Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu's married life, although they love each other very much and respect each other as guests, but the husband and wife are too polite, like a candy blower, a little carelessness, it broke. Both sides are trying their best, but they feel too tired and suffocated, the reason is that the strength between husband and wife is not equal, the woman is stronger, and the man is too sensitive.
Heart dwelling
First of all, the family situation is not equal, Shi Yuan's mother actually disliked Gu Qingyu, and Gu Shihong's first family meeting, just like several family treasures told the gu family's experience, saying that Gu Shihong was a language teacher, his eldest brother had been a Zhiqing, his sister was an accountant in a state-run unit, this is a very ordinary livelihood, if placed decades ago, how can such a family situation come to climb the family with her family lineage of Xiangmendi?
Shi Yuan's mother is called Hua Yongyu, once everyone's bridesmaid, she looked down on ordinary people in her heart, although over the years the family fell in the middle of the road, she and her husband lived a life even more broken, but Hua Yongyu's heart is very high, the huge gap between reality and ideals, let her suffer from bipolar disorder, only to say such inappropriate words. But this is like spitting out the truth after drinking, but telling the real idea.
Hua Yongyu is seriously ill and needs surgery to replace the kidney, which requires a lot of money, and the 1.2 million yuan owed to the financial company has made Shi Yuan busy in the dark, to be honest, Shi Yuan temporarily does not have the financial strength to pay for the kidney replacement surgery fee for his mother.
Gu Qingyu found the source of the kidney and quietly paid 500,000 yuan for the operation, which allowed the mother-in-law to accept a successful kidney transplant.
However, Shi Yuan felt that things were strange, and he had been unlucky for many years, and no good thing would fall on his head.
Knowing that the operation fee was paid by Gu Qingyu, Shi Yuan's sensitive and fragile self-esteem was once again touched, which led to the separation of the two.
I don't know if Shi Yuan regrets it? Since Gu Qingyu didn't care about his past and had already promised him, then Shi Yuan was no longer mixed up and his heart was depressed, and he shouldn't say in front of his wife that he was better off Zhan Xiang.
This not only degraded himself, but also took Gu Qingyu as someone else? Since he was so unbearable, Gu Qingyu finally chose him, was he not blind? Besides, this is easy to make the other party in the couple think more, is it not unclear with Zhan Xiang? Is there ambiguity? After all, the two had just climbed the mountain and eaten hot pot together, and Gu Qingyu drank ice Coke and drank bad stomach and went to the hospital.
As soon as Shi Yuan opened the door, he saw the collection slip pasted on the door, and the financial company he was indebted to had recently become more and more eager to collect money.
Shi Yuan received a phone call, the groom official who presided over the wedding last time Shi Yuan said that on the 28th of this month, his cousin got married, the cost was 8888 yuan, if Shi Yuan was interested, he would recommend Shi Yuan to his cousin as a wedding celebrant.
Although he felt that this matter was boring in his heart, Shi Yuan still agreed to help people officiate at the wedding in order to make a living.
After struggling to raise 500,000 yuan, Shi Yuan actually carried a black bag filled with 500,000 cash and wanted to repay the money to Gu Qingyu in person.
Gu Qingyu looked at Shi Yuan's serious face, and his heart was sour, saying that he would not ask for this money.
Shi Yuan reached out and mentioned that the 500,000 cash should be handed over to Gu Qingyu,000, saying that she would accept it no matter what, and it was precisely because she did not tell him to transfer the bank account, he could only carry the cash over, this bag of cash was quite heavy, don't let it fall to the ground, and then be blown by the wind a few sheets, it is not good.
Looking at Shi Yuan so real, Gu Qingyu cried and laughed, they are husband and wife, they have not yet divorced, is it necessary to divide them so clearly?
Shi Yuan only knew that he had returned the money, which would preserve his self-esteem, but what Shi Yuan didn't know was that if the 500,000 yuan was returned, he would personally ruin Gu Qingyu's marital love. In other words, the two are not far from divorce. Because the division is so clear, it is really not a husband and wife. There is only the saying that "brothers and brothers clearly settle accounts", and the words often used between husband and wife are "mutually exclusive", how can they distinguish each other?
Talking about Shi Yuan's self-esteem and sensitivity, I can't help but think of Gu Xin, who is also a figure who feels depressed in his heart, but Gu Xin is far less frank than Shi Yuan, and Gu Xin is completely relying on his various advantages and conditions to kill a road of no return with peach blossom luck.
Many viewers wondered, Gu Xin's various conditions are not outstanding, he is not handsome, he does not have the wealth of Zhan Xiang, there is no Bending in Shi Liming's mind, it is such a very ordinary Gu Xin, why is it so popular with women? First the great beauty Sun Qi talked to him for ten years of love, then Ge Yue did not hesitate to marry him, and Gu Xin cheated on Feng Xiqian in marriage.
Gu Xin was about thirty years old, with a medium to upper look, about 185 in height, graduated from a university in 985 colleges, and only this one item of education left Shi Yuan and Zhan Xiang behind. Gu Xin is a native of Shanghai, an only child, or a civil servant, at the level of a department, his parents are retired, willing to take out 7 million yuan to buy a wedding house for his son, and there is no burden on the family.
The above conditions, in terms of a single article, are not outstanding, but when they are gathered together with a man, it is considered to be excellent comprehensive conditions and easy to commit peach blossoms.
Sun Qi may have taken a fancy to Gu Xin's local hukou, Ge Yue looked up to Gu Xin's high-ranking marshal, and Feng Xiqian looked at the power in Gu Xin's hands.
Feng Xixi originally had no idea about Gu Xin, and a dinner with Huang Someone made her see Gu Xin's use value.
Huang Someone insulted Feng Xixi's attempt, so he thought of knocking her a bamboo bar, looking at the dishes he ordered, extravagant and wasteful, and said in advance that he would let Feng Xixi pay the bill.
Happened to meet Gu Xin, learned that Feng Xixi was actually a relative of Gu Xin, Huang Someone hurriedly begged Director Gu, not only paid for Feng Xixi's meal, but also paid for Gu Xin's table of meals, but also reminded Feng Xixi that the big customers of the bank can be state-owned enterprises and government departments, Feng Xixi has relatives like Director Gu, why go around and find him to pull credit?
Feng Xiqian only then turned her attention to Gu Xin, and learned that Ge Yue's uncle was engaged in real estate, so she did not hesitate to put blood on Gu Xin in order to attract credit.
Feng Xixi followed Gu Xin to open her eyes and said that this house is really good, if you give her a house like this, let her live for twenty years less.
Gu Xin asked, how many boyfriends have she talked about before?
Feng Xixi said that if the conditions are good, people can't look up to her; if the conditions at home are poor, she still can't look up to her.
Hearing that Feng Xixi wanted to find a Shanghai man, Gu Xin thought about it.
Gu Xin is a scumbag physique, before Ge Yue was pregnant, he wanted to start over with his ex-girlfriend because of his mother-in-law's few unsolicited harsh words.
If it were not for Sun Qi getting the ideal job opportunity, and then changing his original intention and deciding to leave, Gu Xin would have derailed once a long time ago.
On the one hand, Gu Xin wants to use nepotism to get the opportunity for promotion; on the other hand, he can't stand gossip, feeling that his future is his master and does not listen to advice.
Gu Xin was transferred to the street office, and his father-in-law was very disappointed, thinking that everything in his son-in-law had to start over, and such a big thing did not give the family a breath in advance. Ge Yaomin believed that the son-in-law originally only had to calm down and do a good job, sooner or later there would be a chance, but Gu Xin gave up like this, and the road in this life became narrower and narrower.
As parents, Gu Shihai and Su Wangdi could not control their sons, and could only stare dryly.
After Ge Yaomin fell from power, the director of Gu Xin's department deliberately took Gu Xin away.
Therefore, Gu Xin had no face to stay any longer, so he had to go to the street office to take up his post.
When it came to the new unit, Gu Xin wanted to open up the situation, and the street office also had corresponding development projects that needed funds and credit, so that Gu Xin and Feng Xixi were mutually beneficial, but each of them had a firm foothold in the unit.
Feng Xixi's appetite is not only the credit business commission of the Yellow Sea Bank, she ambiguously focuses on Gu Xin, who wants to win the capital credit of Ge Yue's uncle's real estate company. Ge Yue's uncle is an old jianghu, and as soon as they met, he saw the ambiguous relationship between Gu Xin and Feng Xiqian, he saw through it and did not say it thoroughly, only hoping to make money.
Ge Yue's uncle sold a house worth 8 million yuan in half and gave it to Feng Xixi for a price of 2 million yuan. This made Feng Xixi addicted, and even the kickbacks given to her by Ge Yue's uncle were much more than the commission of the Yellow Sea Bank, not to mention the ultra-low price to send a house.
This made Feng Xiqian flutter, feeling that she was better than her sister, and it was not long before she worked, she owned her own house, and Feng Xiaoqin's dream was realized by her in advance.
Feng Xiaoqin heard a knock at the door, thinking that her sister did not have the key to go out, ran over to open the door, stunned, Feng Danian stood in front of her eyes, saying that he could find the eldest sister.
When the family ate together, Gu Yin said that he would let Feng Danian go today, anyway, he would go back in a few days, and no one at home welcomed him.
Feng Danian said that he did not say that he wanted to leave. Feng Xiaoqin hurriedly shouted to stop her son, and her two sons were fighting at the dinner table, but it was not what she wanted to see.
Mrs. Gu was right when she said "Little Tiger".
Feng Danian violently put down his chopsticks and said that the family had united to bully him, so could he not leave?
Watching Feng Danian grab the door and go out, Feng Xiaoqin couldn't hold back and asked him what kind of madness he wanted to make?
Old Mrs. Gu mended the knife, looked at Feng Xiaoqin and said let him go, it was better to leave.
It seems that the selfishness of the eldest son Gu Shihai, including Gu Xin's selfishness, all followed Gu Old Lady. The old lady was still nagging Gu Lei in her mouth until her death, and seeing that Gu Qingyu lied that she was all right and all right, the old lady closed her eyes and swallowed. Mrs. Gu has been partial to her children and grandchildren all her life, and is not very kind to her daughter-in-law and daughter.
Feng Xiaoqin is very anxious to open a "not too late" nursing home, once it is opened, she will not only open her career, but even Feng Danian has a reasonable place to go.
The clerk took the application for the opening plan submitted by Feng Xiaoqin, thinking that this was not OK, and the writing was too rough. This can be difficult for Feng Xiaoqin, at this time Gu Xin came out of the office, saw Feng Xiaoqin shouted a sister-in-law, helped her review the plan to open a nursing home, said that the problem is that there are no bright spots in the writing, to add some creative elements into it, the most important thing is to have sensational things to come in.
Zhan Xiang asked Gu Qingyu to guide the work, and Gu Qingyu told Feng Xiaoqin that the first two lines of the plan she wrote made people feel that the entire article was copied from the Internet.
Zhan Xiang told Feng Xiaoqin that to highlight the characteristics of "not too late" nursing homes, the way is to throw money and smash hard.
Gu Qingyu quipped to Zhan Xiang, she thinks that building a tarmac on the roof of the nursing home, buying two helicopters to land on it, Zhan Xiang takes the elderly to go for a walk every day, then other nursing homes can not do their work.
Zhan Xiang was very excited to clap his hands and also read the English "good idea", which was a good pronunciation, more accurate than the sign "santra" that Zhan Xiang held up when he went to the airport to meet Gu Qingyu.
Feng Xiaoqin was almost laughing when she heard it.
Feng Xixi once told her sister that in order to trap the "wolf", she did not hesitate to go shirtless and was not afraid of "giving up the child".
Gu Xin felt that only in front of Feng Xixi, he could do anything, and could reflect the dignity and value of a man.
Therefore, between Feng Xixi and Gu Xin, the two once laughed and called themselves a pair of "dog men and women", and sometimes regarded each other as confidants.
It was in this situation that Gu Xin cheated on Feng Xiqian, and the two of them took what they needed.
Ge Yue discovered her husband's cheating behavior and downloaded the monitoring software on Gu Xin's mobile phone. Although he had a real hammer, Ge Yue had no choice but to think of divorce with Gu Xin. However, at this time, Ge Yue was pregnant for several months, if she divorced Gu Xin, how should the two children be placed?
In the end, Gu Xin's superiors were suspected of accepting bribes, and Ge Yue's uncle was investigated for bribery and loan fraud. Gu Xin and Feng Xixi could not hide, Feng Xixi was expelled from the unit, Gu Xin was detained, and after trial, he would face the disaster of imprisonment. Ge Yue went to visit, saying that when he was released from prison, he would divorce, but Ge Yue turned to find xiao Lu, who had once had a crush on her, and wanted the current Director Lu to help save Gu Xin. It's really hard for Ge Yue, I don't know whether to divorce or find someone to help save her husband?