In the process of interacting with girls, embarrassing scenes will inevitably appear, and the most embarrassing thing is when the girls say the embarrassment in their own mouths. What does the girl mean by embarrassment, and how to resolve the embarrassing situation at this time?
1, girls say embarrassed, may not be a topic to talk about
In fact, not only boys, but also many girls will not chat, will not find a topic. Because they are always chased by boys and do not need to think for themselves, whether they can talk about the day depends entirely on the boys. A boy who can talk, a boy who can provide a lot of topics, can take the girl to talk all the time.
If you don't have the ability to provide topics, and girls don't find topics, then girls will feel very embarrassed, and then girls may not give you a chance, but talk to boys who will provide topics.
2, the girl said embarrassed, may be the chat is not in a channel
If you are not on a channel, girls can easily feel very embarrassed.
For example, if you joke with a girl, but the joke is too hot, the girl feels uncomfortable, but you are unconscious, and you are proud of yourself, the girl will think that your emotional intelligence is relatively low, will not chat, very embarrassing.
Another example is that the girl flirts with you and plays with you, but you think that the girl is hurting you, and you are really angry. At this time, girls will also feel that you are too straight and iron.
There are many similar scenarios, such as when the girl is lost and sad, you give the girl a reason, for example, when the girl says that she is very idle and bored, you persuade her to do something meaningful. Not only did you miss the opportunity for the girl to invite you, missed the opportunity to enter the girl's heart, but also did some very straight men and very boring things.
This is called, the chat is not in a channel, you can't catch the girl's words, can't catch the opportunity given by the girl, can't read the girl's signal, just like a new driver who can't understand the traffic lights, will only drive randomly.
So girls saying that embarrassment is not a rejection, but a signal to you that you are not in the same channel now.
3, girls say embarrassed, may be that you are too restrained
The girl's state comes from you, you are nervous, she will feel uncomfortable. You are happy and relaxed, and girls will be happy and relaxed. If you tie your hands and feet, girls can clearly feel the tension and anxiety emanating from you.
At this time, girls will feel very embarrassed and very uncomfortable. So you have to convey a sense of confidence and ease, and of course, it's you who have to get there first.
If you want to feel confident and confident when you are with girls, you must first be prepared.
Why do girls spend two hours dressing up before going out? Because the delicate makeup and attractive dress are her underpinnings, and the man's underpinnings come from his ability to solve problems and lead the dating atmosphere.
When you have the ability to arrange the date well and make every conversation enjoyable, the girl will have a sense of security, and you will also have the confidence. As a man, your confidence should not come from your external conditions, such as being tall and handsome to be confident. Your self-confidence should come from your abilities, your experiences, your connotations. So a man's self-improvement should be throughout.
Therefore, when the girl says that she is embarrassed, you only need to look at her very calmly, and even begin to convey an ambiguous feeling, then the tension of this atmosphere will become an ambiguous tension, but it will make the girl's heart beat faster.
Then ask her back: Embarrassing?
The girl said: Awkward.
At this time, all you have to do is calmly reply to her: it doesn't matter, it will pass in a while.
This kind of anything in your eyes is a sesame small thing, pass it on with the natural aura, let the girl know that you are not deliberately hiding your embarrassment, and you are not in a hurry to say some topics to fill.
With such a strong mindset, you can have ten thousand ways to resolve embarrassment. Because inner strength is far more useful than one or two small moves.