Many boys are too eager to pursue girls, eager to express their full love, which is actually a wrong approach, because for girls, the two have just met, there is a great sense of strangeness and distance, both sides do not know very well, when boys blindly express love, it will only make her want to reject you, three remedies, let her easily chase you.
First, adjust your mindset
After the girl rejects you, the first step for the boy to do is to adjust his mentality, only a good mentality, in order to do the following things smoothly, this is the so-called Murphy's law, without a good mentality, it is impossible to do anything smoothly.
Of course, there must be a certain reason for the girl to reject you, the boy must first know why she rejected herself, many girls will more or less talk about some reasons when rejecting.
Boys should listen carefully to these reasons, adjust their mentality, and no longer eagerly express their inner love, because when she rejects you, you will say something to express love, which will make the girl feel that you are a person with a thick skin, and in the end it will only get the counterproductive effect.
Second, learn to want to indulge
If the boy pursues too much initiative at the beginning, it is easy for girls to have a higher psychology than you, appropriate snub is also a good way, do not go around the girl all day, she will be very disgusted for a long time, it is better to keep your own sense of mystery, let the girl think that you are an interesting boy, excellent girls will never lack the company of the opposite sex, but if suddenly there is a person who is hot and cold to himself.
It will make her have a strong curiosity, but snubing is sometimes a double-edged sword, and it is easy to be self-defeating when the two have a stable relationship, the boy can properly snub her, so that the girl feels from the heart that you are not indispensable to her.
Third, learn to manage yourself and improve your work ability
No girl will be capable and golden men resist, many boys say that the current girls are too material, in fact, the idea of girls is beyond reproach, everyone is hoping to go to a higher place, who does not want their other half to be excellent, when you are at the trough of life, neither money, nor a good job, it is better to manage yourself with your heart, not that you work hard to catch up with girls.
But through the attraction between the two parties, with your own high talent and high value to attract each other, in the process of contact, these are from the inside out to exude the process of charm, often through the attraction of love, will make people have unexpected results. Summary: To manage this relationship with heart, only when both parties pay together, the relationship can go on for a long time, which is the truth that every adult should understand.