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Yu Gakuen
Hi everyone, I'm nagging shrimp. Yesterday my girlfriend Peach gave me a spit:
"I have found that what defeated the marriage was not cheating, not domestic violence, but trivial matters!"
When you come home from a day at work and have to clean up the kitchen, he lies on the couch and looks at his phone, making a laugh from time to time. You say you're angry?
I called him for help, but he didn't refuse:
"Okay, I'll clean up later." Then look at your phone...
This meeting may be out of the blue, and I started to pack up again, and he sensed that the atmosphere was not right:
"Didn't I say I'll clean up later?" Why are you still angry? ”
"Waiting for you to get it?" When? The rice cooker is hairy and I haven't seen you wash it! ”
"I didn't forget that time, but I remember it until now."
scold! What do you call this, I really can't stand his "common sense" look!
This is really a small thing, ah, to tell me a little bit of my opinion:
Be patient and trust each other:
If it is not a "must be done immediately" thing, then when the other party agrees, we will not be a little more patient, believe that the other party will do it, give him time, let him do it.
Withdraw the hand you want to control:
We can't ask people other than ourselves to do things according to their own "rules", and the other party also has its own rhythm of doing things.
So then again, in married life, what is the point that you can't stand your husband the most?
Netizen a: The squat toilet does not come out
Half an hour into the toilet, he almost slept in it, and if he wanted to judge the title, he must be the top resident. Oh, sometimes it may not be pulling, just want to hide in the toilet quietly (grab my turf, ahem).
Netizen B: Don't go home and don't return information
If I don't reply to the message, I will start brain patching, what happened? No signal? Crashed? Drink too much? No accidents, right? What a heartbreak.
Netizen C: The wine is not good and the old drinking
When others persuade him to drink, he drinks; when others don't, he drinks (probably thirsty?!). Drink too much to change the words, can pull you to chat for a night, while spitting and talking.
Netizen d: Play games as soon as you get home
The child is about to be born, the milk powder money has not been earned enough, he has no sense of urgency, as soon as he comes home, he huddled on the sofa and played games. If it weren't for his big belly, I would have wanted to hit him! Say it and don't listen.
Netizen e: I don't understand romance, there is no sense of ceremony
Can never remember the anniversary, the holidays and no gifts, now basically have given up on this aspect, do not expect, want to spend their own buy, self-sufficiency.
Netizen f: Mm-hmm 2 minutes over
This is really, let's not pursue "speed". It was hard to put the baby to sleep, thinking about the big hi, but before I could start, the family was over.
What about you? In married life, what is the point that you can't stand your husband the most? Let's talk in the message area.
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#婚姻生活里, what is the point that you can't stand your husband the most?