"Doing" is a good way to enhance feelings, and there is a word in psychology called the proximate effect.
That is to say, a person's last impression of this event or person is often the strongest, and even dilutes the various impressions that have arisen before that.
That is to say, if you do it, even if you have an unpleasant time in the process, it will end up with a good ending, and the relationship between the two of you will become more intimate because of this work.
He had thoughts like, "She's pretty cute if she throws a tantrum."
And once this good impression is left, it will form a positive reaction mechanism.
The next time you make a request, he will make a pleasant impression based on the last time he met your request, and he will consciously complete it.
How can you make every game a good ending?
Make good use of praise, and turn the end of each work into a flirt or flirt.
She had a bad mood before she quit her job and wanted to go out for a walk, but she knew that her boyfriend was very busy at work and couldn't accompany her on a trip.
So she told her boyfriend that she was in a very bad mood recently, and if she wanted to go out on a trip, she wanted to experience a walk and go, and she wanted to go with her boyfriend.
At this time, his boyfriend was very embarrassed, explaining that he was really busy at work and could not go out with her.
Before, the kittens would have made a big fuss.
But this time she pretended to be angry and said:
"I'm in such a bad mood, you don't go out with me, this time spare you first, we go to see a movie on the weekend, but you owe me a trip, and you will pay me back later." 」
Coupled with the expression of grievance and pampering, the boyfriend's heart is guilty and painful.
The next day, he bought a brand-name bag for the kitten and said that he had been really too busy lately, hoping that she would not be unhappy, and he would immediately take her out to play after arranging the work at hand.
In this way, "doing" not only promotes feelings but also satisfactorily solves the problem. Of course, "doing" is also divided into time, place and frequency, be sure to remember the following 4 sentences:
1. Accept when you see good, go down when there are steps, and don't easily challenge men's bottom line;
2. Look at the occasion when "doing", and know how to lie in the tenderness of men to "do";
3. "Do" to have a beautiful posture, and the public eating appearance should not be too ugly;
4. "Do" must have a reason, let him have a sense of direction to pay for you.
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