Ge Yue, the only daughter of the deputy director, has great resources, why will she be taken down by Gu Xin, who wants to hold her thighs, and also cheated on Gu Xin in marriage, and in the case of the Cold War, she is still pregnant with a second child and has a second child?
First of all, it is undeniable that Gu Xin has the characteristics of attracting women.
Gu Xin's family is not poor, and it is good to study. At that time, Gu Xin was sent to a book by bao. And can talk about a girlfriend Like a model, Sun Qi, and the girlfriend is still at Gu Xin's wedding banquet, sadly asking: Why did you betray the promise of that year?
Gu Xin's ability to capture one high-quality woman after another is related to his own intelligence.
It is also related to his personality traits.
Gu Xin has the characteristics of a narcissistic personality.
This type of person will exaggerate and be good at expressing their strengths (bragging about themselves).
Compared with the introverted otaku, seeing the beautiful woman blushing and heartbeating, but not daring to get close, and not knowing what to talk to the beautiful woman is good, Gu Xin's trait will make women feel that he is very confident and has development potential.
In a book called "My Baby", Ge Yue found a group photo of Gu Xin and Sun Qi.
From this detail, it can also be imagined that Gu Xin is a man who knows how to create romance when he is in love with his beautiful ex-girlfriend.
With narcissistic people, in the early stages of the relationship, you will feel happy and sweet, as if this is a "god-given relationship". Just like his ex-girlfriend Sun Qi, he wholeheartedly thought that he would stay with Gu Xinchang.
Who knew that what was finally waiting was the wedding invitation of the beloved man and the deputy director - the bride was not me.
Choosing such a man, long-term relationship will produce emotional problems. Because the obvious expression of the narcissistic personality is to brag about oneself, it is an exaggeration and fantasy of self-power. The deeper reason is that narcissistic people are very fragile on the inside, so they need to use external strength to deny their vulnerability and not excellence.
When Gu Xin found that he could have the opportunity to achieve a class transition, he did not hesitate to break up with Sun Qi.
Gu Xin's fantasy is that with the support of the resources of the elders of the deputy department, he will go all the way up to the glory of the family, become the leader of colleagues who dare not offend and need to be touted at all times. This is a manifestation of the narcissistic personality seeking a sense of entitlement, seeking admiration, and wanting to pursue super competitiveness.
But after the old man was dismissed because he was investigated, Gu Xin was immediately isolated by his colleagues, and no one even called him for lunch. This is very unbearable for narcissistic people. Because Gu Xin hopes that whether at home or in the workplace, he can be valued and recognized. Flowers + applause + stage, is what he needs.
After all this was gone, Gu Xin would be very angry. He would become angry enough to be dragged down by the old man, and he would lose patience and tenderness with his wife Ge Yue. Reconnected with his ex-girlfriend Sun Qi and re-experienced his sense of superiority in his ex-girlfriend. (Because I'm good enough, my ex-girlfriend is still willing to deal with me and introduce me to work)
But that's not to say that narcissistic people don't feel ashamed. Gu Xin's brain is smart. When the old man first fell, he also understood that accepting the help of his ex-girlfriend immediately at this time would definitely be looked down upon by the people around him. This shame is equally unbearable.
Therefore, only when Gu Xin was ostracized by his colleagues, and people of the same level in the past rose to lead himself, arranged his work, and felt some "despair" for his career, Gu Xin had the heart to contact his ex-girlfriend.
Gu Xin's education since he was a child is: my mother worked so hard for me. I have to be very good. In order to meet this expectation, he immersed himself in compensatory fantasies of success, admiration and recognition when the old man had not yet fallen. This kind of compensation, even for the lack of self-strength, also contains compensation for the mother.
In marriage, if the spouse is a narcissistic personality, then the partner is very painful. Because partners often feel degraded, controlled, or abused.
At the family dinner, Gu Xin openly rubbed his legs with Feng Xixi under the table and flirted, which in addition to Gu Xin's pleasure of seeking taboos and the thrill of adventure from the earth, was also a disparagement to his wife Ge Yue.
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Ge Yue suddenly realized that something was wrong, as if he was deliberately laughing at his father-in-law. The face was even more red, one did not hold steady, and the chopsticks fell to the ground. She bent down to get it, just lowered her body, and suddenly saw Gu Xin's legs shrink rapidly, which frightened her. At the same time, a skirt-wearing leg in the neighboring seat also bounced back extremely quickly. She froze, not quite sure, but there was a feeling that the two legs had just been entangled. She picked up the chopsticks and sat up straight, her eyes facing her husband, and she also sensed a hint of panic in the man's eyes. She looked again at his neighbor, Feng Xixi, casually picking up a piece of cucumber and chewing slowly. The action is too determined, but it is not natural.
At this time, we look back at ge yue and Gu Xin's wedding photos at that time, and it is even more obvious.
It can be seen that Ge Yue's body is leaning towards Gu Xin, just as in marriage, she has always endured and tolerated Gu Xin;
Gu Xin, however, leaned his body closer to lao zhangren, because in his heart, he wanted to get closer and get more support from lao zhangren, as well as career development and more rights.
In this way, we can see that the narcissistic personality pays more attention to their own needs and goals.