Comment on "Wife cut salary, want to buy meat and then change to tofu": The adult world, there is no easy word

Wen | Purple Leaf Girl

Nowadays, people have a higher and higher quality of life, but they feel more and more that they are not living happily enough. Although the progress of science and technology and the development of the times, compared with the past, we have a more convenient network to understand what is happening in all corners of the world, and with convenient transportation, we can travel to and from various places in a short time, but we only lack the wealth and energy to see the world.

It is true that this society is gradually getting better, but people's hearts are becoming more and more troubled in the jungle of reinforced concrete, repeating mechanical labor day after day, such as the mechanical arm on the production line, in order to survive, too many people will turn themselves into a part, rooted in this huge social machine.

In this materialistic society, the cost of realizing dreams is too high, obviously you can see the moon in the sky when you look up, but you can only touch the sixpence in your arms to comfort the Five Visceral Temple.

Young dreamers came to the big city to drift and became the lowest level of labor, most of them sank into the sea, and wasted their youth after a few years of fruitless return, how many Dong Mingzhu did these people have? How many opportunities can meet the times like Dong Mingzhu?

Recently, in Sanmenxia, Henan, a woman came home very late, and her husband was very worried, so the wife went home for the first time to ask for warmth, but she did not think that her wife had red eyes, crying and complaining, "The company has suddenly cut wages, and I am going to drag you back again..."

It turned out that the newlywed couple had not married long ago, there were no children, the two young people were known when they were working hard in society, they were very simple when they got married, and their married life was relatively stable, the husband's 4500 monthly salary was used to repay the mortgage and car loan, and the wife's 3000 yuan salary was used to maintain the family's living.

However, when his wife left work that day, she suddenly received a call from the personnel, telling her that almost all the employees' salaries had been reduced, and the original 1:9 performance plus basic salary had now become a 3:7 share, because the woman's position itself did not have any performance to speak of, and the original income of more than three thousand could only get more than two thousand points.

After hearing this news, the wife hesitated in her heart, the original husband and wife's tight life now needs to be more tight to do, and even because of her work dragged her husband's hind legs, the girl felt wronged from the bottom of her heart, so she hid in the office alone to wipe her tears, and did not dare to let others hear too loudly, for fear that others would feel that they were not out of the air.

She cried to her husband, "I originally wanted to buy you a piece of meat to eat, but now I want to save money, so I have to buy a piece of tofu." Maybe it's not until the New Year that I'm willing to buy meat for my parents to eat, so let's take it now. ”

The husband said, "As a man, I have no ability, and it is my sorrow to let my daughter-in-law have no worries about food and clothing!" ”

O'Henry depicts a poor couple in Maggie's Gift, with a husband who has a beloved pocket watch but no strap and can only carry it in his pocket, and his wife has beautiful blond hair but no good comb to take care of his hair.

At Christmas, two young people in love give each other gifts, the wife sells her long blonde hair in exchange for a strap, the husband sells his beloved pocket watch in exchange for an ebony comb, and the two lose their most precious things for love.

It is said that a long marriage has three elements, a healthy body, a certain material and a solid emotional foundation.

The body is the capital of the revolution, if one of the husband and wife is weak and sick, the other person has to spend more effort to take care of the lives of two people, and the marriage becomes a torture and drag on each other.

There is no certain material to ensure the quality of life of the couple, poor couples Pepsi mourn, life is too hard, can only focus on filling the stomach, neglect to maintain feelings, this marriage will not last.

Without an emotional basis, husband and wife cannot be in the same heart, cannot understand and respect each other, and are prone to quarrels, and the married life is managed into a tug-of-war, which consumes the patience of both parties, and eventually the marriage is broken.

However, as long as the husband and wife have a solid emotional foundation and a good physical condition, a little poorer, there is a partner who is willing to accompany each other to suffer, in fact, it is no problem.

Just like the husband and wife in the story, although the two are young people who came out of the countryside to work hard to live, from having nothing to having their own small house later, although the life is tight, they can communicate with each other, consider each other, and worry about the whole family because of their salary cuts.

Today's young people are generally impatient, especially when it comes to love. The reason is probably that almost all people are only children, as early as their own growth process, parents will do everything for their marriage and future, caravans and dowries are things that parents need to worry about, no longer have to experience the bitterness of self-made, which has led to too many people experiencing fast-food love.

Couples who can sink their hearts and live a sincere life will have a long married life. Blindly tangling with how many bride price I give, how much dowry you accompany, this is a deal; always worry about the betrayal of the other half, feel that the other half is not simple enough, this is a suspense reasoning; one person eats enough for the whole family to wear warm, the pursuit of their own independent, completely AA system of life, this is a partner to live, make up will be.

Marriage is inseparable from love, love needs respect, tolerance and understanding, needs to respect each other, also needs patience and trust, and needs responsibility and pay.

In the adult world, there is nothing easy to speak of, even if our parents have taken the first ninety-nine steps for us, the last step still needs to be taken by ourselves.

Marriage in particular needs to be patient, we all have a role of our own in marriage, so we must not only enjoy each other's efforts, but also take on our own responsibilities.