Is Zhao Yanan really a lawyer? His sense of no boundaries subverted my perception of a lawyer. Compared with Rock's gloomy personality, I hate Zhao Yanan's sense of no boundary more. In the relationship, Rock's gloomy personality is not worth mentioning compared with Zhao Yanan's sense of no boundary. When I first watched the show, I didn't like any female guests with rock. Because I have seen the "talk show meeting" anonymous exposure ROCK dissatisfaction Zhang Boyang three lights promotion, destroying the scene props? There are videos, there is truth. At that time, there was also a text for this code.
I think he's irritable, irritable, and his impression of him has changed because of the small fragment of that exposure. Especially when he performs, he will first sigh, as well as in the show. When I drifted with Mo Fei, the whole time I was cold-faced and ignored, I felt that his whole feeling was very gloomy.
Until these days of chasing "Spring Day Delay and Departure Again", seeing her "heart" for Liu Liqi, my attitude towards him has changed. Because there is no harm without contrast. Compared to what he did to Mo Fei, I felt that Liu Liqi's attitude towards him was even worse.
From the initial desire for female guests to choose him. Watching recent episodes, I am afraid that he and Liu Liqi will be injured together. It feels like he's been "hot face sticking to Liu Liqi's cold that." So much so that I'm even more upset with rock now...
Everyone has their own personality, and I used to dislike rock's gloomy personality because I was also good and bad, sometimes pessimistic, sometimes very gloomy. So much so that I like people who look more positive and sunny.
Through the successive broadcast of 9 episodes of the program, I found that there is nothing about the gloomy personality, and there is no sense of boundaries that is really terrible. The explanation given by the Encyclopedia of "Sense of Boundary" is that sense of boundary is a new word that has emerged, which means the determination or importance of boundaries. When a person lacks a sense of boundaries, he or she may unconsciously entrust his or her own affairs to others, inviting others to step into the boundaries they should have. Or impose one's own will on others, forcibly crossing the boundaries of others.
The official classification is: Unhealthy personal boundaries are easily responsible for the emotions and behaviors of others. Or expect others to take responsibility for their emotions and behaviors, people with unhealthy personal boundaries, often regard the needs and feelings of others as more important than their own, and will have the following behaviors: 1: When rejecting others' requests, they will feel bad or guilty. 2: When being treated harshly, you will only swallow your anger. 3: In order to please others, give up your own beliefs. 4: Define yourself through the evaluation of others.
The four senses of boundary mentioned by the authorities require us to establish our own sense of boundaries, protect ourselves, and not be hurt and not blame ourselves or inferior because of the unreasonable demands of others.
And Zhao Yanan's sense of no boundary is reflected in his failure to stop. Feel free to touch the boundaries of others. It is "cross-border". Obviously, he likes to beep, but he uses "stupid beauty" to describe her. These four words caused the collective discomfort of the observers, and Fu Seoul felt that these four words were extremely frightening.
Fu Seoul analyzed: Zhao Yanan, a person, he is often overwhelmed, sometimes a little overwhelmed. He couldn't grasp the sense of boundaries when he was just in love.
This is in the show, Fu Seoul and other guests, the description of Zhao Yanan will be more restrained, consider the wording. In fact, Zhao Yanan's sense of no boundary is really "disgusting", and this "disgusting" is not to bury him and scold him. It was his words and deeds, his deeds, and his expression when he flattered me that I had a physiological reaction of "nausea".
In the last issue, everyone dined together, and the dishes were originally shared by guests. Li Yanan changed dishes to ensure that everyone could taste every dish. As a result, in order to please Lu Ying, Zhao Yanan offered hospitality, and the plate of fish that Lu Ying loved to eat was not eaten by others, and was brought to her personal table by Zhao Yanan.
(This is the guest imitating Zhao Yanan's look at Lu Ying...) At the time, the other guests were dumbfounded. The observers could not accept his behavior. The great teacher said directly: What does Zhao Yanan do? Not necessarily at all. Do you know if others eat or not? Are you just thinking about yourself?
I think that Zhao Yanan's behavior is to sacrifice the interests of others to please the people he likes. Completely devoid of considering the feelings of others, he is immersed in his own self-feelings.
Even if Lu Ying was rejected by Lin Chengwei. I don't think she likes Zhao Yanan. It's just that girls like the feeling of being pampered, and they all have some vanity. Always want to prove yourself: you don't love me, there will always be someone to love me.
In Zhao Yanan's solo date with Lu Ying, he thought that Lu Ying's "destined fate" to him was to give him great encouragement and affirmation. Therefore, it is also very uncomfortable to talk to Lu Ying, and it is also very uncomfortable to see Lu Ying's expression, and even seemingly inadvertent approach, which actually reveals his pride.
Compared to the men I like, they don't like me. What I'm more afraid of is the lack of measured, endless pestering of men I don't like. I really don't like men pretending to approach and touch casually. Even seeing Zhao Yanan's appearance to Lu Ying, it was difficult for me to accept. Fu Seoul also said that Zhao Yanan's behavior, these female guests, only Lu Ying can tolerate.
Conclusion: Just because you like someone doesn't mean that others like you as well. It doesn't matter who you are, who you get along with. Neither can "go to both extremes". Either lose your sense of boundaries and let others trample on them, or you think that other people's boundaries can be touched at will.
We can't change anyone else. But we can do ourselves. Instead of teaching Zhao Yanan how to grasp the boundary line with others, it is better to warn ourselves: We must clearly understand where our bottom line is? How not to let people like Zhao Yanan wantonly violate their own Chu River borders. Film and television comprehensive orange: