In both sexes, girls want their object to be a loyal and single-minded man, so that they can have a sense of security. Conversely, the same goes for men!
From the perspective of loyalty and single-mindedness alone, women are more likely to be more dedicated than men.
There is a saying called: "Men want to be the first man in a woman's life, and women want to be the last woman in a man's life".
So, how can you tell if a man is single-minded about feelings?
Before answering this question, let me ask you, what kind of man will love a woman for the rest of his life? My answer is that there can be no man who would love a woman for the rest of his life. Even if there is, it is very little.
In fact, the reason is very simple, we have to understand what is the definition of love?
True love has a time limit, like loving you for a lifetime, I think it is more hypocritical, but women just love to listen.
I believe that when a man truly loves a woman, he will make a commitment to that woman, and I am sure that it is from the heart, at least in that moment, thinking so.
But with the change of time, the passion fades, the contradiction increases, the feelings fade, and if you don't love, you don't love.
Many women at this time, will definitely feel that they have met a scumbag, then I would like to ask, can you promise to love only one man for a lifetime? Can't be sure! No one can say for sure what will happen in the future.
Many times, we can maintain principles and keep the bottom line, just because there are not enough temptations, but this does not mean that we have to give up the desire for love.
So, to judge whether a man is single-minded, I will help you analyze it from the following points.
01, see if he is a person with a strong sense of purpose.
Often people with strong purpose are not specific enough, because no matter what people with strong purpose do, they are more concerned about the result than the process, and they can do whatever it takes to achieve the result.
People like this are selfish, they tend to be self-centered, don't care about others at all, and even sometimes feel that cheating is justified.
This kind of man also likes to direct others, some leadership talent, some aspects are very disciplined, but the purpose is too strong, there is nothing to give, both men and women must be careful to guard.
And people who are not very purposeful, he will care about the feelings of others, and when he likes a person, he will appear to be afraid, which is often reliable.
02, see if it is a nostalgic person.
Single-minded people generally miss the past, we can start from his attitude towards life, treat what he likes, and whether he can like it for a long time.
If he is always three minutes hot for a thing, or a thing, or very easy to like the new and dislike the old, then he may treat the freshness of feelings very easily.
For example, some men may have something they like at home for a long time and have lost its value, but he is reluctant to throw it away, and in our opinion, it should be thrown away as garbage, but for nostalgic men, it represents a certain meaning.
So, from his attachment to things, we can see if he is a single person.
03, see if he will coax women.
Many women hear straight men feel that this kind of man can't communicate, contact with him, no matter what you say, he can't find the focus of the speech, reflecting that he is a man who does not understand the style.
We can make a comparison, such as going out to dinner with friends, and the boy at the next table comes over with a drink and sits next to a beautiful woman, just like a friend who has known for a long time, chats and drinks, and asks for a friend's contact information when he leaves.
Look at the straight man next to him, I think it is also quite cute, although he will not say crazy love words, but he will not take the initiative to ask for the contact information of other women.
In the hearts of these straight men, they feel that it is difficult enough to have you, and it is even more unbearable to have another one. So straight men are very dedicated, because they can find a girlfriend is good.
In the end, women hope that they will meet a person who has always been good to themselves in this life, and they are willing to win a heart and a white head. No matter how handsome or rich a man is, if he's not just nice to you alone, it's no use.
In relationships, most of the injured women have met a wrong boy and insisted on a relationship that should not have been adhered to, so they finally let themselves be hurt.
If that's the case, then only the woman can be blamed for not having vision. Here, I hope that every friend can find a dedicated and loyal partner.
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