My cousin has been often depressed lately, with a worried look.
Ask him why, and reply that a female classmate has always gotten along well with him, but recently she has suddenly become a little awkward, sometimes better for him than before, and sometimes for no reason.
My cousin was obviously upset about the "change" of the female classmate, but I smiled in my heart and just wanted to call him a fool.
This female classmate has indeed "changed", and she is emotional about her cousin. The hints she gave were obvious enough, but the signals from the hints had not yet been received by the straight cousin.
Compared with men, women are relatively subtle and introverted in the expression of emotions, especially women educated by our traditional Chinese culture, who tend to wait passively in love, rather than actively attacking.
Therefore, how women let the other party know when they are emotional and trigger men's active behavior is a lot of strategies to speak of.
Hints are a signal that women are emotional about you.
How to judge that a woman is hinting? It can be seen from the following aspects.
Behavioral cues
The first person to look for when you have difficulties is you.
When people encounter difficulties and setbacks, it is easy to seek help from others, so there is a difference between who to help.
The person a woman wants to find first must be the person she feels most trustworthy, if she has already been emotional about you, her heart will regard you as her dependence, and the first thing she thinks of looking for you in case of trouble is to find you.
Straight boyfriend don't think that this is just a good friend, a good "brother" two ribs of the knife of the righteous, the woman is willing to show you her most awkward, helpless look, and do this many times, she is definitely not taking you as a brother.
Care about the opposite sex in your social circle.
Love is different from the compatibility of other feelings, love is a very exclusive emotion.
So if a woman is emotional about you, even if you don't know her mind yet, even if you haven't established a relationship, in the woman's mind, she may have positioned herself as your only girlfriend and has begun to have an exclusive consciousness.
She may be eager to ask who the female avatar friends in your circle of friends are, or she may be obviously unhappy when you help other female colleagues, or she may squeeze away other women at the party and sit next to you...
Behaviors like this, when a woman starts rejecting the opposite sex in your life, means she's eager to swear an oath of sovereignty over you, and the implication is already very strong.
Verbal implications
In addition to behavior, the way women often use suggestions is language.
As the saying goes, "The tongue is the seedling of the heart," and it is also very appropriate to put aside the medical significance of this sentence.
When the mind thinks, the mouth will speak accordingly.
Once a woman is emotional about you, then the unconcealed verbal hints will also follow, and men should listen carefully.
The word "we" would often appear in her words, tying the two together instead of "I" and "you" with clear lines.
She will often have a coddled performance in her words, changing her title for men, such as calling you "brother, big idiot, male god", no longer has the sense of distance that you and I used to have.
Some women with extroverted and bold personalities will occasionally have more obvious hints, such as ambiguous meanings between words, if such hints are not understood by men, then it is really only "lonely".
After saying the content of the woman's expression of the implied words, let's talk about the way of speech.
The boundaries of human behavior and the relationship between the two sides correspond to each other, "what people do", this is the conventional rules of interpersonal communication.
If someone's performance and identity are different, then she is likely to change the social relationship with the other person.
For example, a female friend who was originally just a person asked to chat with you in the middle of the night, poured out his heart, or was willing to accompany you until 1 a.m. to listen to your unsatisfactory work.
If a woman has such a change, then she must be emotional to you and hope to be the person you are more intimate with and walk into your more private life.
What do you say between the sexes? When to say? It's all about what needs to be pondered, and it contains a lot of looming and effective information.
Physical cues
When men and friends are together, there are often physical contact such as shoulder bumps and punches each other, and even if people who are not very familiar with each other collide, they will not take it too seriously.
Compared to men, women are obviously more aware of their physical boundaries and more self-protective.
So a woman's body is actually an expression of her very external attitude, intuitive and real.
For example, a woman who hates the smell of smoke maintains a polite smile on the man sitting next to her smoking even if she does not say a word, but her body tilting in the opposite direction is clearly saying "really annoying"
Conversely, a woman who likes you will involuntarily show her body leaning closer to you when she sits next to you, and her legs will rush towards the person who has a good feeling.
These body languages are typically suggestive of goodwill in behavior.
Also, if a woman regularly looks at a man, smiles when her eyes collide, and intentionally or unintentionally plays with her hair when she is close...
These body languages, without exception, are all hinting at men: "I like you, please pursue me".
When her friend Oe met her blind date Mia for dinner for the second time after her divorce, Mia often looked at Oe with her cheeks and listened to him with a smile on her face.
In the process of communication, Mia will often send small gifts to Dajiang, all of which are practical and intimate gifts such as belts, ties, shirts, and gloves.
Although Mia is an introverted woman who doesn't talk much, through her body language, Oe clearly reads her hints.
Soon the two had lovers who eventually became dependents and married Qin jin.
Feelings are a matter for both parties and need to go in both directions. However, in the matter of who acts first, it may be better for men to be more active.
That once the woman is emotional first, but the man is still ignorant, the woman will use the language, body, behavior and many aspects of the hint to remind the man, prompting the man to initiate the pursuit, so as to enter the two-way love track.
At this time, in the face of women's clear or obscure hints, whether men can read women's hearts is the key to determining their future emotional state.
As the saying goes: "Men chase women across the mountains, and women chase men across the yarn."
When women are emotional about men and then begin to hint, as long as men can receive signals and understand women's intentions, then it is no longer so difficult for men to chase women.
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What other hints do you think women are emotionally suggestive?
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