Suddenly discover how a genius personality will feel when the brain derives - from time to time to give you a little careful thinking, let you marvel at the fact that there is nothing that humans can't do, only things that humans can't think of!
Today, chat with the dragon. Suddenly, I talked about personality problems and heard a few very interesting things, so I recorded them and analyzed them with everyone.
Someone once said in the comments section: He feels that many people have multiple personalities, because everyone will have multiple personalities - here is a simple answer: multiple personalities are an independent way of thinking derived from the brain, and this kind of thinking can control the body, so that it has a real state of life, but it is completely out of the control of the original thinking; and multiple personalities are a mental state that people show in a state, and what can control the body at the moment is the same mind... To put it simply: personality is a change in thinking, and personality is a change in mood similar to that.
Now many people will have different personality performances in different scenarios, because everyone has two states: one is the internal personality, which is the innate disposition, and also the original state that its soul really demands, which will be manifested in the initial child state; the second is the external personality, which is mostly used to cope with the personal performance of social and workplace, the so-called survival of the fittest, must adjust its own state to meet the state of the public, in order to obtain good social resources. To use a simple sentence to describe: everyone is wearing a mask to live, it is easier to remove the mask when alone, so when the person side, the back side - is the common state of most people in the workplace at present.
So, when a person meets true love: he/she must not look at the appearance, but the heart that understands him/her. Not everyone has the kind of luck that kind of marriage to true love, but everyone who has ever received true love must have hope in their hearts, and the remaining courage can support them to find another half who can really live.
Regardless of the position in the marriage, if someone is willing to start a family with you, it must be that they have taken a fancy to one of your strengths; your other half may not be your perfect lover, but he/she may be your soul mate. It's just that what you see now is only family trivia, and you forget the content of the original touching.
I've met a lot of people who teach others to repair their feelings. I think they have the right sentence "You can make the other person fall in love with you the first time, you can make the other person fall in love with the second time" - many people ask: how do you change to make the other person love themselves more.
The answer given by the dragon is: Sometimes, talking about feelings is not necessarily to innovate, and there is also a point to recall.
Humans are deciding to get married: not only because of love or money, but also because most people take the initiative to jump into marriage because they "understand themselves" with each other.
When I'm helping people solve family problems: a common saying is "you should have very little communication now"! Many families have a common problem: they just don't want to continue to communicate... Many people will complain: the other person does not want to talk to himself, just wants to chat with the other party, he/she will simply cope with two sentences, and then go to his or her own thing! Over time, I don't want to take the initiative to talk anymore!
In fact, communication is an art, many things need to be through chat, in order to find a solution; if a person refuses to communicate, then it is impossible to dig out the deepest needs of the other party, and it is impossible to achieve effective cooperation. However, don't characterize communication as "the other person doesn't want to communicate", but observe whether you are releasing the wrong information.
For example: when the other party wants to chat, you will deal with each other for various reasons; leading to the other party will have a kind: when you need to release the pressure, you are not satisfied, so you also change yourself in disguise, and treat you in a silent way! So, when you want to communicate with others, you need to know: the other person needs something!
When you don't know what the other person needs, think back to the things that can move the other person in the first place - appearance and material conditions will change, but the lack of soul is too easy to make up.
Think about the topics that can stimulate the desire of the two of you to communicate, think about each other's dreams and the things you are most afraid of, think about the things that the other party regrets... Through the need to repair the way to regain the original heart.
Remember, when a person is really touched by another person, it is always because he/she can accept the true self, the inner character that may have a sense of loss – if you don't know how to get along with this person anymore, look back at your initial spiritual communication. Know how to dissolve the rejection that evolved in the other party's heart because of desire, and know how to turn reluctant cooperation into understanding... When you understand each other, you can regain the right to guide and re-repair a relationship.
So the love between you has just lost its way, and now it's time to use memories to guide back to the normal direction.
—To be continued—
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