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It is said that where there is a family, it is home.
Ever since my wife died, I've been alone in my empty room, like a ghost every day. I sit in the living room for a while, and go to the bedroom for a while.
Cook only one meal a day and wake up late in the morning. Meals are free, and dinner is left over from noon.
When my relatives and friends saw that I was depressed all day, they suggested that I go to my daughter.
Speaking of my daughter, I am full of sadness. I think that at the beginning, I asked my relatives and colleagues to introduce her to so many boys with good conditions, but she didn't fancy any of them. I have to marry a son-in-law who is poor and incapable.
The crux of the matter is that my son-in-law's house is 2,000 kilometers away from my house. When my daughter was confined, I went there for a month. The living conditions there are far worse than ours.
Also, I'm a little bit unadaptable, and I'm not used to their diet at all.
But after all, my daughter is my only child, and when I am old, I can only count on my children.
When I called my daughter and told me that I wanted to go to her mother-in-law's house. My daughter was 100 in favor and suggested that I sell the house here, and it is unlikely that I will come back in the future anyway.
After thinking about it again, I told her, "Wait a minute, if something happens here, it's convenient to come back and stay." Besides, the price of the house has dropped so much that it can't be sold for any price. ”
2
After packing up, I got on the train to my daughter's house.
After getting out of the car, the daughter and son-in-law were very enthusiastic.
Seeing this scene, I was full of emotion, and handed a bank card with a deposit of 300,000 yuan to my daughter on the spot, "In the days to come, I will count on you." ”
Seeing this, the son-in-law called "Mom, Mom, Mom" more than a dozen times in a row.
That's so kind, outsiders really think I'm his own mother.
"Mom, you can sit down here with confidence, and the two of us will treat you well. The daughter said seriously.
I clapped her hand: "Child, I only have you." ”
Actually, when my wife was alive, I was quite relieved that my daughter was marrying away.
Recently, it may be that I have been alone for too long, or I may have lost my wife suddenly, and I have no psychological sustenance, and I think very much about my daughter.
Before I came, my daughter specially cleaned up a clean room for me and prepared a new quilt and mattress for me.
At night, I smell the sun on the quilt, and my heart warms.
I thought to myself, if I come here, I will be safe, and I will live here in the future, and I must adapt to the living habits here as soon as possible.
3
The ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny.
My stomach seems to be deliberately going against me, eating and vomiting.
When my wife was alive, his taste was relatively light, and I also developed this tricky stomach.
When I got here, I ate so many chili peppers violently. My stomach is on strike, and it's normal.
A few days later, I really had a stomach ache, so I asked my daughter to help me get some medicine for my stomach problems.
But after taking the medicine, it can only be relieved for a while.
I had to ask my daughter if she could open a small stove for me, so I didn't have to do it with them, and I would do it myself.
The daughter thought for a long time and nodded in agreement.
Who knows, this is the beginning of family conflicts.
When my mother-in-law saw that I ate differently from them, her eyes were about to pop out.
My father-in-law is also sarcastic, saying that I am squeamish, and I came to their house to be an ancestor.
The son-in-law's smiling face is also becoming less and less, as if I have done something bad in their family.
I just use their place to cook a meal that suits my appetite.
4
Half a month later, my daughter secretly found me at night.
"Mom, if it goes on like this, there must be opinions in the family. Otherwise, you sell our house, and let's buy a house in this county!"
Think about it, too, the daughter lives with her in-laws.
Now adding me, it's really not very convenient.
I didn't even think about it, so I put the house on the agency according to my daughter's wishes.
Due to the urgency, the buyer's price was very low, and the house was finally sold for 800,000 yuan. I was thinking of buying a small house of fifty or sixty square meters with all the money.
Who knew that my daughter said that I am getting older and older, and she will definitely be indispensable to take care of me in the future. It's better to give them the money and buy a big house, so that the family can live in it.
At that time, I was kicked in the brain by a donkey. It's simple to think, what the daughter says is what it is.
After some investigation, the son-in-law decided to buy a 140-square-meter three-bedroom and two-living second-hand house.
"Mom, after we move in in a few days, you'll live in the largest master bedroom with a separate bathroom. My son-in-law assured me.
The house is very well designed, with floor-to-ceiling balconies and plenty of light.
It's much better than my previous dark living room.
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Since the house itself is well decorated, we simply bought some furniture and moved in. My son-in-law put my luggage directly in the master bedroom.
I thought that without the two of my in-laws, it would be smooth sailing.
Who knew that less than a week after moving in, the two in-laws also came with their luggage.
"Mother-in-law, my son and grandson are not used to the food you cook, no, he has to call us to come. ”
Seeing them coming, the fire in my heart burned inexplicably.
But when people come, I can't just drive them away. Besides, people have contributed some money to this house.
After dinner, my daughter and son-in-law pulled me to the bedroom and discussed, "Mom, can you sleep on the sofa?" ”
I was surprised, "There's a place in the children's room!"
The little grandson's children's room is a bunk bed, the two of them live below, and the little one sleeps on it, which is completely fine.
"Mom, it's not like you don't know that Tong Tong doesn't welcome outsiders to his room. ”
The implication is that my room has to be vacated.
Forget it, let's make up for a night!
6
I thought that my in-laws were just coming over to help the children improve their lives. But unexpectedly, people didn't leave at all.
"Mother-in-law, there is no farm work in my hometown at this time, and we plan to live here. ”
Tell me, I'll have to stay on the couch all the time!
I paid 1.1 million for this house, and I didn't even get a bed.
"Girl, did you plan for a long time?"
"Mom, what's wrong with the old man wanting to live with the child, just like you, doesn't he think the same way?" the son-in-law quibbled.
Oh, yes, I really want to live with my children. Because I was lonely in my heart, but I didn't want to be seen as an outsider like this, I obviously paid the most money when I bought a house, and in the end, I could only sleep on the sofa.
"You say!" I pointed angrily at my daughter.
"Mom, what Zhang Qing says is what he says, I have always listened to him. The daughter replied resignedly.
It's really a useless thing, and I teamed up with outsiders to deceive my mother's old bottom, and I can't even be the master.
Thinking about it in the future, I will always live like this.
I forced them to pay me back, and I didn't live in this home.
My son-in-law wanted to repay the debt, so I took the payment certificate and sued him in court, and finally decided that they would pay me back in installments.
I left my daughter's house with my suitcase.
When you come, you rejoice, and when you go, you hurt. In the future, I can only move alone, and when I can't move one day, the nursing home is my home.
I just hate me for being so stupid!
I also advise the elderly who have the same idea as me to try to keep their money in their own hands, so that they can have more choices.