When it comes to marriage, many people will have sweet and beautiful pictures in their minds, as if as long as they can enter the palace of marriage hand in hand with the object of their choice, their future life will be happy.
But reality is different from fantasy after all, the essence of married life is bland, if a couple wants to have a happy marriage, they must have the ability to run into each other in the ordinary years and tolerate each other.
Even if a couple loves each other again, in the long years of marriage, when the freshness of two people for each other disappears, their love for each other will become depreciated.
If this is the case, what should the couple do to make the marriage relationship between them happy and long-lasting? In my opinion, using a sense of ceremony to adjust the bland married life is one of the ways to maintain the freshness of the marital relationship.
First, the sense of ceremony is an attitude that takes life seriously.
Whether a couple can live a happy married life mainly depends on whether they have a serious attitude towards life between the two of them.
A happy and warm family, mostly full of rituals, husband and wife will hang couplets during the Spring Festival, hang gourds during the Zongzi Festival, and eat a romantic lunch together on the wedding anniversary, they will make each other's married life look colorful.
On the contrary, couples who do not know how to take life seriously, the environment in which they live is likely to be very dirty and messy, there are some couples, their living state is full of garbage, they do not even fold the quilt when they get up, let alone create some sense of ceremony for each other during major festivals.
In my opinion, the sense of ceremony is a serious attitude to life, but also the husband and wife love life behavior performance, only the husband and wife know how to create a sense of ceremony for each other in the married life, their married life can be happy and long-lasting.
Second, a sense of ceremony can add fun and hope to a bland married life.
If the married life is repeated every day to live the same day, over time, the couple will feel bored in the marriage relationship, and then there is no hope in this married life.
People who know how to create a sense of ceremony will send gifts to their marriage partners on every important holiday to make the other party look forward to the holiday.
For example, when a husband and wife quarrel, or do not speak to each other, if they think that the next day is their wedding anniversary, they will definitely think of breaking the contradiction between the two by giving each other gifts.
For example, when the husband works hard outside the home, he thinks that a few days is his wife's birthday, he will definitely look forward to that day, and then work harder, just to be able to give his wife a precious gift on his wife's birthday.
The sense of ceremony can make the couple full of hope and expectation for married life, and it is one of the secrets of marriage preservation.
Third, in married life, paying attention to the sense of ceremony is the embodiment of deep love for each other.
A couple who have just entered the married life hand in hand will complain about each other because the other party forgot their wedding anniversary, or their own birthday, thinking that the other party does not care about themselves.
A couple who have been married for a long time will be deeply moved because the other party still remembers their birthday or the wedding anniversary of the two, thinking that the other party still loves themselves deeply in their hearts.
Some couples feel that in married life, the sense of ceremony is just a small thing, and after a couple gets married, blandness should be the main color of the married life of two people.
In my opinion, this kind of thinking is not correct, because it seems too subjective, marriage is a matter of two people, only if you can make your partner feel love and see hope in married life, this married life can be happy and long-lasting.
And the person who knows how to create a sense of ceremony in marriage can make the marriage partner feel his love, and make the sense of belonging of the couple in the married life increase.
A bland married life needs a sense of ceremony to adjust, in order to be happy and long-lasting.
The sense of ceremony is a serious attitude to life, which can make the couple run the married life better; the sense of ceremony is the spice of blind life, it can make the husband and wife full of expectations and hope in the married life; can create a sense of ceremony, is the husband and wife still love each other's performance, it can make the husband and wife for the marriage sense of belonging to increase, so that the married life is more happy and stable.
Smart couples who know how to create a sense of ceremony in their married life, they will create some small surprises for each other in the extraordinarily big festivals that belong to each other, so that the married life of the two will always be fresh.
Marriage needs to be managed, only by managing the marriage with heart, taking into account the feelings of the other half in the married life, and making it feel satisfied in the marriage, can such a marriage relationship be happy and long-lasting.
Try to use the sense of ceremony to express the love of life, try to use the sense of ceremony to make the marriage partner feel your love for him, and you will find that your married life will become happier because of it.
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