Text/Ye Xuxing
Women become mothers, and their bodies are full of weaknesses.
But when the child is married, the unclear mother will become the child's weakness.
The two marriages in "Heart Residence" are particularly uncomfortable.
One is Gu Xin and Ge Yue, and the other is Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan.
In addition, the three mothers in these two marriages are really suffocating.
1) The mother who can't let go of her hands, the well-behaved girl who doesn't grow up
Ge Yue is the most distressing character in the whole play.
What is wrong with her is nothing more than choosing someone she likes to marry. If you like it, you may not be happy with each other.
Ge Yue's kindness is more or less based on the favorable living conditions given by his parents, and he is not deeply involved in the world, and he is better protected by his parents.
Ge Yue was wronged and would use her mother's house as a place to talk.
For example, Ge Yue and Gu Xin went to their mother-in-law's house for dinner, and after the meal, the mother-in-law said in a strange way that Gu Xin only took his father-in-law to see a doctor, not his mother.
This matter, Ge Yue turned around and told his mother. Ge Yue's mother said that Gu Xin's words were heard by Gu Xin.
Therefore, in the play, we will see that Ge Yue has just finished talking, and Ge Yue's mother will immediately call Gu Xin to come to the front to educate.
Including Ge Yue forgot to hang up the phone, her parents heard that she suspected that Gu Xin and her ex-girlfriend had broken off the connection, and her parents immediately asked Ge Yue to hand the phone to Gu Xin.
And the well-behaved woman Ge Yue did not hesitate to hand the phone to Gu Xin.
It was just a misunderstanding, but things turned out to be getting worse and worse. Gu Xin originally cared about Ge Yue's goodness and the impact of life changes on Ge Yue, but people are self after all, and no one can unconditionally suppress themselves for a long time.
Moreover, judging from Gu Xin's request for a transfer, Gu Xin is not a person who can bear the burden of humiliation.
Ge Yue's behavior is like the man in the mother-in-law relationship that we often complained about before. She constantly passed on to each other the affairs of her mother's family, her in-laws' family, and her own marriage.
She was out of her mother's house and felt protected. However, there is no help in solving their marriage problems. Long-term suppression will only make people have a rebellious psychology.
And Ge Yue, who is under protection, will not grow. Like a brainless doll, well-behaved and kind and harmless.
2) Yin and Yang Weird Mom
Gu Xin's mother is a person who does not like to talk. This can be seen from the family dinner, which pot does not open which pot, does not care about the face of others, only wants to speak quickly.
Gu Xin's mother is snobbish, and her mother-in-law filter for her son is different from Shi Yuan's mother's filter on her son's mother-in-law.
Gu Xin's mother is a person who can show off her daughter-in-law's height on the one hand, and know that her daughter-in-law's father is the leader on the other hand, and can immediately change. Her filter is that she wants her son to have a better life.
To some extent, such a shortcut psychology will also be contagious to the son.
And Shi Yuan's mother's yin and yang strange qi is trapped in the past pride and pity for her son, so she does not look up to Gu Qingyu, and she wants to find a balance in Gu Qingyu's origin, even if all the clear-eyed people, including Shi Yuan, feel that they have climbed Gu Qingyu high.
And these two mothers have one thing in common, that is, yin and yang weirdness.
Gu Xin's mother's yin and yang weirdness is that she does not want her son to be too biased towards the father-in-law's family. Therefore, as soon as the father-in-law had an accident, he wanted the young couple to move back.
Shi Yuan's mother, on the other hand, is looking for her son to make up for her marital status. And this kind of compensation just hit Gu Qingyu's face and pride.
Gu Xin and Ge Yue, in their respective mothers, had never been relieved.
Ge Yue took comfort from his mother, but made a microphone and poured oil on the fire.
Gu Xin got a sneer from his mother, fell into the shortcut mentality of climbing upwards and being incompetent, and wanted to escape from all this.
Shi Yuan lost to his mother's failure to tell objective facts, and Gu Qingyu lost to his mother-in-law's failure to give face.
3) Don't meddle in your child's marriage
Mothers take it for granted to protect their children.
But marriage is not a battlefield, marriage requires the withdrawal of parents.
Providing warmth and comfort, support and protection, does not mean that they stand up for their children to suppress each other. This will only make the relationship worse for couples.
Marriage is a matter of two people.
If the marriage is more oppressive than the family behind the person, then such a marriage is too tired, don't do it.
Father-in-law and son-in-law, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, are essentially strangers, and no one wants to listen to anyone's reprimand.
Let go of the hand, let the children taste the chai rice from the marriage, taste the parents is not easy, and taste the warmth and helplessness in the marriage.