Women are sensual animals, and their standards for happiness are very low, and their standards for unhappiness are many. Women always like to complain, feel that they have been wronged, and feel that their lives are too miserable, but once there is a turnaround, their ideas will immediately change.
Everyone has a different life, no one says who, the only thing we can dominate is our own part.
After reading the novel "Heart Residence", I have a lot of feelings, especially for women. There are seven more important women in the novel, they have seven completely different lives, there are their own happiness, but also their own sorrows, so in contrast, who is the most tragic one?
Gu Qingyu - No love
Gu Qingyu is the best among women, graduated from a famous university, high occupation, high salary, high face, how many men dream of the object, but such Gu Qingyu is a lack of love and longing for love.
She and her first love Shi Yuan were separated for more than twenty years, and the second time they met was when Gu Qingyu wanted to fake marriage. Later, the relationship between the two quickly warmed up, and before they met their parents, they directly entered the palace of marriage.
I thought that many years of long-cherished wishes would finally come true, but I did not expect that the two of them had a conflict because of family trivia, perhaps until then she found out that they were no longer the original them, the love of the adolescent period was twenty years apart, and the marriage of adults was not only love, but also class, education, family, social status, etc.
In this way, the two hurriedly married and divorced in a hurry, Gu Qingyu had everything but no love, which was also pitiful in her opinion!
Feng Xiaoqin - powerless
At the age of fourteen, he stole the forbidden fruit with his classmates, gave birth to his first child at the age of fifteen, went to Shanghai to sell insurance at the age of sixteen, married Gu Lei before marriage at the age of twenty, did Feng Xiaoqin's first twenty years surprise you?
Feng Xiaoqin is a woman who does not accept defeat, but also a very bold woman, from the fact that she secretly gave birth to a child and treated her son as a younger brother, Feng Xiaoqin's parents are still very fond of her. The Feng family pinned almost all their hopes on Feng Xiaoqin, which was also an important reason for her to go to Shanghai.
When Feng Xiaoqin first arrived in Shanghai, in order to sell an insurance, he could even sacrifice hue, let those smelly men touch their hands, take advantage of some, and the money can be earned is the king. Under the domination of this kind of thinking, she fell in love with the disabled Gu Lei, although he was not excellent, but with a Shanghai hukou and a house, it was enough for her to take root in this big city.
But Gu Lei died unexpectedly, and Feng Xiaoqin couldn't do anything no matter how strong he was. Even if she later cooperated with Zhan Xiang to open a nursing home, if Zhan Xiang did not take care of her, then what could Feng Xiaoqin achieve on her own?
Feng Xiaoqin was proud all her life, wanting too much and doing too little.
Sissi Von - Shameless
Among many women, Feng Xixi should be the most shameless one!
She came to Shanghai after graduating from high school, lived in her sister's house for several years, and was not willing to do such work as a nanny and waiter, because she looked like a worker, and it was impossible to stay in Shanghai in the future. Isn't there a lot of thought? I can't figure out how many pounds I have!
Later, with the help of Zhan Xiang, she went to work in a small bank and was responsible for the loan business, but unfortunately she could not earn money, so she set her sights on Gu Xin. She took advantage of Gu Xin's position to operate illegally, the salary was earned, the house was also in hand, and as a result, Gu Xin's violation was exposed, he went in, and Feng Xixi eventually lost everything, just like when she came, and returned to her hometown.
Feng Xixi can sacrifice everything for money, including her own body, she only has success in her eyes, no matter the means, even if it is deliberately destroying other people's families, such a woman is not worth pitying!
Ge Yue - Incompetent
Ge Yue should be the most incompetent woman.
Protected since childhood, she will not distinguish men, nor have she ever been in love, Gu Xin slightly hooked her hand, and she was deeply involved in it. At the beginning, she still had the support of her mother's family, but when her father fell, Gu Xin's true face was revealed, and she had to endure the cold violence of her husband and the cold words of her mother-in-law all day, she did not want to, but she could not!
She knew that her husband was cheating but did not dare to divorce, and when she finally plucked up enough courage to leave the scumbag, she did not expect him to go in, which was the best time for her divorce, but she still did not give up. Such a Ge Yue was humble to the dust, but he was also a Dou who could not be supported, and he did not know how to help her.
Su Wangdi - heartless
Su Wangdi is Gu Xin's mother and Ge Yue's mother-in-law. When he was young, he went to the mountains and the countryside, suffered a lot of hardships, and thought that he could rest in peace after cultivating excellent sons. When her son married a high-ranking woman, she was fluttering, not only suppressing her daughter-in-law everywhere, but also showing off in front of her family, saying what she should say, saying what she shouldn't say, in short, her mouth should be painful! She may be unintentional, but the harm to others is also real.
When her family was strong, she belittled her daughter-in-law and let her live according to her lifestyle. When her family was weak, she demeaned her daughter-in-law everywhere, saying cool things in front of everyone, so that her daughter-in-law had no place to look at herself.
She was also a poor person, serving her husband and son when she was young, giving everything for the family, but her husband only treated her as a free nanny without the slightest pity. When the son grew up, he also looked down on his mother, thinking that they did not help him grow in his career. In her later years, Su Wangdi was extremely cold in the face of her husband and son, but it was also too late.
Hua Yongyu - lifeless
Shi Yuan's mother, a famous girl, has known how glorious her family is since she was a child, but when she came to her, she went to xinjiang to go to the mountains and go to the countryside.
She pinned all her hopes on her son, but when his son wanted to return to Shanghai, he was delayed because no one accepted him. Shi Yuan took the college entrance examination in Xinjiang, hua Yongyu unknowingly gave him sleeping pills, resulting in Shi Yuan's failure in the college entrance examination, and his life has been swept to the end. Hua Yongyu felt that he had harmed his son.
She had depression, several opportunities to change her fate, their family did not grasp it, and finally her son was almost forty years old but still lived in a dilapidated alley, interacting with a group of people who did not fit in, Hua Yongyu was not willing! What is even more ridiculous is that while they accepted their incompetence, distant relatives left a will and gave them a villa.
In the end, Hua Yongyu committed suicide due to depression, and three days later, she could see the new house her son bought, but unfortunately everything was fate, and Hua Yongyu did not have this life!
Gu Shilian - selfless
The Gu family had three children, the eldest son Gu Shihai went to Heilongjiang when he was young, and returned to Shanghai after retirement, with a pitifully low salary. The second eldest, Gu Shihong, is a retired high school teacher with a salary that is not low. The third gu Shilian is an excellent young man in the factory, and the conditions are good.
At the beginning, the Gu family's old house was demolished and two houses were demolished, because Gu Shilian's hukou was not moved, so she got a smaller set, and the larger set was given to the second gu Shihong, who lived with the old mother. The eldest Gu Shihai had nothing to do after his hukou was moved away, but sooner or later he was going to return to Shanghai, and his sister felt that he could not let his brother have no place to stay, so he transferred the house to Gu Xin, the son of the eldest brother.
Many years later, Gu Shilian had cancer, and it had spread in many places, but what tormented her was not the pain, but the attitude of the eldest brother's family. When the cancer was first detected, the second brother's family gave a lot of help, but the eldest brother's family did not have any expression, even Gu Xin, who had already participated in the work, only bought fruit, and Gu Shilian's heart was extremely uncomfortable.
Later, Gu Xin wanted to get married and bought a house in a high-end community, Gu Shihai sold the house given by his sister to his son to pay a down payment, and the Gu family felt uncomfortable.
In order to provide for her daughter to study abroad, Gu Shilian sold her only house and then bought a second-hand house, and paid the difference in price for her daughter to study and treat herself. At this time, the eldest brother still had two houses in his hand, because Gu Xin's mansion was bought and sold, and it was reasonable to say that the eldest brother should be rich, but until Gu Shilian was seriously ill, the eldest brother still did not say, and the brothers and sisters also made a lot of contradictions.
Gu Shilian should be the most bitter of all women!
Dignified and stable, but married to the little in the factory, when he was young, he did not show it, and when he retired, the gap between the couple came out, fortunately, her husband was still good to her, but Gu Shilian's heart was still not at ease.
The daughter is not biological, but for her, the couple still gives everything they have, but after all, the daughter is abroad, no matter how good it is, what is the use? Gu Shilian's cancer has spread many times, and in the last few years, she has not enjoyed the filial piety of her daughter, and she has not seen the reward for many years of effort.
Gu Shilian endured physical pain, endured the hurt of feelings even stronger, and she failed to win a good life with a kind heart, she should be the most tragic woman!