Youth, everyone meets the beloved boy, always shy face red ears, at that time, everyone's yardstick for loving boys, is that he studies well, he is very handsome, he is very sunny, it is not clear from when gradually, everyone chooses the norms of boys gradually change, we need to see how his character is, look at whether the girlfriend is gentle, intimate and so on. Everyone looks at the feelings and has more aspects of cognitive ability, not only is it good to be happy, everyone thinks about it for a long time, is it suitable for me and this man, can I live together, is he very worthy of my lifelong trust?
Whether the relationship can be long-term does not depend on the enthusiasm of the ephemeral nature, but depends on the height and length of the love, he loves you or not is expressed in the trivialities of life everywhere, to distinguish whether he can make you a stable, reliable relationship, look at those key points to understand. Attention is a prerequisite for a marital relationship A relationship must be carried out in the basics of attention, because the relationship is equal to each other, often funds are invested in feelings, is to find requirements between each other.
The friend's boyfriend is the cold president recognized in the circle, the boy is laid off at home for a period of time, because it is an exotic love, so impatient to find a friend to play, the friend is a corporate finance, coinciding with the liquidation at the end of the month, busy a mess, he refused, and discussed with the boyfriend, a week later is not OK. Ben thought that this matter would come to an end, but unwillingly, that night, the friend's boyfriend drove 300km to the bottom of their building, at this time the friend was still working overtime, received a phone call from the boyfriend who was locked up under the building, the work pressure at work and life was released, and the emotional collapse was released. Friends also often complained, exhausted by this kind of domineering, she thought it was a persecution is not the main manifestation of love. As she often said, the boyfriend is not mature enough and does not understand how to express love.
However, in terms of objectivity, long-term exotic love, coupled with friends who are usually busy at work, let the boyfriend be full of insecurity about this relationship, perhaps he did not take into account the girlfriend's current mentality, in order to better achieve his emotional needs, he hurriedly came, anxious to see his girlfriend. On the surface, boys travel thousands of miles to find a girlfriend, must be deeply in love with their girlfriend, friends should feel happy and happy, but feelings are not self-moved. Your behavior is to show love or bondage depends on whether the other party needs it, if you ignore the experience of others, still rigid self-use, it becomes yourself, this love is only to meet your own requirements, and does not really pay attention to the other half of the experience. That kind of love was kidnapping her. Only if he understands how to value your requirements, your influence will be easier and easier for him to grasp you? If a man really hurts you, it is not easy for him not to know what you like to eat, how can you be unreasonable, and what do you really want.
What the girl wants to achieve in the marriage relationship is only the lover's care and care, and some of the boy's thinking is still lingering in the link of living with a partner, he is not unclear about what you are thinking, why are you so angry this time, but he is unwilling to know your thoughts. On the wedding anniversary, you prepared a table of dishes in advance, wanted to have dinner with him, and had a mess, but he didn't care about the hardships of preparing a table for dinner, and he didn't care, even forgot your wedding anniversary, and hated your extravagant waste. Not to mention whether he cares what kind of long dress you wear today. The straight man of steel is not an excuse that can ignore the other half, and not understanding and intolerance are the death pits of a marital relationship.
Even before meeting you, a man is a straight man of steel, if he really loves you with his heart, he will remember your every habit and many requirements. A straight man of steel can remember a whole set of Otter warrior styles and names, and has a variety of Japanese anime and mobile game model, can you be sure that he can't remember your hobbies? In the final analysis, it is not straight, but whether it is willing or not. Therefore, a man is reluctant to even control you, how to hope that he will spend the rest of his life with you.
In the case of single men and women, beautiful women have been worried about not finding a boyfriend, after falling in love, they are worried that the boyfriend does not love himself enough, wants to invest more, and dare not pay too much, always confused in the relationship and does not know the end. Girls, the man who loves you, without your grievances, can give you a sense of belonging, he will work hard to make money, diligently understand you, learn how to take care of you, all the struggle is to better fight with your future. A man who doesn't love you, even if you put in it well, he won't be able to look at you easily until he finally becomes the one who sat on the stand.