Because four people shot the heartbeat lamp, the divorce love roundup "Spring Day Delays Departure" switched from the healing mode to the heartbeat mode, and the program team has since used the hidden big hand to continuously match this group of men and women who have had failed marriages.
Lin Chengwei, at first glance, had a good feeling for Wu Yating.
However, between the initial acquaintance with each other and my own inferiority personality, and the enthusiastic pursuit of the straight-line ball girl Lu Ying (Toot Toot), Lin Chengwei did not act for a long time.
It wasn't until the end of the show that he was sure of his intentions and found the right opportunity to summon up enough courage to express his liking to Wu Yating.
We were able to see the sweet date between two people in the second half of "Spring Day Late Departure" and the extreme tug-of-war hidden in the small details.
Lin Chengwei was very convinced that he liked Wu Yating.
He took the initiative to choose to date Wu Yating and made it clear in person that he had a good feeling and favor for her.
Wu Yating admitted that she had a heart for Lin Chengwei.
But at the same time, she said a lot of hidden words, inside and out, as if she had no intention of starting a new relationship.
Also, as Fu Seoul mentioned, Wu Yating's marriage began vigorously, and the end was also vigorous, if she and Lin Chengwei opened a relationship again, with the publicity blessing of the program, it would be another vigorous and well-known to the whole people.
We can't empathize with the psychological pressure.
Ex-husband Wang Quexin was fierce when he pursued love, firm when he married, and resolute after divorce. It is a peaceful breakup, but it is not emotionless, it is a good goodbye, but it cannot stop the inner waves.
Compared with Lin Chengwei's lack of confidence because he is only a small designer (income and status are more likely than the former star wife) and the shadow left by his parents in childhood, Wu Yating's lack of confidence may not only stem from the unconcealed traces left on the body due to the birth of children, but also from the time of marriage.
At the Sanya wedding with Wang Lixin, Wu Yating fell in love with her deepest and said: "I am not the most beautiful of many girlfriends, but I must be your best wife."
This mentality that I don't have so much feminine charm can always see a shadow in Wu Yating.
Therefore, it is not difficult to understand why in the yacht trip, in the face of Lin Chengwei's overtures, she would repeatedly ask questions, and even mention Toot to test, wanting to get a positive answer, until Lin Chengwei personally said that the person who moved her heart was "it is you".
Wu Yating needs a lot of security, this is because the trauma of divorce or her own personality, we do not know.
Throughout the recording of the show, she said too many pessimistic things, such as: "You know someone again, you marry him again, or this is the time, you feel forget...".
In the face of the fact that she had a child, Wu Yating, even though she still looked slim and beautiful and well maintained, she still felt anxious about the parts covered by her clothes.
She said that she had "changed from a young girl to a somewhat ugly woman", and even feared the possibility of intimate contact with the opposite sex: "When you need to further develop, how can you face your body calmly?" Whether it's the sagging chest, or the extra flesh that has piled up on the stomach, or the scar from that caesarean section. ”
She hung up on herself that she was not qualified and had no time, "He has a lot of better options, why should he choose me?" ”
She always felt "I don't deserve it".
From agreeing to record "Spring Day Delay and Departure", Wu Yating's mentality may just stay in running a notice, making a profit, improving her fame and bringing goods, as for having the next relationship, it cannot be said that there is no expectation, but it should be hopeless.
She tried her best to match Lin Chengwei and Lu Ying, putting herself in the perspective of watching gossip, in a "love roundup", trying to stay out of the matter.
Both people are divorced and have children, in fact, it is better to change their mentality, only love and not marriage, it is also beautiful.
Replace the heavy words of concern and shackles with wanton, relaxed, enjoy singleness well, and please be frank to meet love, life is only a few decades, if you really like it, why think too much.