In a relationship, if the woman is too sensible, the man will ignore you very much, and he will not be careful about the relationship. Today we will talk about, what kind of woman can make men take the initiative to pay? This type of woman actually has a common trait called a high sense of self-esteem.
In intimate relationships, in fact, many times we will hope that the other party's eyes are only our own because of this feeling for each other.
For example, if you and your partner see a lot of beautiful women on the road, women with low self-esteem will have such requirements for their partners: you are not allowed to look at any beautiful woman, you can only look at me, I should be the most important in your heart. That is to say, you will put this requirement on the other party, your expectations of the other party are very high, then in the hot love period the other party will definitely meet your expectations, he meets your expectations, in fact, is the recognition of your attraction.
But women with high self-esteem don't do that, what kind of words will they say? You see there are so many beautiful women on this road, such a beautiful scenery we have to enjoy together, but I know very well that I am the most important thing in your heart.
You see this difference in mentality, isn't it obvious? What kind of feelings do women with high self-esteem give men? I don't rely on your approval of me, I'm confident in myself, confident in our relationships, and I'm fairly confident in my own place in your heart.
Then a very confident woman, she will attract men to take the initiative to pay in this relationship. Why? Because men will find that if I am not good to her, then she is likely to have other options, and if you find it difficult to attract men to pay in the relationship, more because your self-esteem is too low, you will make men feel that in this relationship, you need each other's approval all the time to put yourself into the relationship.
So once a man withdraws this recognition of you, are you six gods and no master? The relationship between you becomes strained, so boosting your self-esteem is the best way to attract men to give. Then of course we have to go from a very insecure state of feelings to a state of high self-esteem, which must require a process.
Today I will provide you with a way to change your mindset, and you need to focus on interaction in the relationship. What does that mean? You don't want to do too many things that are self-touching, or self-obsessed with self-pity.
In the past, we all heard a story called Tian Luo Girl, who took advantage of the man's absence to make him a good daily meal and do the housework at home, and finally this man was very touched so he married her. I want to tell you that this is simply impossible in real life, especially in modern marriage relationships, it is difficult for a man to be very good to a woman because he is touched by her.
So what does this focus on interaction mean? In many things you have ideas you say, you have expectations you say, you have feelings of dissatisfaction, you take it out to discuss with the other party, be sure to open your heart so that the other party can know your true thoughts. At the same time, you must continue to pay attention to what the other party thinks in their hearts, and keenly grasp the needs of the other party, so that your feelings will have more concentration and depth.