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Not being loved in love is the norm, and there is no way to force it, just as you can't wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can't make a person who has no feelings for you like you.
Not all likes can be responded to, not all efforts can be rewarded, like is originally a thing that can not be the same frequency, everyone's mate selection criteria are different, someone is right in your standard, but you may not be the other person's dish.
Li Yinhe said that love is a small probability event, and not meeting is the norm.
It is not easy to meet a relationship of mutual pleasure, holding a true heart to be good to a person, it is very likely that what you will get will be rejection and disregard. Being able to admit one's emotions and not consume each other's feelings is actually a kind of kindness, much more humane than those who obviously do not like or refuse.
In the adult world, many times will not directly nakedly say the three words "dislike", but will use some more obscure ways to express, the other party takes care of your face is not willing to hurt your heart too bluntly, you also have to have a certain degree of self-knowledge, do not understand her refusal, but also blindly approaching, it has become a kind of disturbance.
A woman doesn't verbally reject you, but if you have these performances, you should understand what she means and stop being sentimental.
The indifference of the interaction ignores you
If a relationship wants to have follow-up development, it is necessary to communicate back and forth, you say a word to me, two people pick up each other's words, full of curiosity about each other, so that the relationship between each other can slowly heat up.
If only one party is full of enthusiasm and the other party is lacking in interest, always looking indifferent and never responding, then there is no way to heat up the relationship between each other, and in the end it can only be strangers who have briefly intersected.
Even if you are a reborn cold and introverted person, in the face of the person you like, it is difficult to control yourself from responding, and you do not need to play an absolutely active role, but at least you will interact with the other party.
After being thrilled with a person, as long as it is a message sent by him, he will reply at the first time, even if it is boring nonsense, that is, sending some memes can interact for a long time, and will not hang the other party there at all.
She will not always let you play the role of throwing a topic alone, will appropriately throw some topics in the process of chatting to deepen their understanding of you, like a person will always be accompanied by curiosity, have 100 question marks for you, and can't help but want to get answers.
Women's likes do not need to be too blunt, at least they will respond to you positively in the interaction, and they will also take the initiative to find you, rather than always passively waiting.
If she always looks indifferent to you and ignores you, then it is a silent rejection, you have to understand.
Refusing to be alone with you in private doesn't give you a chance to get to know her
No amount of communication and interaction on social media is better than meeting once, and face-to-face chat is more enjoyable. Men and women who like each other will not be satisfied with just chatting on the screen of their mobile phones, but will be happy to meet privately and have more opportunities for in-depth contact in their daily lives.
Two people want to appreciate the beauty of life together, go to a new shop to taste the early or watch a newly released movie, even if it is two people on the street to press the road, they will feel very beautiful.
Meeting privately is the easiest time to get to know, you can know his preferences more clearly, you can know his tastes after eating a meal, shopping together, you can know his favorite style of dress, you can know which area he often spends his days.
You can also learn more about his character. Watching his interactions with the waiter, as well as his views on some of the events, or watching his subconsciously exposed behavior, will bring you closer to the other person.
There will be some disguises on the screen, and face-to-face contact will recognize those disguises and expose the most real side of each other.
People who have the heart to have in-depth contact with you will not miss the opportunity to meet alone, and every time you propose an invitation, she will accept it, and will also completely reveal her mind to you, so that you can know more about her.
Conversely, if a woman always turns down your offers, then it's clear that she's not interested in you.
Instinctively distance yourself from you and refuse your help
Although some people do not directly and simply say that they don't like you, in fact, some of her reactions have already exposed the true thoughts of her heart.
For a woman, her refusal to help you, instinctively alienating herself from you, is an obvious rejection.
In "Spring Day Delayed Departure", Yang Lei's heart for Liu Liqi is in the eyes of all of us, and at the beginning, Liu Liqi will also have some interaction with him, and the two people get along very harmoniously and comfortably.
But just when everyone thought they would go further, Liu Liqi chose to retreat. She would deliberately pull away from Yang Lei, instinctively reject Yang Lei's protection, and was not willing to have more contact with him at all.
When Xishuangbannali crossed the rainforest, every time Yang Lei wanted to come forward to help her, he was pushed away by Liu Liqi. She said that she likes to play alone and does not need help, but in fact, she just took the opportunity to distance herself from Yang Lei.
Yang Lei herself said that she had a rejection that she might not know, which made people feel quite hard, and it felt like harassing her to help her.
In fact, Liu Liqi's behavior is a very obvious resistance, to put it bluntly, it is rejecting him. Yang Lei should have felt in his heart, if it is not the program mechanism, the most important thing to do is to stay away in time, and should not go forward again.
What kind of feelings a person has for you, in fact, we know best, but we don't need outsiders to remind you, and we already have the answer in our hearts.
Even if the other party does not directly refuse, you should know in your heart whether she likes or rejects you.
When a woman has the above three manifestations, the man should know in his heart that this is a signal of rejection, and stop being sentimental.
When a person has already made a refusal response, it seems very rude for you to get closer, it is better to stop it in time and find the love that really belongs to you.