Wu Yating was moved to confess that I did not dare to accept, I longed for love, but I was afraid of love

In the program "Spring Day Is Late and Late", Wu Yating, as Wang Quexin's ex-wife, is undoubtedly the most concerned female guest. The topics surrounding her are endless, from her marriage with Wang Quexin to the new love that has just sprouted, the heat has not diminished. The positioning of this show is to create another heartbeat opportunity for divorced single men and women to start again on this spring day. The guests who came to the show all had hopes for love, including Wu Yating, but she was hesitant to accept a new relationship again. In the show, the male guest Lin Jingwei sincerely confessed to Wu Yating, my heartwarming girl is you.

Lin Jingwei has always made no secret of his good feelings for Wu Yating, thinking that she is different from other girls, she is very mature, knows how to use humor to solve problems, and it can be seen that he is really touched by Wu Yating. In the face of such a naked confession, Wu Yating was also very aware of Lin Jingwei's feelings for herself, but she refused to nod her head and say "YES". Is it that she doesn't like Lin Jingwei? I don't think so, judging from Wu Yating's demeanor and body movements every time she saw him, she was also moved. The reason why I don't accept it is because Wu Yating has her own concerns. 1. Figure anxiety Wu Yating blew herself up in the show that she suffered from postpartum anxiety, and her sagging breasts after giving birth, the extra flesh on her stomach and knife scars all made her feel "ugly".

For a long time, she could not face her "unbearable figure". Although she has been having children for several years, Wu Yating still has body anxiety, afraid of further development with her new partner, and does not know how to face her body calmly.

I feel the anxiety of Wu Yating, because I have also given birth to a child for five or six years, and I am now 20 pounds fatter than before giving birth, sagging, extra flesh, and Wu Yating's distress also plagues me at any time. The difference is that I am not divorced and face the same partner, but every time I face him, I will unconsciously take my stomach back and don't want him to see me in a mess, even if it is a husband who has been sleeping in the same bed for seven or eight years. Once, he inadvertently patted me on the stomach and asked if it had been months, and I was both angry and inferior, and to be honest, I was afraid to hear the word "fat" from his mouth, even if it was the truth. So Wu Yating said that when she was afraid that her new partner would dislike her body, I understood her feelings, and the old husband and wife were still like this, how could the new partner not mind? 2. Afraid that the children will not be loved Wu Yating has talked about her two children more than once, that is the baby she bought with her life twice in three years, she loves them very much, and it is also the child that makes Wu Yating choose to face life strongly after divorce.

Children are the bondage of a marriage, and after divorce, they are more of a bondage to Wu Yating, the mother. Wu Yating mentioned in the show that she felt that there was no need to fall in love and get married, and she was now a big trouble in herself.

In fact, Wu Yating is very worried about her children being wronged, afraid that her new partner will not be able to love them as much as she does. Although she did not live with her father, Wu Yating can be both a mother and a father, giving her children unreserved love, but can the new partner be like herself? If married, the new partner will not ask to have children of their own, and then the two children will not be left out in the cold. All these are real problems facing Wu Yating. As a mother, no matter how tired she is, she is not afraid, and the most feared thing is that the child will be wronged by any grievances. 3. The pain of marriage Wu Yating and Wang Quexin This marriage, outsiders do not know much, but through the two participated in the program, we can also see the problems exposed in their relationship. Wu Yating and Wang Lixin once participated in the variety show "Home to Eat" together, and Wu Yating once said that the original intention of participating in the program was to let Wang Quexin go home to eat more. As an artist, Wang Quexin's work trips are often a common thing, and all the big things and small things in the family are handed over to Wu Yating. Wu Yating stopped working after getting married, gave birth to two children in three years, and the focus of her life was on taking care of two babies.

Although she is the wife of a star, Wu Yating is no different from our ordinary mother at home, dressed casually and has no time to take care of herself. At the wedding, Wu Yating said to Wang Quexin, I am certainly not the most beautiful of your many girlfriends, but I am definitely your best wife.

Wu Yating did it, before marriage she also loved to play and make trouble, but after marriage, she took her heart back and was at ease to be a good wife and mother at home. She had never publicly accused Wang Quexin, but said that it was not an easy task to run a marriage, but from the stars in her eyes to the final darkness, God knows how much disappointment this woman had accumulated in just a few years. It is false to step out of a failed marriage and say there is no fear of marriage. For Wu Yating, falling in love again is definitely not just playing, but rushing to get married, it seems that she is not ready to enter the next marriage.

Therefore, even if Lin Jingwei is enthusiastic, Wu Yating is always vigilant, even if her own conditions are good, she is not a lot of trouble for single mothers. Some netizens commented that Wu Yating was deliberately holding, I do not agree, perhaps before participating in the festival, she thought she was really ready to have a new beginning, but when she really walked to the starting point, she found that she was not ready.

Compared with other female guests, Wu Yating is already confident enough, but when faced with a new relationship, she is still hesitant, which is really not something that can be done by courage alone. In fact, Wu Yating also needs someone who can give her a sense of security and help her carry the hardships of life together, her current concerns, this is not a few moving confessions can be solved, I hope that the male guests can see her good, but also see her fear and helplessness. She was a good girl and deserved to be cherished.