"Spring Day Delays And Departures" As a love roundup, the pace of love is too slow.
A total of 12 issues, currently updated 7 issues, according to the rules of the program must be lit four or more lights, it is possible to open the love mode. But as of now, only Mo Fei and Lu Ying have lit two lights, and the other small partners are still in a wait-and-see state.
The good villain show has passed the halfway point, and their respective emotional lines are also very obvious, but they are very unfortunate, they all seem to be caught in the vortex of sadomasochism, the most obvious of which is the talk show actor Rock and the university teacher Lychee.
To be honest, Rock's love is indeed hidden very deeply, many people in the early days sniffed at him and Yating, who knew that Rock became interested in Lychee at the very beginning, he said that Lychee and the child's happy play with the state is his ideal parent and child life.
And because of the extreme work contrast between the two people, there are many similarities in personality, so he has more attention to Lychee.
Rock confirmed his sincerity, he was also quite fast on the offensive, always paying attention to the needs of Lychee.
Worried that she would wrestle in the snow, always holding her behind. When making dumplings, Lychee was embarrassed because she could not wash vegetables, and it was also Rock Zhang Luo who let the stuffing squad relocate its position.
Thankfully, the likes of both of them went both ways. Rock is also a favorite type of lychee.
Lychee is particularly fond of stand-up comedy, and Rock is also a talk show actor, and his humorous qualities often make Lychee laugh, and there are many points of the same frequency between them.
In the latest episode of the show, Lychee has the right to date a person of the opposite sex alone, and the person she chooses is Rock.
Although the reason she gave was that she had been indirectly guarded by Rock before, so she wanted to choose him as her date and repay him well, but in essence, she actually had more attention to Rock, and the extreme push and pull of the two people at the door was also sweet and good.
In fact, long before going out of this door, the two people have reached a mutual choice, and each is the first date of the other party.
On the day of the date, the two of them made an appointment near the school, near the school where Lychee worked.
At the beginning of meeting two people, I laughed like a fool, you stared at me, I stared at you haha and laughed, this is the natural reaction to seeing someone you like.
The two people walked and chatted, and went to an audio store together, and the two people pointed to the various records on the video store, chatting about their past, and their feelings for each other were further, relaxed and happy.
Oh, and another detail, when crossing the street, Rock reflexively pulled Lychee to avoid her being hit by a car, and that moment was really sweet and careful.
Even, two people are waiting for the traffic light, but the green light is on, both people are not aware, at that moment, romantic to the extreme, I have you by my side, my world is all you.
Then later Rock proposed that he wanted to eat ice cream, so the two of them bought one and sat on a stool to chat first, and at first everything felt good, but when did it change? Probably after Rock's profound self-analysis and explanation of his dropout, Rock told him that he dropped out of high school and then began to drift north, experiencing various industry changes along the way.
And Lychee Rock is a completely different type, she has been particularly motivated since she was a child, and even took the initiative to ask her mother to supervise her studies, dropping out of school this kind of thing is absolutely impossible for her, her goal is to compete for the top three in the class.
Lychee studied hard all the way, followed the steps, went to a good university, went to graduate school, and now has a doctorate, successfully taught in a university, and has a job that everyone envies.
The two of them seem to be different, but in fact, they have a lot in common, such as the two people are habitual pessimism, inferiority, lack of confidence, afraid of causing trouble to others.
Lychee's inferiority is reflected in every moment, even if she is so good in the eyes of others, she always feels that she is not attractive. Even if the other party makes a mistake, she always reflects on whether it is her own problem.
The same is true of Rock, who is very socially afraid, even for people who are familiar with him, and he is not willing to easily ask the other party. In the last guardian star link, Rock plucked up great courage to call Hulan and then take action.
Because he is not confident enough, he needs to be recognized very much, and the happiest moment in his memory is shopping with his ex-girlfriend and being recognized by the audience, at that moment, he feels that his love affair is seen, blessed, and a sense of happiness arises spontaneously.
Both people live in their own world and forget to go to each other's world to see more.
After watching the two of them dating, the guests in the observation room commented that Rock was too eager to reveal his true self, into the mode of soul chat, and he was too eager to talk and neglected to listen. In fact, it is.
After listening to Lychee share her path of study, Rock felt the difference between them, and that sense of inferiority came out again.
However, he ignored a very important message, Lychee shared her own experience, saying that when she was in middle school, she had an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex, and then cut off her feelings and told herself that early love was not good, so she used a most decisive way to break off relations with friends of the opposite sex.
This shows that Lychee is very passive and very pessimistic in the relationship, she will first think about the harm she may suffer, so she will take the initiative to open the defense mechanism, once she feels that she has a good feeling for someone, she will instinctively isolate and cut the relationship with him.
In fact, she did this to Rock, and everyone traveled together again, and Lychee was visible to Rock.
At the airport, Rock offers to help her with her luggage, but Lychee refuses.
When we arrived at the homestay, everyone ate together, and Rock offered to give Lychee a dish, but Lychee refused.
In the chat session, Lychee inadvertently said a word, thinking that dating must be dated. Rock turned his head to look at her, and his mood fell to the bottom in an instant.
Rock's first reaction was self-doubt, and it turned out that Lychee did not want to ask him out, but was forced to make an appointment due to the rules of the show.
Lychee refused again and again, and Rock obviously retreated a little, but he forgot the story that Lychee had told before.
Those uncomfortable, those deliberate distance, are the beginning of love, and it is precisely because Lychee cares, so she will have a different performance for Rock than ordinary people.
The relationship between the two of them may really be as sadistic as Teacher Li said in the observation room.
Two people from the very beginning of mutual attraction, slowly approaching, after the close occurrence of a huge difference between each other, Lychee out of self-protection, instinctively choose to withdraw, Rock also felt frustrated, the two people obviously have each other in mind, but can not find a suitable way to get closer.
Later, both people care about each other's feelings, feel each other's unhappiness, and wonder if they have not done a good job, want to get closer, want to comfort, want to compensate.
Not long after the distance has just narrowed, there will be one reason or another to go far, falling into a pessimistic sadomasochistic vortex.
In fact, Lychee needs a very strong man to enter her life because she is a retreat type, but Rock is not strong or even confident enough.
Rock is also very sensitive and very pessimistic, and he is now frustrated that he can't do it.
The two of them were able to be together, with only two solutions, either Rock becoming confident and giving Lychee enough love and security to accommodate her struggles.
Or Lychee can break through the emotional pattern of more than thirty years, become brave and fearless, and give Rock more positive energy expression.
But these two points can not be changed overnight, at least in the show to ask them to make such a big change, it is very difficult.
Two people who obviously like each other, but can't confess their love to each other, if they miss it, how much regret will it be?
Do you think the two of them will eventually be together?