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It is human nature to judge people by their appearance, and when we meet someone for the first time, we will involuntarily judge the personality and life experience of the other party according to their appearance, dress and temperament.
When facing people with high looks, everyone tends to have a preference, and then make a positive evaluation, such as feeling that the other party is kind or responsible, etc., and when facing ugly people, they will resent each other because of prejudice.
Not only are ordinary people biased, but even university professors will give decent-looking students more marks, because the other party looks more like a serious student.
However, appearances are deceptive, good people are not necessarily all kind and good, and bad people are not all fierce and evil.
There is a high-value murderer in the United States, and when his photo was posted on the Internet, everyone praised him for looking like an angel and said that he did not believe that he would commit a crime.
Psychology professor Li Meijin said that a person's personality type and appearance will expose their internal psychology. When getting along with people, we must pay attention to the following three characteristics.
Looks. Personality can affect the appearance of individuals, foreign scholars have found that when thieves most of the people are thin, their personality is suspicious, sensitive, and like to fantasize. Violent perpetrators are mostly strong people with angular facial features and more pronounced muscles.
Among the depressed and anxious people, the proportion of round faces is relatively high.
The more ambitious and aggressive the leader's means, the wider the face will be. At a glance, aggressive people often have square jaw angles. People with wide foreheads and pointed chins usually have higher IQs and are good at thinking.
Li Meijin said that if a person often dodges his eyes when talking to him, or reveals a thoughtful expression when looking at people, then he must be wary.
Those who have small round eyes and evasive eyes just look good to get along with, and they may have personality problems in their hearts, and if you don't handle it properly, it will bring inevitable harm to both parties.
personality. Professor Li Meijin said in the Round Table Pie that if she meets a particularly polite person in her life, she will definitely keep a distance from the other party, because such a person is likely to be a passive aggressive personality.
People with a passive aggressive personality usually have a lot of pressure in life, their hearts are often depressed state, no matter who they face, they will not argue, smile and greet each other, even if standing in front of him is the person he hates, he will not show any point.
In order not to offend others, this kind of person is always desperately looking for a topic in the group, when an old and good person, but which modern person will have no edges and corners? If a person shows a state of obedience to everything, then his behavior is abnormal, and perhaps one day in the future, he will completely turn his face with you for a small matter, and even retaliate against you privately.
When you meet polite people, you need to be more polite, because their politeness may only be a disguise, and you can protect yourself by being polite to them.
Passive-aggressive personality is a type of personality disorder, which is mainly manifested as a habit of showing a strong tendency to attack in a passive way.
If he always suppresses his emotions in life and cannot express himself correctly, then he is likely to launch a sudden attack, and regardless of the occasion, regardless of the enemy.
Micro-expressions. A person's character is hidden in his eyes, and a man with round and small eyes is not simple.
Expressions can be disguised, but micro-expressions cannot be controlled, and a person who is lying will show flaws in these three places on his body
First, the eyes. Eye dodging proves that a person is weak in heart and does not dare to face your gaze directly, which is a precursor to lying, and some people often stare at your eyes motionlessly in order to cover up the fact that they are lying, this behavior is more deliberate, so the eye muscles will be very stiff.
Second, the speed of speech. Because the brain of a liar is thinking at a high speed, the speed of speech will also be unconsciously accelerated. Not only that, people will deliberately raise their tone in order to please others, and people who lie will also do the same in order to win people's trust. If he speaks faster and slower, and his tone rises and falls, it means that he is lying.
Third, smiley faces. Normal smiling faces can make people feel good, while liars' smiling faces will be stiff and asymmetrical.
Whether it is making friends or getting married, everyone must carefully observe his every move when getting along with each other, and only by determining the person of the other party can we communicate with him with confidence.
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Reference: Jean Piaget Biographie. (2020, January 29).