Love and marriage are not the same, if love is a feeling that still has a way out, then marriage shows that both husband and wife have decided to live with each other for the rest of their lives at the moment of taking the oath.
But today's feelings have too many twists and turns, but not everyone can pass the test of emotional life.
Many people think that marriage is the end of love, and when they are in love, they are with each other for the purpose of marriage, but in fact, entering married life is truly entering the door of feelings.
In everyone's expectations, the life after marriage is full of beauty, but when they actually live together, they find that blandness is the main theme.
But when they get along, the love is worn away a little, the heart is more and more disappointed, once deeply loved, to now maintain the relationship between the two only family bondage, this marriage is finally only left with a name.
If the following things happen when a man and a woman enter the married life together, it shows that love has been worn away, and it is necessary to reconsider the feelings of two people.
The quarrel is always directed at the parents of both parties
Everyone has their own personality, and living together is the process of constantly running into each other through getting along, so as to heat up feelings.
Perfect love, there is never a lack of quarrels and contradictions, these are actually part of the marriage, there are disputes, representing the love in each other's hearts is still very deep.
There is never a natural pair, and some are just partners who constantly run into each other for love.
But the matter between husband and wife, only involves each other, if you are anxious when arguing, and you begin to complain about each other's parents, this move can only show that your heart has begun to look down on this feeling.
If you can't love Wu and Wu, but intensify the contradictions between each other, not to mention whether it is a mouthful, it can only mean that this person has never really regarded his partner's parents as family, and this relationship cannot last long.
Likes to use force to solve problems
Everyone thinks differently about problems, and it is common for husband and wife to have disputes, and it is the solution to the problem to calm down with each other.
If violence is used and domestic violence occurs, it is like using actions to completely crush the love given by the partner, and such feelings are not worth lingering on.
Having violent tendencies is a particularly bad sign and a bad move for the family.
When the nature of the two partners together in a marriage becomes threatening, then what makes up love is also hurtful.
Look down on each other
Whether in love or marriage, the heart attaches importance to the partner, in order to build a stable emotional relationship.
Looking down on each other's behavior is not only in the heart, but also related to behavior, feeling better than the partner, and beginning to produce the behavior of inward comparison, which is also ruining each other's feelings with their own hands.
When feelings are out of balance, love becomes deformed, and even disrespect for the partner in life begins to appear to command and control each other's attitudes, then this is not a worthy love.
The feeling of mutual respect and mutual understanding is to find the person who is most worthy of love.
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