A few days ago, my girlfriend Meng Meng wanted to come to the company to play with me, Shuo recently made a new boyfriend, but this boyfriend is too straight man:
Obviously, a thing that can be done with a sweet word of embrace, you have to say "drink more hot water", and you can't remember various anniversaries.
The gifts made people cry and laugh, so she was ready to steal the method of teaching straight men from the counselor teacher.
"What the hell do you think I should do?" I like him a lot, but I have to be angry with him a hundred times a day, and I'm really afraid that I will die early! "Looking at Meng Meng crying and crying, I really can't bear it."
In fact, when it comes to the problem of straight men, I believe that many girls have had such experiences, received some strange gifts from their boyfriends, and made people want to turn him into an "ex" every minute!
And the boys? The gift that I had to buy was delivered to my girlfriend, and I was spat on a lot. Gifts can send girlfriends angry, how many grievances and tears in the heart!
"Then I ask you, what is your favorite food?"
Meng Meng looked at me with a puzzled face: "What do you ask this for?" You know me, I've never liked anything. ”
"So what's your favorite?"
Meng Meng continued to shake her head: "Like... Sleep, what? ”
"So where do you want to go the most?"
"Place? It's all right, anyway, as long as you go with him, you can go anywhere! Why the hell are you asking me about this? ”
I smiled and said:
"You see, the problem is found, right?" Whatever I ask you, you will only answer me 'okay, casual', so how do you make an impression on the other person, how do you make him remember your habits? Over time, of course, you will become an 'invisible person'!"
Therefore, a man does not understand not only because of his straight male thinking, but also because you will not guide him correctly.
There are a lot of things you don't let a man see his own thoughts and preferences, and he naturally doesn't understand what the way you like it is!
One of my classmates Peach and Meng Meng, some time ago there was a male ticket, dating N times, men do not know what Peach likes.
Because every time A date eats, the man asks Peaches:
What do you want to eat?
Prefer Chinese or Western?
Want to watch a movie after eating?
What do you want to see?
Going for a walk?
Or where to sit and have a cup of coffee?
Peach's reply was always: "Whatever, I can do".
The final result is that in the future interaction between the two, the man is accustomed to making his own arrangements, and the peach can only obey. Slowly, she lost the initiative in this relationship.
Peaches often complains to me, "Why doesn't he understand me?" Not at all attentive to me, not considerate! Don't love me! What to make decisions and arrangements is nothing more than asking for my opinion, completely disrespecting what my ideas are! ”
In fact, I want to say that you yourself do not show what you like, how do men understand you?
And men will also feel very innocent, when they first asked the girl's opinion, everything said OK ah...
Because few men understand and are willing to speculate, to guess that the female population is the real idea of the heart.
If you don't know how to guide a man and love you the way you like, he'll treat you casually.
But you feel very depressed! I have wronged myself and I have not gotten what I want from him.
Maybe at first it was just a little emotion, a small face, and some awkward words of unclear meaning.
Men are often confused, can't get what your point is, and will feel that you are inexplicably very.
But after a long time of interaction, your small emotions will gradually deteriorate. In the end, men only feel that you are unreasonable, feel very tired from living with you, want to give up, or be attracted to other gentle and intimate warm girls around you.
It ends up with some completely unnecessary regrets. The real strength is to dig a pit for themselves to find guilt, and also lose a relationship.
"So how do I guide him?" Just tell him what I like? Meng Meng looked at me expectantly.
Of course, it's not that simple. If it is too simple and rude, it will also cause the other party to resent it.
Our counselors have nearly 10 ways to guide a man and make him love you the way you want him to, unconsciously.