There are two "evil mothers-in-law" in "Heart Residence", one is Shi Yuan's mother Hua Yongyu, and the other is Gu Xin's mother Su Wangdi. But Su Wangdi's "evil" is still different from Hua Yongyu's "evil".
Hua Yongyu is the kind of evil that he can't live with himself, and therefore can't get along with everyone, while Su Wangdi is the evil that identifies with and firmly believes in a certain concept and takes that concept as his own code of conduct.
Which concept does Su Wangdi take as her code of conduct?
It is the concept that "when a woman marries a person, she is a person of the in-laws' family, and she must pass on the lineage, teach her husband and children, and can no longer be as pretentious as before." Of course, this concept exists more or less in the hearts of many mothers-in-law today, so Su Wangdi's "evil" is more grounded.
We can see that when Ge Yue married Gu Xin, Su Wangdi always accused her of spending money and spending lavishly, Ge Yue had morning sickness, Su Wangdi said that which woman gave birth to a child is like that, Ge Yue wanted to rest for a few days, Su Wangdi said that she worked until the day before giving birth to Gu Xin... Su Wangdi is this kind of "evil mother-in-law" who has no sense of boundaries and wants to mix everything.
However, this kind of evil mother-in-law is essentially just a woman with a bitter life, and it is precisely because she has suffered for many years that she feels that it is nothing for her daughter-in-law to suffer a little, and she feels that those sufferings are all that women deserve.
But Su Wangdi is a little different from these "evil mothers-in-law" in the traditional sense, and the difference is that she has a moment of "reforming evil and returning to righteousness".
In the latest plot, Ge Yue returns from her mother's house, Su Wangdi gave her two chicken legs during dinner, and when Ge Yue clipped to Gu Xin, she snatched them back and put them back in Ge Yue's bowl. Ge Yue picked up the chicken leg again and gave it to her father-in-law, and Su Wangdi snatched it back and put it in her bowl.
This is probably the first time, Su Wangdi and her daughter-in-law stood together, although it was only a gamble with her son, I think for Ge Yue, there is also some warmth.
Behind Su Wangdi's "reform of evil and return to righteousness".
It is said that it is a gamble with the son, but where does the mother and son have an overnight vendetta? Even if she is really dissatisfied with her son, then why doesn't even her husband let her eat chicken legs? In fact, behind Su Wangdi's series of behaviors, there is a real chill for the Gu family man, of course, this includes her husband, or mainly her husband.
Why did the man of the Gu family chill Su Wangdi's heart? Su Wangdi herself said that when she gave birth to Gu Xin, she was still working the day before giving birth, which shows that she was also quite bitter at that time. But Gu Shihai is a man who will hurt his wife, and he will not let his wife work the day before giving birth to a child.
From the current marital status of the two of them, we can also see that Gu Shihai, although his temper is okay and listens to his wife's words, is really irresponsible, and the big things and small things in the family almost don't matter. And Su Wangdi has the concept of "xiangfu godson", and her labor is naturally indispensable inside and out.
A woman marries such a man, even if she is virtuous and traditional, she will always complain. Therefore, when Gu Xin yelled at Ge Yue, Su Wangdi would tell her: "The men who take care of the family don't know how to hurt their wives." It wasn't a joke, it was how she felt so deeply for so many years.
It is precisely because of this feeling that when her son drunkenly said the words that complained about his parents, Su Wangdi really felt cold. You think, she has worked hard for so many years, almost all her energy has been put on her husband and son, but the result is not to be hurt by her husband, not to be loved by her son, can she not be chilled?
Gu Xin's words are a fuse that triggers Su Wangdi's cold heart, and what she really wants to express is her hard work and grievances for so many years, and the "unfamiliarity" of the father and son. She also understands that her today is actually Ge Yue's tomorrow, at this time, as a woman, she also has a feeling of pity for her daughter-in-law.
What does Su Wangdi's "reform of evil and conversion" make us understand?
Although Su Wangdi is a person, she can't change her personality and concept at once, her kindness to her daughter-in-law is only an occasional phenomenon, and her complaints about men, even for a lifetime, she will complain and pay at the same time.
But it is still like a gap in the clouds, through which we see a ray of sunshine. This ray of sunshine is Su Wangdi's self that has not yet been completely lost—she is not a walking corpse who only knows how to endure and bear.
In fact, the reason why Su Wangdi has suffered all her life, full of grievances and complaints, and is still willing to continue this marriage and continue to pay for the men of the Gu family, is because Gu Shihai is not cold enough to make Su Wangdi despair - at least, he still listens to his wife.
Looking back at the small couple of Gu Xin and Ge Yue, Gu Xin is actually much cooler than his father, he ignores his pregnant wife, wants to reunite with his ex-girlfriend, and when his mother interferes and blames his wife, he does not say a word.
In the original work of "Heart Residence", Gu Xin's various cool behaviors are even more excessive, he is unwilling to reach out and hold his child, he let his wife in the month get up at night to burp the child for diapers, he and Feng Xixi under his wife's eyes, so Ge Yue finally filed a divorce with Gu Xin.
You see, marriage is like this. Sometimes, a woman's patience is very surprising, she can bear almost any grievances and hardships for her husband and children. But Ren is a virtuous and stoic woman, if you have not known how to cherish, she will always have a moment of being chilled.
So, man, when your wife is single-mindedly good to you, puts up with your stinky temper, and pretends not to see certain of your behaviors, you must not think that she is really stupid and can be stupid for a lifetime. You know, she's giving herself hope and giving you a chance.
When she's really cold and desperate, you can't burn her anymore.
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