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The role of Ge Yue in "Heart Residence" completely subverts our perception of rich families and thousands of dollars.
She is the second generation of officials, is the pearl in the palm of her parents, holding in the palm of her hand for fear of falling, holding it in her mouth for fear of melting, she has enjoyed a worry-free life since she was a child, there is no lack of anything, and there is no worry about anything.
However, in her, we can't even see a little bit of rich family style, although she spends a lot of money, but she doesn't like to dress herself, she spends more money to enjoy life, so from the appearance, she doesn't look like a rich family at all, but more like a child from a poor family.
Her conversation, her personality, and there is no rich family style at all, her whole person gives people the feeling of being plain, indisputable, very gentle in nature, as if she will not be angry, will not be angry.
We think that the rich family is rich and rich, is two meters and eight meters, is very assertive, has a lot of personal ideas, is not afraid of the changes in emotional life, dares to love and dare to hate. They are not afraid of what will happen to their love life, they will be separated if they don't love, and the next one is more obedient.
However, Ge Yue, as a rich family, suffered a lot in her marriage, suffered all the grievances she had never suffered, and was completely defiant by Gu Xin, it was really unbelievable, obviously she was the one who had the most courage to live for herself, but she was willing to endure grievances in marriage, and in order to keep him, she was pregnant with a second child.
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Gu Xin did not love Ge Yue, there was no doubt about it, the reason why he chose Ge Yue was entirely because her father was a deputy director, powerful and powerful, and could help his career go smoothly. This was the reason why he married Ge Yue.
Ge Yue was wronged by him, of course, a large part of it was because of this, but in fact, it was also Ge Yue himself who took the initiative to paste it, so it was mainly to analyze and analyze why Ge Yue would be hurt by him many times, but he still continued to endure.
In fact, mainly because Ge Yue loves Gu Xin, as a Ge Yue who has not suffered since childhood, she is not short of bread, so she does not know how important bread is to a person, when she does not need to pursue bread, she can pursue love wholeheartedly, Gu Xin is the love she wants to pursue.
She loves Gu Xin, and she loves him so much that his family is very poor, nor does she care that he is with her in order to figure out her father's power and let him be promoted in the future. Because of love, it is easier to get stuck in bad feelings and can't get out.
Gu Xin did not return at night, he casually found an excuse, she believed, he snubbed her, she would also make excuses for him herself, thinking that he was too busy at work and too tired. Even if she later learned that the other party was cheating, she didn't want to divorce, but to keep.
Such a her has long been pinched by Gu Xin, so after he really cheated on her, he began to be very cold to her, not to accompany her, and not to fulfill the responsibilities of her husband and father, because he knew that she would not leave him.
There is only one reason why a person can be hurt by the same person frequently, and that is that she still loves him, otherwise she would have left long ago, so why put up with this.
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Secondly, Ge Yue is a person with no personal opinion.
In addition to her own opinion on the choice of Gu Xin, other things are very unconstrained, after her father got off the horse, their family moved out of the villa and moved into a house that was not as good as before.
At this time, her mother-in-law began to make trouble, asking the couple to move back home and not live with Ge Yue's parents, in fact, she was worried that her son would be wronged at his in-laws' house.
Ge Yue could see that her husband wanted to go back to live, although she didn't want to go back with her, but she didn't say what she thought, and finally listened to her father's words, and her father let them move back, and she went back with them without saying a word.
Later, she caught the real hammer of Gu Xin's derailment, she also had no opinion of her own, the whole person was in a state of collapse, there was no claim at all, whether it was divorce, or not divorce, how to do not divorce, how to divorce, she did not know.
She also went to ask Feng Xiaoqin to help her with ideas. If she was a person with a very good idea, after realizing that Gu Xin might be cheating, she already knew what to do, not the six gods and no master.
This doomed her to be hurt by Gu Xin again and again, countless nights she cried silently at home, lying on the same bed with Gu Xin but dreaming of the same bed, there was no intimate relationship between husband and wife, these pains were like a blunt knife, slowly cutting the flesh on her body.
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Ge Yue is a very honest person, this is Feng Xiaoqin's evaluation of her, she went to persuade XiXi not to interfere in Gu Xin's marriage again, what she said to Xixi was, don't bully an honest person.
Ge Yue was indeed too honest, she really didn't have any heart and eyes, nor did she think about calculating people, nor did she think about defending her husband, but if she had a little heart and eyes, she wouldn't be hurt so badly.
He was so well protected by her parents, her parents were very shrewd people, but strangely, they protected her like a flower in the greenhouse, and she did not learn the shrewdness of her parents at all.
The robbery in her marriage is predestined, it is to let her grow, I believe that after experiencing this experience, Ge Yue has grown into a big girl, and from then on she is no longer such a simple-minded person, nor is she a person without opinion, even if she loves someone in the future, she should not love so full.
From now on, no one can hurt her.
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Article illustration | Stills from "Heart Dwelling"