The good guy card, it is rumored to originate from a single teenager confessing to the girl he likes, but the other party rejected it on the pretext of "you are a good person, we can't be together", so "being issued a good guy card" is synonymous with confessing rejection. Good people are difficult to be good, good people cards are easy to get, now it is difficult to read love, it is difficult to go to the sky, and many suitors are hindered by the problems of this century, so what is the reason for being issued a good person card?
A common form of the Good Guy Card
Girl: I've always treated you like a brother, and you're the best person in the world for me.
Girl: We can't be together, I already have someone I like~
Girl: Is that what is pursuing me? Sorry, you're too purposeful and feel disgusting, so we can't.
Girl: Hey! What does that sentence just mean? Isn't it hard to pursue me? It's too cheeky to just go out and play together once when you're each other's boyfriend! Sorry, please wait at least two or three times.
The reason for being issued a good guy card
Many boys in the confession, are eager to achieve, set too high expectations, but at this time boys and girls only know each other for a short time, not even chatted a few days, said a few words, boys directly confessed, girls for this abrupt situation is easy to refuse, girls are relatively slow and hot, not to see a few glances to fall in love with you, not to the extent of liking you, confession timing is absolutely important!
Most of the people who are issued a good person card are you who have established a good person in the hearts of girls, such as any request of the girl you unconditionally agree, all the girls do not want you to work hard to maintain, timidly and weakly dare not have the slightest transgression behavior, girls are rubbing their hands but do not dare to lead, girls are closed eyes but do not dare to kiss, such a good person behavior will be issued a good person card Ah.
How to avoid being issued a good guy card
The establishment of a romantic relationship needs to avoid receiving a good guy card at the beginning, so suitors should constantly improve their self-worth in the relationship, show their male attractiveness, and do not spend all their energy on girls when chasing girls, and also need to have a looming sense of mystery.
The phenomenon of the good guy card often happens to those who blindly pay the suitors, so boys need to know how to give and take in the relationship, and the two aspects of the balanced love, in order to avoid being issued a good guy card.
Chasing girls also needs love skills, many boys think that chasing girls is difficult, chasing girls need to have money and beauty, in fact, it is a wrong understanding, the real chase girls are never those excuses for losers, because single dogs lack the skills to chase girls! Use the right love skills to make the girl and you have a smooth relationship.
Become a sensual man
All along, the whole society has instilled rational thinking in boys and emotional thinking for girls. It is precisely because the two thinking modes are different, which leads to the two people to communicate very difficult, so in the chat often occurs awkward chat, girls often feel that boys are very naïve, boys look at girls always feel very good, this is actually because of the difference in thinking methods caused, if you want to grasp the girl's heart, you need to start from the emotional thinking, be a sensual man.
Create freshness
If you want to chase a girl, the skill you can't master is to create freshness, what will she have a fresh feeling about? At this time, boys need to do some basic homework, understand the interests and hobbies of girls, and even invite wingman, girls' girlfriends to help with advice, and then vote for it to meet the freshness of girls, so that girls think that you are a very interesting person and willing to be with you.
Let the girls have expectations
How to make girls expect? Is it to make her fantasize, fantasy is the first pleasure of human beings, such as before dating, chatting with girls, if I kiss you on a date, will you be shy? At this time, before dating, girls will begin to imagine how you will kiss her, how to kiss her, how long to kiss things, which makes the girl have an expectation, in the expectation, the girl unconsciously thinks about you for a long time, and the relationship with you has made progress before dating.