Life and the world are more or less like this, close, not spectacular. ——Zheng Zhi
Over there, it seems to be a little bad for a while. At the dinner, Su Wangdi sighed and said, "The benefits are not stained with anything, don't bother us now", regardless of whether Xiao Ge was present or not.
Ge Yue's father had an accident, the position was almost not saved, the rest were confiscated, fortunately there was a small house left to live in. At this time, Ge Yue's mother-in-law said her thoughts undisguisedly at the family dinner, afraid that the Ge family would affect herself.
Ge Yue was honest and sat there without saying a word. But aunt Gu Shilian comforted, don't pay attention to those words, don't think too much, just think more about the child in your belly, you have to be good.
This scene is very realistic, some relatives are afraid to avoid it, and when you have glory, you will add icing on the cake.
In fact, after Ge's father had an accident, not to mention his mother-in-law, even Gu Xin consciously kept a distance. Fortunately, Ge Yue's uncle was in good condition, otherwise he might have been even worse.
Father Ge's biggest failure was to choose the wrong son-in-law, thinking that he could count on him when he was old, but he did not expect that he would withdraw faster than anyone else.
On the day that Ge Yue's father was demoted and punished, Ge Yue's father pulled his daughter to his side: "In the future, you will have to rely on yourself--" Her heart sank, and she felt some kind of pressure that she had never felt before. But only for a moment. Chaos is habitual, and it is not enough to react.
Ge Yue, who had been pampered from childhood to adulthood, felt unprecedented pressure when she heard her father's words. But then she abandoned it, and this withdrawn personality was her usual style. She seemed to be running away from difficulties, from things she didn't want to face, like an ostrich tucking its head into the sand, thinking it could escape everything.
But the reality has always been there, she is only confused, she does not know what to do, she is confused and can't find the direction, and no one tells her what to do.
During this period, Ge Yue, who was in the in-laws' family, had the most difficult days. She was pregnant, and something happened to her mother's family. The mother-in-law nagged every day for fear that her son would be implicated, and Ge Yue could only listen to these words. Her heart is extremely tormented, and her husband Gu Xin has no comfort. She is like a wooden person in this home, mechanical, wooden and conforming to all unbearable sounds.
Father-in-law Gu Shihai is a taciturn and selfish stubborn old man. When he chatted with his brother, he said, "It's not good to get them divorced." If her father really wants to do something, we will definitely be implicated. Xinxin is still young, but it is better to leave it now. "It's even more cold-blooded.
Gu Shihai was afraid, afraid that his son would go the same old way as he had.
Human nature is realistic, and once it comes into contact with self-interest, everyone takes care of themselves first. Gu Shihai's indifference was so insensitive that gu Shilian gave up the house for them to live as a family, as the eldest brother, he just said thank you.
When Gu Shilian had cancer, other relatives helped each other, and Gu Shihai's family was simply indifferent to the freezing point. Therefore, Gu Xin's indifference was with his father. There is also no gratitude, selfishness, indifference and ruthlessness. Therefore, Ge Yue's marriage to such a family is really marrying the wrong person to ruin his life.
Although her parents asked her about the situation on this side every three or five minutes, whether the little hairy head was good, whether you were good or not, whether the family was good or not. What is good and what is not good, she is sometimes quite confused. She is not a person who is good at summarizing, how to live a life, how to be a man, she has no count in her heart.
Ge Yue is a person who has no requirements, and her parents' worries seem superfluous. She has no idea what "good" is? She just wants to be stable, but her husband is not clear with the woman outside, and the in-laws are also a mess, and she is like admitting her fate.
This marriage is suffocating, and in this pool of stagnant water, a circle of ripples occasionally ripples, and it continues to restore its former calm.
But she could bear it. Because she didn't know that without such a life, there was another choice?
Ge Yue endured a lot in this marriage, until Gu Xin had an accident and went to prison, she realized that it was time to change herself!
She wanted to change herself. That cowardly Ge Yue, she wanted to dump her.
Therefore, she decided to wait for Gu Xin for three years and divorce him when he came out.
When she said this to Gu Xin, Gu Xin was stunned, which he did not expect.
The ending in the original book of "Heart Residence" is open, Ge Yue remembered Xiao Lu who had a good feeling for her at the beginning, and her mind flashed, it was better to find the fool with the surname Lu...
Finally, she found Xiao Lu, spoke softly, smiled and asked, "Do you like to listen to Yue opera?" "I have a little nine sisters in my family" or "Mulberry Garden Visits Wife", I will sing to you. ”
This is also the beginning of Ge Yue's "blackening", yes, she began to change...
Why does Honest Ge Yue go to "blackening"?
This is inseparable from the people around her, the shrewd mother-in-law, the silent and selfish father-in-law, and the cold and heartless husband Gu Xin, who does not love her, and even Father Ge.
Such a family environment prompted Ge Yue, a gentle and kind girl, to be forced to change.
Each swept the snow in front of the door, the trees fell and scattered, and we could not see the unity that should be there in Ge Yue's home. On the contrary, they all went their own way, and the incompetent Ge Yue was the most miserable one in the family.
First of all, the mother-in-law turned a blind eye to her son Gu Xin's cheating, and she was reluctant to take care of it, so she chose to avoid it. Gu Shihai, the father-in-law of the head of the family, has no father's authority and chooses to ignore his son's behavior.
Gu Xin also rarely talked to his parents about his heart, so in the process of growing up, his parents gave him no worries about food and clothing, but he was rarely constrained in terms of personality. This leads to Gu Xin's selfish and indifferent personality.
Secondly, Ge Yue did not get love and care at all when she married into this family. So after experiencing his father's accident, Gu Xin cheated twice, and finally went to jail, when no one could count on it, Ge Yue realized at that moment how cowardly he had been before. Therefore, she wanted to change herself, to get rid of the cowardly Ge Yue.
Finally, Ge Yue began to change herself, this time she had a clear goal and knew what she wanted. She began to date Xiao Lu by any means, which was also a kind of revenge for Gu Xin...