Clever I
, confused for a while
There are no real fools in this world, so self-righteous smart people will always end up "being mistaken by smart".
Gu Xin – "smart" marriage speculators
Su Wangdi and Gu Shilian went all the way home and said that Gu Xin's girlfriend was a tall and beautiful girl.
At this time, I happened to see the short girl who sent Gu Xin home, Ge Yue.
Su Wangdi was very unhappy when she returned home, complaining that her son's original girlfriend was fine, how she suddenly changed someone.
Gu Xin told her that Ge Yue was a colleague of the unit and that her father was a leader of the unit.
This answer keeps counting down
Su Wangdi's movements were delayed, and her face immediately turned "cloudy and sunny"
。
The conditions of the family are higher, which makes it
Su Wangdi's heart was very conflicted
On the one hand, because of the son's marriage, he is complacent and shows off; on the other hand, he feels that he spends too much money and is worried that his son will be wronged.
Su Wangdi, who traveled with her son, complained because Ge Yue spent a lot of money. And Ge Yue felt that his good heart was rejected, and his heart was not happy.
Seeing the newly purchased car that Ge Yue's family bought for her son, and seeing her son who went to the hospital to accompany her father-in-law to see a doctor, Su Wangdi's heart was sour.
In her words, "
If I were you, there would be such a mother, and I wouldn't want to recognize it.
”
Although Gu Xin did not have the mind of "marrying a daughter-in-law and forgetting her mother", his original intention of marrying Ge Yue was a kind of speculative psychology, wanting to "take a shortcut" and be able to struggle for ten or twenty years less.
"Smart is mistaken by smart", since it is a speculative behavior, the probability of failure is very large
After marriage, Gu Xin had not yet enjoyed the dividends of marriage, and Ge Yue's father had an accident.
Gu Xin's situation in the unit became very delicate, and the relationship with Ge Yue was also
Drop to
freezing point.
When Gu Xin learned the news that his original girlfriend Sun Qi was about to go abroad, he was not calm, and he ran to the airport to please
Ask Sun Qi and him to start over.
Although, an hour before learning that he had the opportunity to go abroad, Sun Qi was still thinking about how to persuade Gu Xin to divorce. But after getting the notice, she was suddenly relieved, perhaps
She didn't love Gu Xin as much as she thought, maybe she just had a reluctance and couldn't let go of her own efforts in the past few years
When he saw That Sun Qi deleted the photo with Gu Xin, he couldn't help but applaud her.
That's right, don't be a stupid girl
At this time, Gu Xin's original high hopes for promotion also failed. The person who was promoted was his contemporary, his ability was inferior to his, and his popularity was ordinary. At someone else's promotion banquet, Gu Xin was very drunk.
Gu Xin gritted his teeth: "I already knew that I didn't have much to do." First people were scolded to eat swan meat, and now the swan has become a duck, both ends are lost, and the face is all gone. In the final analysis, it is still a bad fate, and each person is born with his own life, and should not be delusional. ”
"Angry yourself, of course, angry yourself. Anything can be picked under the heavens, but parents can't pick. Ge Yue is, and so am I. ”
This resentment comes and goes, but it is blamed on the parents for not having the ability and not creating good conditions
Ge Yue's father- an old fox who hopes for a good son-in-law
In the original book of "Heart Residence", Ge Yue's father is introduced:
Ge Yue's father went to the farm as a teenager, had schistosomiasis, died nine times, and later returned to Shanghai, where the steel mill burned a furnace for seven or eight years, while working and reading, all he thought about was the two words his father said before he died: "Prison".
A little bit up, no matter how difficult it is, he will go up, and he eventually becomes the leader of a certain department, and he can also work hard for half a life and get what he wants.
Probably because he had suffered enough of life, he was very fond of his daughter Ge Yue, letting her grow up like a flower in a greenhouse.
Ge Yue in the TV series, although not a first-glance beauty, is still very enduring and has a gentle temperament
In fact, in the original novel, The Ge Yue in Su Wangdi's eyes is like this:
On the other hand, looking at the daughter-in-law, short and thin, with unfocused eyebrows, talking like a mosquito, but some like his own useless man, there is no one who can handle it. Originally, I thought that Gao Pan, and then think about it, my son actually suffered a loss.
On the other hand, although Gu Xin's family conditions are average, he is still remarkable in terms of work ability and handling things for others.
Look at Uncle Ge Yue's evaluation of Gu Xin:
Gu Xinwen is a person like a water, but the scene is thoughtful, the speech and action are extremely measured, quiet when it should be quiet, and open-minded when it should be lively. The brother-in-law's old fox chose this son-in-law, and he really had his reasons.
Although Ge Yue and Gu Xin work in the same building, they are not often encountered. She usually has a somewhat humble appearance, and even walks with her head bowed. Before Gu Xin, Ge Yue had hardly ever been in love, but had only kissed each other twice.
Ge Yue undoubtedly liked Gu Xin, and the first time he shook her hand, her heart pounded. She also thought about why he was pursuing him, and she also thought that he might have no simple purpose. But her father's words reassured her:
With such a personality as yours, I really want to find a man as pure as distilled water, and your mother and I are not at ease. Living a life, too vain head and brain can't work, too real and realistic can't work. Take ten thousand steps back, and Dad will watch for you.
Ge Yue's father understands his daughter's personality, like tofu, soft inside and out, heart
He hopes to choose a son-in-law who can complement each other, to be smart, capable, but also to be generous and good character.
Su Wangdi also saw this very clearly.
The old jianghu like the father-in-law is the most accurate to see people, if Xinxin is not a baby, will he come together so badly? At present, no matter how brilliant it is, the age is there, and in a few years it will retire, and the son has just begun, and the future is unlimited.
In the original work, after Ge Yue found that Gu Xin had an abnormal condition, he began to pay special attention to his every move, was the business trip true? Is there a woman's voice or object next to it?
Her mother had also been wary of women outside her father, and had sat down once or twice, but there should have been more.
After discovering the relationship between Gu Xin and Sun Qi, Ge Yue's father threatened Sun Qi to take care of himself while beating Gu Xin to treat his daughter well. As a man, Ge Yue's father is well aware of the inferiority of men, which is not a big shortcoming in his opinion. All he needed was
A son-in-law who is obedient, good to his daughter and has the potential to develop
It's just that people are not as good as heaven, and fate is really mysterious. The old man is difficult to protect himself, how can he look at others?
Gu Xin, who was refused by his ex-girlfriend to start over, turned to Be ambiguous with Feng Xixi.
Feng Xixi was young and beautiful, and she deliberately made an understanding appearance in front of Gu Xin. The involvement of interests has made the two have a deeper entanglement. In front of Feng Xixi, Gu Xin is on the side of the "strong", which to a certain extent makes up for his "humble" psychological gap in front of Ge Yue and his parents.
His attitude towards Ge Yue was even lighter,
He never argued with her, and he didn't support or object to what she said, just as if there wasn't this person
。 Although Ge Yue was not a very shrewd person, she was not stupid.
He made a fool of her. If she is really a fool, it is just that, but she is not stupid enough to go home, it is even more uncomfortable.
Gu Xin's attitude was also light before, but it was light and light, unlike now, it was really "light" from the inside, so light that people were cold.
Ge Yue's father's plan finally failed. Later, he also reflected on himself that he should not protect his daughter too well.
Reluctant to let children from snacks to point bitter, children will inevitably eat more social suffering when they grow up
Parents love their children for far-reaching calculations, and pin the happiness of their children's marriages on others
Always unreliable.
The Feng family sisters who see through Gu Xin's essence
Feng Xiaoqin actually had the first thoughts, wanting to match her sister Feng Xixi and Gu Xin.
At that time, Gu Xin had just graduated and was preparing to take the civil service examination, but there was no real estate in the family, but there was some prospect for the future.
Feng Xixi is much younger than Gu Xin, and her looks are also dominant. However, Gu Xin had a girlfriend at university, Wenzhou beauty Sun Qi (called Zhang Manli in the original), and met with parents on both sides.
Gu Xin suddenly married Ge Yue,
Feng Xiaoqin concluded that Gu Xin was not a good match, even if he was not a scumbag, at least he was not reliable
。 Men think of relying on women for their future, and in Feng Xiaoqin's eyes, they are a little off the table.
From this point, I have to say that Feng Xiaoqin looks at people quite accurately
In the play, after Feng Xiaoqin learned about the relationship between her sister and Gu Xin, she asked her not to interact with Gu Xin anymore, saying that he had a wife and children and could not destroy other people's families.
But Feng Xixi thought that if she didn't catch Gu Xin, she might always be just an ordinary clerk, which was not what she wanted
Feng Xiaoqin saw that her sister was so unrepentant and ruthlessly drove her out of the house. She has been working hard in Shanghai for so many years to have her own house and home, but the home she wants should not be like this.
But in the original work, Feng Xixi and Gu Xin are just an ambiguous relationship that uses each other. Feng Xiaoqin is not very worried, because she knows Feng Xixi's personality and situation very well:
The younger sister is to have a strong personality, it is not easy to work hard, Gu Xin is like the Shi Fat Zi of that year, drinking almost, rubbing some oil, the insurance policy is signed. According to Feng Xiaoqin's vision, Gu Xin is actually not as good as Gu Lei, at least it is better to get more, the appearance is not handsome, and the person is stuffy, anyway, there is no advantage.
The younger sister has a fresh brain, and Feng Xiaoqin is not very worried about this aspect, and the feelings of men and women are not in line
Are these two sisters really sober?
brief summary
Happiness is like quicksand, the tighter you grasp, the more it will flow away from your hands
Whether it is Gu Xin, a marriage speculator, Ge Yue's father, who is scheming, or Feng Xixi, who will stop at nothing to achieve the goal, they are all losers in this competition.
The so-called heart dwelling is a dwelling place where the mind can be placed
In the end, everything obtained by abnormal means cannot be reassuring.
The wise man Gu Xin gradually lost his bottom line, betrayed his marriage, betrayed the principles of work, and finally ended up with a wife and a child, and went to prison.
Gu Xin first
Bury love, and bury the rules of being human
。 After burying all these things that he thought were not precious, what else did he have that he had indifferent feelings for his parents and children?