoned face, showing stubbornness to the extreme:
His mother waited for the kidney source to save her life, and he did not bear the reputation of "eating soft rice", regardless of whether his mother lived or died. Gu Qingyu secretly contributed to the relationship to heal his mother, but he was humiliated and had a big fight with others and separated. The family was chased to stickers and paint, and his parents were frightened, and he insisted on carrying 500,000 cash to express his self-esteem to Gu Qingyu, who was not in a hurry, and did not understand the urgent need.
From not wanting a face to suddenly forcibly asking for a face, Picking up shi Yuan's face halfway, for the sake of that loss of self-esteem, he has no matter what is right or wrong, regardless of his parents and wife.
Second, if you don't have a face, you don't have a face at all
1, gu xin who does not have a face at all
Fortunately, Sun Qi opened his eyes, did not go to Gu Xin's pawn again, and decisively chose to leave.
The predecessor is gone, and the most tragic is the current.
After Gu Xin couldn't get his face, he evolved into not having a face at all. Poor Ge Yue was pregnant with Liujia, and he didn't know that the pillow man was trying to eat the head grass, and the pillow man had already put his hand to the next one.
Gu Xin took advantage of the convenience of travel, repeatedly carried his sister-in-law to and from work, and repeatedly created opportunities to get along in the name of work. Gu Xin, who did not have a face at all, and Feng Xixi, who had always been faceless, were just mixed up in this way under the eyes of a large number of relatives.
Obscurely, the new house was still ventilated after decoration, and the hostess Ge Yue had not yet lived in it, so Gu Xin took Feng Xiqian to meet in the candlelight first.
Once people completely lose their faces, they can't imagine what they will do.
Gu Xin was demoted in the promising old unit, took the initiative to ask for adjustment, and did not want to be transferred to the street office in the corner of Kara. He boasted that he had not met with talent, and he was earnest in his meritorious service, and he and Feng Xixi made a dangerous move and embarked on the road of no return.
Poor Ge Yue's family had just undergone a big change, and she caught up with her husband and completely lost face. She worked hard with her young children to take care of him, and while she suffered physical and mental betrayal from her husband, she also had to become a wife of a prisoner.
2, completely do not face the source of the source
The debt collectors went to Gu Qingyu's home and Gu Qingyu's company, and completely tore off the pitiful self-esteem that Shi Yuan had painstakingly maintained in front of Bai Yueguang.
The paper did not cover the fire, the shame was disgraced, Shi Yuan hid in the company bathroom and recalled that his father naturally wanted him to nibble his wife, his mother would rather buy a house than let his wife look down on him, and his wife fell generously in front of the huge debt to share... "To face" and "not face" strongly tore at him, in the end, he chose to completely do not face, decided to betray and frame his wife to fulfill his last-minute "rely on himself" - to spy on the bottom card of Gu Qingyu's big list at night, and help his boss take down the list in Gu Qingyu's hand.
Poor Gu Qingyu is shrewd and accustomed in the workplace, and in the love field is indeed a small white one, how could she not have imagined that this white moonlight who was so clear and strong in front of her would actually join forces with her fierce enemies to pit her in such a way, bearing the notoriety of selling trade secrets for her personal feelings, making her position in the workplace painstakingly operating for twenty years collapse, and making her reputation in the industry discredited.
What Gu Qingyu did not expect was that Shi Yuan chose to be so faceless, and he could also tell his grievances with words, complain about his dislike of listening to concerts, complain about his dislike of playing the piano, and accuse him of having to painstakingly maintain the side of his fading white moonlight in front of her - what does it matter if you lose your job and lose your livelihood, what I have lost is face.
Hadn't shi Yuan himself deliberately disguised himself in front of Gu Qingyu in order to forcibly pick up his discarded face? He wanted to maintain the image of white moonlight in front of the white moonlight, but if he couldn't keep it, he would be angry and angry, and step on people into the abyss. amusing. terrible.
Third, be wary of men who pick up their faces halfway.
Gu Xin and Shi Yuan are typical men who abandon their self-esteem and forcibly pick up halfway, and finally don't have a face at all.
They are not incompetent, on the contrary, both of them have their skills.
Gu Xin is a public official who is one of the best in a thousand, looks like a table of talents, writes a good article, and is very good at expressing himself in front of big people, and the family can sell a house to take out 7 million cash. It can be said that his conditions like this, whether it is the workplace or feelings, are unique and should be smooth.
Shi Yuan is even more versatile, just english eight certificate, proficient in more than Chinese words, you can get rid of a large number of tour guides; casually go to the interest class to substitute a class, you can circle a large number of students and parents; translation materials is also a lot of income; to the rich as a celebrant is also quite popular, casually stand for an hour or two, is a few thousand, tens of thousands of pieces of input... Although he had a debt of 1.5 million yuan and his mother's disease burden, with his eighteen martial arts proficiency, in time, it was not impossible to go out of the world.
But both men's hearts were too poor.
Gu Xin was poor and chose to hitchhike. He was anxious to prove himself, so he threw off his first love for ten years, married Ge Yue, who had a greatly discounted appearance but had a backer, and chose a shortcut to a fast and splendid future;
Shi Yuan was poor and chose to rely on himself and refused all reasonable help. He is anxious to prove his ability, never refuses to fall into the name of "eating soft rice", notarized property before marriage, "AA" as much as possible in the payment of accounts after marriage, his mother's urgently needed kidney source he hopes for heavenly gifts, surgical costs and 1.5 million debts He works hard day and night to earn... In short, we must not spend Gu Qingyu's money and be favored by Gu Qingyu.
Both Gu Xin and Shi Yuan actively or passively dropped their faces, and then forcibly attached importance to self-esteem halfway, so that once they failed, or shortcuts were not passed, or they were found unreliable, they would become more and more faceless.
Therefore, Gu Xin, who did not want to face at all, emotionally betrayed Ge Yue, turned back to Grass Sun Qi and could not eat, and mixed with the same dirty Feng Xixi; when he folded his face in his career, he was more eager to succeed, so he took risks in disregard of the bottom line principle, and finally sent himself to the road of no return, and his wife, children, and parents were affected.
Therefore, Gu Xin, who did not want to face at all, emotionally betrayed Gu Qingyu, stole the confidential information in her hand at night, trapped her in injustice, causing her to lose her job and lose her reputation in the industry; in her career, the large company that was difficult to rely on his wife's relationship to enter, after this stubble, also painted a stain, ruining his mother's physical life of wearing an ancestral watch for him.
IV. Conclusion
There is an old saying that if the heart has no place to dwell, it is wandering everywhere.
The slogan released by the TV series "Heart Residence" is called: Fireworks Life, The Heart Has a Home. The two negative characters of Gu Xin and Shi Yuan, who are portrayed, are typical people with no place to live. Their own conditions are not bad, but no matter how many hole cards they have, they always play poorly, in the words of Gu Xin's old man, such a person will make the road narrower and narrower.
Because the heart is poor, like a black hole, how much it has will be swallowed up by the black hole.
Ge Yue and Gu Qingyu both witnessed the evolution of these two men, from not wanting a face to forcibly asking for a face, and then completely not having a face, and they were hurt in their sudden self-esteem.
Whether it is Ge Yue being looked up to or Gu Qingyu taking the initiative to look up, their experience of holding back tells us: Be wary of men who pick up self-esteem halfway, when they abandon self-esteem again, they will chew you up to the slag. Don't aggrieved yourself in order to maintain their self-esteem, because people with poor hearts cannot be cured by others.