In the matter of feelings, people also have cause and effect, and in their feelings, they also need to be kind in their hearts and interpret the beauty of true feelings in the world with sincere love. People's hearts are lonely and need warmth and companionship, if you can afford to give, give, if you can't afford to give, don't deliberately hurt.
How you treat other people's feelings, there will be another person in what way to treat your feelings, you can hurt the people you don't love but love you, but later, you are very likely to be hurt by what you love but don't love you. In people's feelings, loving a person can not be excessive, love to forget themselves is also a kind of harm to themselves, after all, we are ordinary people, with all the front and back things of human nature, we can not surpass.
Marriage and family is also a place to talk about feelings, marriage and family are often regarded by us as the destination of love, a hot love if we do not give it a destination, we will always feel that this love is ethereal, unrealistic.
But even if love is given a home, it is not necessarily guaranteed that it will never change, and it will always develop towards the good. Marriage is more complicated and trivial than love because it lives directly with reality. Some people still have fresh energy at the beginning of marriage, but as the marriage time lengthens, they gradually feel tired of married life.
Married life, not as romantic as love, Qingqing me, wind and snow, but all day pots and pans, chai rice oil and salt, chicken flying dog jumping. Therefore, some people have been married for a long time, and in the case of burnout marriage, they go outside the marriage to find a fresh stimulus to regulate the boring and complicated married life, or when they encounter the opposite sex that makes them feel excited, they cannot control themselves and generate new relationships.
In this way, you will be a traitor to feelings, break the original love vows with your lover at home, empathize with other people, and then find ways to use deceptive routines to cover up your own faults, and also know that you are hurting your lover by doing so, but you still have the upper hand in selfishness, preferring to bear the insult and hurt your family, and you also want to continue to be a traitor to feelings without understanding.
Feelings of things, hurting people is hurting themselves, being a traitor to feelings, you will definitely do all kinds of things that hurt your lover in your family, whether it is from material money or from the aspect of emotional payment, it is outward and no longer inward. However, people who do this are often hurt, deceived, and toyed with by people outside in the end. They have become emotional traitors to their lovers at home, and the lovers on the outside are their emotional traitors, and at the same time that they raise the sharp blade of affection to their lovers in their own homes, behind them is the sharp blade raised by their extramarital lovers to them.
What people do in their feelings is the same with antecedents and consequences, and no one is an exception. Even if you have the capital to play the wind in the world of feelings, as long as you do not respect feelings and cherish feelings, sooner or later you will be bitterly hurt by the bitter fruits you have planted.
In the world of feelings, if you love a person and feel sorry for a person, treat it wholeheartedly, cherish it with kindness, even if this feeling changes later, you must also be generous to change, and bid farewell to the people who have not loved, rather than choosing to sneaky empathy and not to secretly hurt. If you don't love someone, it's better to say it frankly, because if you don't love someone, you can't give sincere emotional contributions and care, and it's kinder to say it frankly than to pretend.
I personally feel that even marriage is the same, because people's lives are in the process of continuous growth, a person's view of feelings is not necessarily set in stone, marriage for a long time, found that they and their lover are already incompatible, together can not really achieve happiness, the heart is no longer loved, it is not as good as honestly said, the withdrawal on the table, although sometimes it will hurt feelings, but it is always lighter than hurting people with cheating betrayal.
The world of feelings is complex and changeable, because the human heart is inherently unpredictable, and feelings are not so easy to control, but nevertheless, what we do in feelings is also good and evil. Hurting a person in a relationship, and deliberately doing it, the consequence of doing so, is that you deliberately inflict pain on other people's feelings, sooner or later, this pain will definitely be reincarnated to yourself to experience and taste.
In our emotional life, we also need to accumulate virtue and do good, and we cannot deliberately hurt others by any means, whether it is cheating and empathizing, or deliberately intervening in other people's feelings to grab happiness, these practices bring harm and pain to others, and they will not bring happiness and sweetness to themselves.
Hurting others is not hurting themselves, people do everything, are paving the way for themselves, if you have to dig a trap for yourself, although others can't control you, but in the end you still have to fall into the trap you dug yourself, the trap dug for others, in fact, is also dug for yourself.
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