Men should understand that women's deliberate alienation is a sign of liking

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What kind of performance do you say you will do if you like someone?

In fact, there is never a fixed answer to this question. Love is originally a variation, and everyone has their own way of expressing love in love, which cannot be generalized.

Some people say that liking a person will become active, but in fact, there are some passive people, even if they like a person again, they will not show an active side. But you will do a lot of things silently behind your back, don't you like such a performance?

I admire the girls who take the initiative and are brave in love, they seem to have a spirit of not being afraid of losing, and they are unrelentingly thrown into the flame of love, and there is a kind of moth to put out the fire.

But there will also be such girls, they are inferior and sensitive, curled up in their own small world, do not dare to expose themselves easily, they never dare to believe that they can also have sweet love, always feel that they are not worthy of being loved, always think from a pessimistic point of view, do not dare to actively and enthusiastically invest in love, they will not only not take the initiative, but also will be aware of their own heart for a person, the first time to choose to quit, choose to cut off contact with him, continue to curl up into their shell, Make sure you don't get hurt.

Liu Liqi in "Spring Day Delays Departure" is like this, in fact, she is a very good girl. Good looks, good job, is a proper bully, college teachers and doctoral students are studying, her conditions are many girls dream of it, but she is very inferior in her bones.

She is very good at self-reflection, always looking for reasons from herself, even if it is not her fault many times, but she will put all the faults on herself. She is very sensitive, afraid of causing trouble for others, and always thinks about the other party for the first time. She is very negative, in her psychology, bound by a lot of rules, she talked about her experience as a student, and a boy had an ambiguous affection, when she realized this, she chose to withdraw, took the initiative to break off contact with the boy, very indifferent to him, the relationship between the two people ended.

Such people are often generous and decent, and can take care of anyone's feelings. You can maintain a good relationship with other people, but you will behave unusually cold in the face of the people you like.

In the show "Spring Day Late Departure", the same is true, everyone can see that she and Yang Lei have a relationship, the two people are very comfortable together, originally got along very well, the two people also talked about each other on their first solo date, and they were happy.

Just when everyone thought that their relationship would go further, Liu Liqi chose to withdraw, and then reacted lightly to Yang Lei, and the relationship fell into a freezing point again.

The authorities are fans, bystanders are Qing, we can all see that Liu Liqi is withdrawing because of his liking, but in Yang Lei's view, he is confused and does not know the reason. Both people are highly sensitive people, if they do not communicate, one party retreats, and the other party thinks that it is because they are not interested in themselves, then the relationship is difficult to continue, and it will only end in dismal light.

Men must understand that women's deliberate alienation is a signal of heartbeat.

Because of fear, so withdraw

After liking someone, our first instinct is fear.

Afraid that he does not like himself, afraid that from beginning to end is just his own wishful thinking, afraid of confessing to being rejected, afraid that his goodness to himself is only for a while, after being together will completely change his appearance, more afraid of two people difficult to go to the end,

Before falling in love, we often don't have too many scruples, a big grin, as if we don't care about anything, but in fact, our hearts are very sensitive and fragile, and when we meet someone we like, we will stimulate this side.

Obviously, I haven't started yet, I haven't tried to do it, but I've already thought of the worst outcome. In his bones, he is a pessimist, always thinking about things in a bad direction, not daring to believe in love, and even more dare not believing that sweet love will come to him.

Especially for injured people, they will close themselves off and dare not easily open their hearts and fall in love again.

Just like Liu Liqi, she had a failed marriage, and in the previous love, she was often mentally bullied by men and suppressed her madly, so that she became more and more inferior and became more unsure in the face of love.

Because I am afraid that there is no good ending, I prefer not to start, and when I perceive the signs of ambiguity, I automatically cut off and protect myself to the greatest extent.

Because I like it, it's different

In the face of women's sudden indifference, many men may have such a doubt: she is obviously very good to everyone, very warm to them, why is she so indifferent to me?

If a woman behaves this way towards you, then congratulations, you have successfully entered her heart.

Because like, so different, like will always be different, this differentiation is a sign of love.

They all say that if you want to see if a person is not interested in you, it depends on whether she is different from you and other members of the opposite sex. In most cases, the differences we understand are positive. For example, she will give you special attention, will be particularly gentle with you, and with these signs, we can infer that he has feelings for himself.

But in fact, there is a kind of performance, when a person who is very thoughtful in all aspects, only very indifferent to you, always ignores the state, in fact, it also represents a liking for you.

People with sensitive inferiority probably have such an experience. I remembered that I used to be like this, deliberately indifferent to the people I liked, but in fact I was secretly paying attention behind my back.

If a woman is particularly indifferent to you, you have to understand that it is like.

Sensitive people often need more love

The more sensitive people are, they often push the people they care about and the people they care about themselves away, pretending that no one needs them.

You express enthusiasm for them, they will instinctively refuse, you are nice to them, they will say I don't need to. For some people who are not persistent enough, it will be easy to back down when they encounter this indifference.

Because they will take it for granted that you are not interested in him, but in fact, such people often desire love more and are more eager to be warmed.

It looks hard, but it's actually very fragile inside, pushing you away on the surface, but secretly crying behind your back, and then pretending to be fine with me alone.

In the face of such a person, do not easily stay away, you have to surround her with more love, let her completely open the atrium, one day she will be melted by you, do not abandon her.

If a woman is warm to everyone else but cold to you, you have to understand that this is a sign of liking.

Girls are sometimes very strange, the more they face the person they like, the more they will not take the initiative, and they will instinctively push each other away.

If you misunderstand her meaning and choose to stay away, then you will not have a sweet ending. You have to read her heart and give her more care and love, so that the two people can be happy and complete.