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Today's love, all embodied in social platforms, these things are far more profound than people's memories, recording the story of the two of you from beginning to end, along the way.
Looking at your chat history, it is like starting to walk again, everything that happened between you is vividly remembered, from the initial strangeness to the later acquaintance, to the unforgettable love of the two people later, until the end, some people's love has become flat, and some people have reached the point of dispersion, and there is no possibility of fellowship.
True love is reflected in the course of this process, and through the in-depth of the topic between two people and the content of the message sent, you can glimpse the change of a person's feelings for you.
When a person loves you deeply, he will pay special attention to every chat with you, the message is returned in seconds, the content of the reply is long, no matter when you send him a message, there will be a response, and will not leave you hanging there and ignoring it.
On the contrary, if a person does not reply to your message and ignores your love, in fact, you should be alert in your heart, and he does not care so much about you.
In the adult world, many things often do not need to be said too bluntly, the heart should be clear about each other's thoughts, the most rare thing for people is to have self-knowledge, when a man replies to your message in this way, it is actually not love, don't be unaware.
Replying to your message was perfunctory
From the attitude of the man replying to your message, you can see his true feelings for you. How a person treats your messages, how they treat you, it is closely related.
When men love you deeply, they will be extra serious about you, and this seriousness will be reflected in all aspects of you, even your news, will be taken seriously, and dare not have any perfunctory and snubbed.
Will try to do the second back as much as possible, unless he is really busy, will also tell you in advance, will not let you wait for a long time, as long as it is not so urgent, will put down the matter at hand in time to reply to you, there will be no slack.
It is said that true love is taking a bath, will also wipe your hands to reply to your message, that serious and important, will be accurately transmitted to you across the screen, you can feel full of attention and security, will not suffer from loss, will not have any doubts about his love.
All your messages he will reply sentence by sentence, will not leave a sentence, even if it is some sparse and ordinary trivial small things, will be taken seriously word by word, there will be no perfunctory elements.
When one day his love for you changes, it will be reflected in the attitude to your message for the first time, not only will not take the initiative to find you, will not take the initiative to share their lives, even your initiative will be ignored, reply to your message will be very perfunctory, your long speech in exchange for three words and two words, the tone will be very cold, without half a trace of warmth.
When a man is full of perfunctory treatment of you, it actually means that he does not love you and wants to force you to leave in this way.
Always excuse busy, ignore your love answers
It is said that the people who love you are on the way from east to west, south to north, and those who want you are not busy day and night.
When a man loves you, he is available at all times, as long as you have a phone call, he will rush to your side, as long as you need, he is there.
When you send him a message, no matter how busy he is, he will take time to chat with you, will not ignore it, even if the mood is very depressed, as long as it is you, he will adjust his mentality, will not pass the haze to you, will not let you think wildly.
If you have insomnia at night and want to chat, you will always be with you, and you will be at ease after you fall asleep, and you will not be allowed to feel the desolation of the night alone.
Even busy people will make time in front of the people they like, and busyness is never an obstacle to love, but an excuse for not loving.
In "Spring Day Delay and Departure", Lu Ying likes Lin Chengwei, but he has no intention of her, Zhao Yanan's thoughts are on Lu Ying, when Lu Ying made an invitation to Lin Chengwei, he said that he would be busy working in the next few days and had no time, at this time Zhao Yanan said that if it was me, I would like to take a week's leave. Love or not love is evident.
When a man loves you, he will never reply to your message because he is busy, does not accept your invitation, and when he wants to break up, busy becomes a mantra, every time you send him a message he is replying "busy" "no time", he loves to answer, when busy always hangs on the mouth, it is not love.
Not replying is the default breakup
There are many unspoken rules in adult relationships, and in love, a person who does not reply to your message is the default breakup.
Girlfriend Sasha has experienced such a thing, she has talked about a relationship before, the beginning of the relationship two people are very sweet, envious of others. Later, the man's job changed, and the two people began to be in a different place, and when they first started in a different place, they would video chat every day, and in the daily interval, they would talk about it with stitches and needles.
It's just that the good times are not long, it lasted for about half a year, the man's attitude towards her has obviously faded, and the message he replied to often did not reply for a long time, and then he did not reply directly, and the phone was not answered, and the whole person was completely like disappearing.
Sasha was not reconciled, ran to the place where the man worked and stopped him, and the man said with an impatient look, "We have all broken up, why are you still coming to me?" At that moment, Sasha woke up like a dream, and it turned out that the man had unilaterally dissolved the relationship.
In love, many times often do not have to break the casserole to ask the end, a person's coldness is the answer, not replying to the message is the answer, silence is the answer, you blindly insist, you have to ask the root, and finally you can only let yourself fall into a dead cycle, more and more sad.
Men do not reply to your message, in fact, the default breakup, stop having illusions, recognize the reality.
Love can actually be very simple, but many people artificially complicate it.
Love is generous to say, brave to pursue, do not love, simply and neatly confess, completely draw a clear line, this is the best way to treat love.
It's just that some people always like to hide and tuck, obviously don't love but still don't take the initiative to explain, but instead consume each other and delay each other. He can not be authentic, you can not let him lead the nose, you must discern the man's mind in time, do not consume too long in a wrong relationship, decisively withdraw.