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In love, everyone's expression is different. Some people bravely and enthusiastically express love, and some people pay attention to the people they like behind their backs in a silent way of protection, no matter which way they choose, the friendship behind them is the same.
Men always feel that women's hearts are difficult to guess, whether it is ambiguous in the early stage, or two people have established a relationship, girls have a lot of words will not always be said directly, but will let boys guess. Girls like to play this game of hide-and-seek, but boys often complain bitterly.
Most people are impatient now, and when pursuing a person, they often only give themselves a short time, and if the other party does not respond for a long time, they will turn around and turn around and invest in the next goal.
So many times the girl has not yet given a clear answer, the boy often has no patience, and the relationship will end abruptly.
Girls are generally more reserved, and few people will generously express their heartfelt likes. So it's hard to wait for her brave and eager response, but to give them a little more time, let the love slowly heat up, slowly open their hearts.
We are always different when we face the people we like, and this difference can actually be seen as the answer to like. For example, a cheerful person becomes quiet, a person who is a hanger becomes serious, and will show a completely different appearance in front of the opposite sex and the person he likes in the general relationship.
Difference is the sign of love, the uniqueness of love, doomed to give only to unique people. Love doesn't need to be spoken at all a lot of times, you just need to observe whether there is a difference between him in front of you and in front of others to know the answer.
Men should understand that women's abnormalities are actually signs of liking.
The contrast of personalities
When the guests in "Like You and Me Too" first met, Wang Bei and Qiqi reacted lightly when chatting, and when cu appeared, her words became obviously more.
Zhou Jieqiong said in the show that although she is not a cold person, she will become very quiet in front of the people she likes, there are few words, and the contrast in the personality of girls is generally the performance of liking.
If a person is introverted, it becomes a nag in front of you. If a girl who is grinning widely in her daily life becomes a quiet lady in front of you, in fact, you should be alert, which means that you are different in her mind.
Sometimes boys are always very dull, they always like to go straight when they think about problems, and they don't know how to bend at all. They tend to judge only based on the girl's direct reaction to herself. And ignore the sensitive careful thinking of the girl.
If a girl and other members of the opposite sex are easily mixed together, but in front of their own words are rarely very cold, they will feel that she must hate themselves, so there may be misunderstandings, resulting in the loss of emotions of two people.
In "Spring Day Delayed Departure", Yang Lei and Mo Fei are two people who miss the yin and yang, and Lin Chengwei and Yang Lei's evaluation of Mo Fei is completely different. Lin Chengwei said that Mo Fei was a person who could joke at will, and here in Yang Lei, he was a person who rarely said much, and Mo Fei showed a completely different appearance in front of several of their boys.
She and Yang Lei were originally interested in each other, but Yang Lei did not read her mind, so that the two people missed out on life. If there is a big difference between the personality that a woman shows in front of you and in front of others, in fact, this is like, don't understand.
A change in temper
Love will make a person become gentle, both men and women, in front of the people they like, they will temper tantrums and show the most patient and gentle side.
No matter how powerful a person is in ordinary days, no matter how much a girl claims to be a woman, she doesn't need to rely on it at all, and one person can live well. It's just that all of these are facing outsiders, and in front of the people they like, they will completely abandon the strong side and expose the appearance of the birds.
Spoiling is a unique attribute of women, every girl has this side in her bones, but it is hidden in life, and once she meets the person she believes in her heart, this side will naturally arise.
She will become very gentle in front of you, love to be spoiled, there is no shadow of a woman at all, and some are just a little girl who wants to be pampered. At this time, you should understand that she really thinks of you as someone you can rely on and trust.
And with the deepening of the contact between the two people, you will find that she has many shortcomings, she loves jealousy, willfulness, careful eyes, when the time fades, gentleness will also be hidden, followed by clingy willfulness, often because of a little thing on the tantrum, once gentle completely disappeared, in front of you will become very unreasonable, at this time you do not rush to deny her feelings for you, if not really like, how can you expose your most unbearable side?
Whether it is a gentle display in the early stage or a sensitive neuroticism in the later stage, it is because I like you to have a show.
The attitude is different
Everyone has a warm side, but many times it's not you who is warm.
There's never someone in this world who won't love or care, just because you're not really the one she wants to care about.
How cold you are to the people you don't like, how enthusiastic you will be to the people who are touched by yourself. We can judge her feelings entirely by the other person's attitude toward herself.
If a person always ignores your love and answers, you should actually understand her inner rejection. Many words in the adult world often do not need to be said too clearly, silence is the answer, and non-response is the answer.
Even if you are an introvert, you will irrepressibly show some emotions in the face of people you like, even if it is not very direct, you will secretly use your own way to transmit love.
In love, a person's attitude towards you is already very clear, and you don't have to ask for an answer. Like Lu Ying in "Spring Day Late Departure", his attitude towards Lin Chengwei and Zhao Yanan is very different. Giving all the enthusiasm to Lin Chengwei, everyone knows this.
In fact, I admire Lu Ying, her like is very simple and rude, undisguised, that straightforward outpouring, there is no need to doubt, is like. She is different from Lin Chengwei and Zhao Yanan, and deeply expresses the true meaning of love.
Abnormality is a sign of liking, love is ultimately different, if a person is no different from you and other members of the opposite sex, there is no need to have illusions, his dislike is already obvious.
As long as she likes you, even the best at hiding people will show differences, and this difference is like.
Personality differences, temper changes, attitude differences, these three are like the most direct performance, men must be careful to find, do not miss a love.