ZHI QING GAN
Author—Xia Mo · Anchor - Yao Xiaoming
Music — guests
To emotional originality
After three years of pain, through the itch of seven years, and a ten-year covenant, we still haven't walked through the eighth year hand in hand.
When we broke up, we didn't argue, I just said a light word, I left, he also faintly replied, take good care of yourself in the future.
In this way, after i borrowed a month at my girlfriend's house, I rented a house again, which was not a large room and a living room, enough to live on my own. While packing my bags, the necklace he had given me fell out of the pocket of a piece of clothing, and I was in a daze for a long time looking at the necklace that had faded.
At that time, we both just graduated, both just found a job, no money, when visiting the night market, I liked this necklace, more than twenty dollars, he said to me at that time, when you get married, I will definitely buy you a platinum, but until the breakup, I did not wait.
I have witnessed many friends being proposed, the man kneels on one knee, and then takes out the ring, the woman tearfully nods, stretches out her hand to be put on the ring by the man, I am moved, I am also especially looking forward to such a day, by his proposal, especially as I get older, this expectation becomes particularly strong.
Every time we talked about getting married, he always said wait or two years to save enough money to buy a house and get married. Later, I couldn't stand it, and I told him that the house could be bought after marriage, but he said that he didn't want to wronged me.
I really wanted to tell him that if I felt wronged, I would have left him a long time ago, I am thirty this year, and I want to put on the wedding dress that belongs to me when I am not old and my body is not crotched, including my parents, who have been looking forward to this day.
I don't want to force him to marry me, what I want is his willingness, I want more than love, I hope he can say that in person, are you willing to marry me? Do I want more? How he can escape again and again, his attitude makes me more and more insecure.
A man loves you or not, in addition to giving gifts, talking, the most advanced way should be, he wants to marry you, even if there is no way, he will try to do everything, even if there is no condition, he will try to create conditions, love a person is not lip service, but to use actions to prove, whether it is sincere, time is the best proof, but now we have been together for almost eight years, I have never been able to wait.
I know that he doesn't love me, he just doesn't love me enough, if a man loves you enough, he will definitely treat you as an inseparable part of his life, and he will let him give up all uncertainties and marry you home. Make you wait, just want you to take the initiative to say leave.
Where there is no time wrong, where there are so many excuses, it is clear that there is not enough love, and the person he wants to marry is not you at all. I don't want to go on like this all the time, and I don't want to be humble in order to get married, because once humble, the more he will not take you to heart and the less he will cherish.
Recognize a person, just stop the loss in time, don't let yourself get deeper and deeper, don't let yourself become embarrassed in the future, finally, I hope we can all understand that the person who really loves you will be afraid to give you not enough, not enough to love you, he will feel more. A man who genuinely wants to marry you, he will give you enough security and will not make you wait too long.
ZHIQINGGAN