When chasing a girl for a long time the relationship has not progressed, into her friendship zone, then even if you drink on the head one day, have the courage to confess, may be rejected by her as a joke, so we chase girls must upgrade the relationship in time, avoid entering the friendship zone, then how to make her feel the heartbeat of you when getting along with girls, turn her into your girlfriend?
1. Create an impression contrast
Since we want to avoid entering the friendship zone and be the girl's boyfriend, first of all, we must look like her boyfriend.
For example, she prefers a boy with a little dog, and you have always been a dirty sand sculpture boy in front of her. Then try to change yourself, take off your ripped jeans, your T-shirt, and put on a generous casual suit. Trim a hairstyle that suits you, shave or trim your beard, try not to let go of details like nails, and pay attention to the folds of your clothes.
When you appear in front of her in a makeover, she will definitely be amazed in her heart, and this kind of amazement may be the feeling that can make her heart beat, after all, people are visual animals.
Therefore, if the relationship has not progressed after chasing the girl for a long time, you may wish to try to show your different side to the other party and break the inherent impression of the other party.
You have opened your mouth is all kinds of sand sculpture paragraphs, you may wish to chat with her about film literature,
Or if you've ever asked her to either eat chicken or go black, you might as well ask her to go to your house and watch a movie.
When you break the stereotype that you have brought about by years of being together, the relationship between you has become a little subtle and ambiguous.
2. Appropriately create ambiguity
Let the girl who wants to let herself chase have a heartbeat feeling, just the above heartbeat moment is certainly not enough, the feeling is that it takes a lot of moments to piece together, so after we complete the first step, we need to go further, and this step is called "creating ambiguity".
In the past, you were either drinking or skewering, except for the rooftop party or the grave head bungee. Then try to drag her to see movies, visit theaters and exhibition halls, or other social events that are more intimate.
At this time, it is another flirting, which may be more ambiguous to a certain extent.
Many boys can't do anything about the one they like, which can be compared to an action, such as a happy place to talk about when walking, or gently bumping her when joking to see her reaction.
If she's angry and crosses her waist and says, "You're looking for death!", oh, then she'll let the horse come and taste her chasing you. Even if she is murderous with her fists, it is a pleasure to be chased by someone she likes.
3. Take the initiative and be confident
In addition to the above two theories, if you want to make girls feel the heartbeat, the most important thing is actual operation, so take the initiative, be confident, and bravely break through the relationship between you.
Many people think that we have been friends for so long, will she get used to this identity, in fact, for most girls, from friends to lovers such identity switching itself is normal, suitable!
So you don't have to worry too much!
We are smart in love, smart enough to design every encounter in order to get close to that person.
We are also very stupid in love, stupid enough to see that person, and we can't even say a word.
In fact, in love, everyone is quite stupid.
But this is not because love makes people stupid, those benefits and losses, karma and toss, we are clear in our hearts.
The so-called love is the plain you, in my eyes, emitting a unique light.
The so-called love, because I love you, I am willing to be a fool.
Finally, I would like to say something heartfelt!
Maybe when you tried the above methods, walked back to her, and opened her mouth to confess, she smiled shyly, and then looked at you tenderly and said, I have been waiting for this moment for a long time.
The so-called friends may be just lovers who have not yet established a relationship, but you have long been tacit and inseparable.
It's just that both people in this relationship are afraid of taking the initiative, afraid that if they take a step forward, the other will take a step back, so they are waiting for the person on the other side to speak first.