Pursuing the person you like requires a little love skill, but many people feel that as long as they are good to him, he can feel his sincerity and like himself.
He can feel your liking, but if you don't improve your love skills, even if you "paste" him, he will not be moved.
Because you put your posture too low, causing him to not see you in the same position, your attraction to him is much lower, and being ignored becomes the norm.
Zhan Xiang in "Heart Residence" has always been used as a spare tire by Gu Qingyu, she did not know that he liked her before meeting her first love, and also asked him why he was so good to her?
Zhan Xiang said, I am good to you, like the knee jump reflex, unless the nerve necrosis, otherwise can not control.
In the process of pursuing Gu Qingyu, whether she is unmarried or divorced, it is a gesture of "upside down" and she enjoys his kindness to her, but does not want to marry him.
She tried to be with him, but finally decided to separate, knowing that she didn't love him, but just enjoyed his good.
In fact, if you want to capture the hearts of people you like, don't just know how to paste upside down, try the "suspension bridge effect".
Create a "variable" that makes the other person's heart beat faster, so that he thinks that he is moving on you.
Emotions are based on two factors: physiological arousal and emotional cognition, when the brain links physiological arousal and emotional cognitive error, it becomes the wrong attribution of arousal, and the suspension bridge experiment shows this misattribution.
The phenomenon of the "suspension bridge effect" can create an illusion in the face of urgent danger, easily confusing the thrilling experience with the cause of rapid heartbeat.
Gu Qingyu rejected Zhan Xiang's marriage proposal twice, the first time was to eat hot pot to propose, and he dropped the ring into the hot pot nervously. The second time was to celebrate Gu Qingyu's birthday, and in the process of trying to pull the ring out of his pants pocket several times, Gu Qingyu saw his purpose and directly said that he was going to go abroad and politely rejected him.
Neither of these proposals has "variables" that can make her heart beat faster and make her impulsive desires. In contrast, Shi Yuan's marriage proposal, he knew that she liked the way he played the piano and sang, so he improvised (variable) to play her favorite song in the restaurant, which awakened her deep inner memory, she thought it was love, so she married him, choosing to ignore the problem between the two people.
If you want to capture the hearts of the people you like, you must first create a "variable" that makes his heart beat faster, so that he can promote Almont's feelings and enhance the feelings of the two people in the case of rapid heartbeat.
Therefore, don't always use the same way of pursuing, the other party has no surprises, and it is not easy to move.
Create a dating atmosphere that makes the other person's heart beat faster.
In different dating atmospheres, people will produce different emotional and psychological activities according to their preferences.
Some people pursue people they like, but they don't understand what the other person likes, only according to their own preferences, can't make the other party's heart move, and it is impossible to beat faster.
The "suspension bridge effect" is an experiment on a suspension bridge between two high mountains. The men and women on the suspension bridge will have their hearts beat faster because of the stimulation and excitement brought by the experience, which will make people think that they have a good feeling and affection for the opposite sex.
If you want to capture the heart of the person you like, take him to the dimly lit movie theater to watch a movie, when his mood fluctuates due to the movie, the subconscious will rely on you, and even have the possibility of grabbing your hand.
The dating atmosphere that makes the other party's heart beat faster, as well as the escape room, riding a roller coaster, etc., in the stimulated emotions, the other party will think of the emotional fluctuations as heartbeats, and subconsciously like you.
Because in this environment, people will feel that they are in danger because of the dim or stimulating environment, easy to be insecure, and psychologically dependent on each other, thereby increasing the feelings of both parties.
The clever use of the "suspension bridge effect" will enhance the relationship between two people, in the heartbeat after being occupied by emotions, people are not so rational, the opportunity for psychological defense will be reduced, goodwill will increase, and it is easy to feel that they are destined.
Stand in front of each other, not give in a low profile.
Pursuing people we like, we will put our posture very low, afraid that we will not pay enough, give not good enough, but ignore our own posture.
In "Heart Residence", Zhan Xiang pays in a low posture in front of Gu Qingyu, is on call, and consciously retreats behind her to guard her after she has a new love, humble to the dust.
She enjoys his goodness because she knows that he is the best for herself, but she does not cherish this kind of love that does not make her pay any price, the other party is like a rag to her, and she can throw it away when she runs out, and does not care whether the other party will be sad.
Many people will cower in front of the people they like, drop the chain at critical moments, and lower their posture, don't blame the other party for not being moved by you, because the impression you leave on him is not good.
If you want to capture the heart of the person you like, you must first stand in front of the other party, let the other party see your excellent side, and let him know that you are not indispensable to him, but just like him. Of course, you have to have the strength to let the other person appreciate you from the bottom of your heart.
Only in this way can you not be humble in front of the people you like, dare to be your true self, and the other party is more likely to be attracted to you, so that you are moved and wants to be with you.
If you want to capture the hearts of people you like, you may wish to try more "suspension bridge effect", create more "variables" that make the other party's heart beat faster, let the people you like beat faster dating atmosphere, and at the same time can not pay in a low posture.
To master this degree, you must constantly explore the possibility of two people to enhance their feelings in getting along, and to act, in order to impress each other's hearts and hold hands together.
May the people you like also happen to like you.
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