Academic qualifications are an indispensable stepping stone in the development of the workplace, and it is also the first condition that HR will consider in the interview, but do you know that academic qualifications also have a certain impact on marriage, and the hit drama "Heart Residence" in this regard is very intuitive to show this.
Is the academic qualification just a diploma?
Behind a paper diploma, there are two classes
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan were classmates of Qingmei Bamboo Horse when they were children, the boy was full of anger, considerate and gentle, good English, could also play the piano, liked to wear a white shirt, he was a male god worshipped by women, so that women would dress up like this look later when they found a temporary spare tire, he was the crush that women constantly looked for throughout their lives.
Boys are also school bullies, but due to changes in the family, the two people have a great contrast from the living environment to their studies.
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan met, if Shi Yuan could not come back, he would be admitted to the university in Shanghai, and the two people would meet in Shanghai in the future.
Shi Yuan originally wanted to pass the entrance to Fudan University, so he went to find Gu Qingyu, who knew that fate made people, yin and yang errors many factors interfered with him did not get admitted, just read a high post, so the arrogant he no longer had the face to see Gu Qingyu
Until later, the two accidentally reunited again, and pretended to be married, thinking that the happiness began, but in fact, the final ending was doomed from the beginning.
This combination of strength and weakness hurts a party's self-esteem very much, regardless of whether he is a man or a woman.
In the face of the costs needed in marriage, want to give each other happiness, are unable to meet their own satisfaction, high education may not necessarily be rich, but under the threshold of academic qualifications, it is true that the chance of success is higher.
Just like a man, he is not without real talent, he can also teach his child's English well in cram schools, but because the academic certificate is fake, he was reported to be expelled from the ground.
However, when two people have entered different classes, there will be completely different changes from the places where consumption chooses to enter, to aesthetic needs.
This is also the reason why many highly educated women do not marry casually even if they become a fighting Buddha, academic qualifications do not represent character and ability, but more or less affect his development determines the division of classes.
People with the same academic qualifications have the same education, and the contacts have similar interpersonal relationships, and they can get similar opportunities.
The three views and character must not be determined by academic qualifications, but the circle, and this person's ultimate habitual behavior, have a pivotal role under the influence of academic qualifications, like the male protagonist in the play, just because of the later changes, so he habitually plays mahjong like a leper and gossips with people in the alley.
Even if you work hard to succeed, you will be suspected of taking shortcuts or even use disgraceful means.
Perhaps it is not necessary or should not be inferior or even self-defeating because of their low education, but it does have to be admitted that it is difficult to be happy when two people with different academic qualifications are combined, or there will be more things that need to be run-in.
A lifetime is too long, a momentary pandering is easy, and a lifetime of insisting on procrastination is too difficult
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan were able to be considerate and tolerant of each other at the beginning, and everything was for each other's sake, but marriage was not a family, not kissing me, and after kissing me, they would go back to each family to find their own mothers, it was really necessary to live together, it was easy to pander for a while, and it was not easy to insist on it for a lifetime.
One feels aggrieved, the other feels that life is suffocated, everyone has their own fatigue, all of which stems from the difference in status inequality, and the root of the distance is difficult to be chased from the beginning of the academic qualifications, just imagine the IQ ability and fighting strength of the male protagonist, if the same education, the same opportunity, may not be much worse than the wife, or even far beyond the woman.
What age is not a problem, height is not a gap, in fact, many conditions that seem to be ignored because of love will become insurmountable problems in future life, because too many realities are really tapping to remind each other of the gap.
No one is not worthy of anyone's statement, but the watershed of academic qualifications, so that the two people from the three views, the vision, the contact of the network, have an essential difference, and at this time, how can a lifetime without conflict, can always say that it does not matter I love you have no problem.
Things are clustered in groups, and academic qualifications may have helped us to make a screening from the beginning, not necessarily the people in this circle must be good, but they have made a rough distinction, invisibly classified three, six, nine, and so on.
Whether it was or is now, we may have had the experience of learning for others, and we may have missed the best period of study, but as long as we maintain the awareness of continuous learning, truly improve ourselves, and find someone who is really suitable for us, we can live our own life. Climbing high and low will become a burden, and it is difficult to live easily.
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Text/Relief Emotional Station
(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.