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A marriage is a long cultivation, in this relationship, we are constantly cultivating ourselves, becoming more compatible with each other, becoming tolerant and generous, and making ourselves a more perfect partner.
Marriage is the continuation of love, two people come together because they like each other, want to form a family with each other, want to hold each other's hands to complete a long life, no matter what kind of hardships and obstacles experienced in the middle, no matter how many times two people have quarreled, as long as the ending is good, everything is acceptable.
For girls, when choosing to enter into marriage with a person, it is decided to give the rest of their lives to each other, never thought of going to the day of parting ways, for the sake of family harmony, marriage is long, no matter how much they are willing to pay.
Women are very tolerant, even if a relationship has a rift, the other party may bring themselves a lot of disappointment, but until the moment of last resort, will not easily choose to let go, they hope that their marriage has not failed, only consummation, in order to achieve this vision, no matter how difficult it is not afraid.
It's just that the ideal is perfect, but the reality is very bone, and it is the hope to be happy for a lifetime, but whether it can go to the end really depends on the specific situation.
I support our approach to marriage to tinker with repairs, but if there are already unforgivable problems in the marriage, then a timely stop loss is the most correct choice.
Women are very tolerant, but in the end there will be a day when they can't stand it, and the reason why women can make up their minds to divorce is actually only one reason, that is, they are completely desperate for you.
Without a marriage of warmth and love, I would rather not
Men always feel that women are too materialistic, and feel that what they value most when they choose to marry someone is not love, but the financial conditions of the person.
In fact, this is undoubtedly the biggest misunderstanding of women, the desire for better economic conditions, this is the common hope of everyone, there is nothing wrong with it, on the basis of mutual affection, material abundance, this is no better, if you can not have both, women will definitely pay more attention to the word love.
Sanmao said: If I don't like it, the millionaire will not marry, if I like it, the multi-millionaire will also marry, but if it is Jose,
That's enough money to eat.
At the end of the day, what a woman craves most in a marriage is not materiality, but warmth and love. It is a guardian of the heart, a care that can be seen and touched.
A marriage without love and warmth, even if there is more material, is just an ice cellar, without the slightest temperature.
Wu Min in "Perfect Partner" married an elite man in an investment bank, living in a mansion, no need to go to work, no need to suffer from life, looks very glamorous, but its central acid and despair are known only to himself.
In Lin Qingkun's world, only work career and interests, the rest is never put in the heart, the family affairs do not matter, the indifference to the family countless times makes Wu Min cold, in the face of his wife's miscarriage and child food poisoning, he still looks cold, without any pity, and finally Wu Min is completely desperate for him and chooses divorce.
If a marriage does not have warmth and love, then it is useless, that is, no matter how many material conditions can not be satisfied, the cold in the heart, even if more money is difficult to fill, if you can't give me the love I want, no matter how much material I don't want.
Blindly indulging, in the end in exchange for endless harm, it is better to let go
In fact, in every woman's mind there is a scale, will remember all your good and bad to me, weigh several times from time to time, every time you hurt me, I remember in my heart, although I did not directly give my response, but in fact I am secretly deducting points for you in my heart, until the point deduction is gone, this relationship will be the end of the time.
Girls are too emotional, they are very emotional, in their hearts there will be a lot of consideration, especially after forming a family, after having children, her actions are no longer just for their own consideration, afraid of parents disappointed, afraid of children hurt, and they themselves can be put last.
Many women are not themselves after marriage, they can be bent on perfection, they can lower themselves, they can ignore the harm you have done to me, just to change a complete home, but if my forgiveness is exchanged for endless harm, then sooner or later I will choose to let go.
When Liu Liqi appeared in "Spring Day Late departure", the most impressive object of the previous marriage was two movie tickets, and the text she wrote was: Two people's movies, but a third person has seen it.
In this marriage, there have always been different third parties in their relationship, and when they first learned of the man's betrayal, Liu Liqi thought about divorce, but for the sake of the children, she endured again and again, and her patience was exchanged for more and more hurt, and finally chose to say goodbye.
Many women will generally choose to forgive for the first time even after they know the truth about a man's betrayal of themselves, but some things are only 0 times and countless times, and when forgiveness is exchanged for unrepentant, then desperate, it is the day to let go.
I can't see you putting in the effort for this home and being completely disappointed in you
What exactly is marriage for? If a marriage does not bring us 1+1>2, but will consume our original happiness index and reduce our quality of life, then it is better to be alone.
Women choose men, often do not need you to be rich and expensive, do not need how strong you are, how outstanding, but at least to be motivated enough, to be responsible, to be able to bear the weight of the family, not still like a child who has not grown up, you need women to always urge you to grow up behind your back.
One reader told me about her despair of marriage, her relationship with her husband was like "mother and son", equivalent to her two sons, and the husband was completely like a child who did not grow up, who did not seek progress all day, did nothing, coveted pleasure, and had no sense of responsibility at all.
The work is always three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, either because they are far from home, or because they feel that the leadership is difficult to engage, the work is not stable for a long time, the eyes are high and low, always fantasizing about making big money, incapable of looking at small money, so that the family economy has always been very tense.
After having children, she needed money everywhere, and it seemed that she was the only one who was anxious and anxious, and her husband had been indifferent. He urged him countless times, and his husband did not improve at all. The thought of living in darkness for decades to come, she really couldn't stand it.
Women are not afraid to follow you to suffer hardships, afraid that you are satisfied with the status quo, muddled and nightmares, afraid of not seeing you make any efforts for the family, just willing to degenerate. If you are willing to be a mud, then she will want to stay away from you.
Marriage is not a short period of years, but to live with each other for a lifetime, if the marriage is not happy, it means that this life will always be dark and depressed.
People often advise us to marry the same whoever we marry, and everyone advises us not to divide it, but if a marriage has been moldy, it is doomed to continue to be bad.
Don't bury your lifelong happiness for the sake of a wrong marriage, sometimes giving up is the best choice than sticking to it.
If it is not completely disappointed, women will not easily choose divorce, if you cherish this marriage, just grasp it.