"Heart Residence" is a recent hit urban drama, which revolves around the purchase of houses in first-tier cities and the emotional problems of older men and women, and is vividly interpreted through the sadness and joy of gu family members.
The gap between the rich and the poor in it makes people feel deeply rooted; the emotional entanglement inside makes people feel sad.
We see that people without money struggle on the road to dreaming of a house, living humble and cautiously; rich people, although living in large houses, seem to be dashing and happy, but the pain in their hearts is more.
Originally, I thought that with a rich material foundation, the emotional life would be very smooth. In fact, in the end, I found that someone often picked up sesame seeds and lost watermelon. Among them, there are three infatuated people who are still single in the end, which makes people feel very deeply.
Gu Qingyu: Pure love for the first time, a lifetime is difficult to extinguish
Gu Qingyu is the older sister in the dragon and phoenix fetus, and although she and her brother have a strong affection, they are obviously two types of people. The older sister is smart and capable and thinks clearly; the younger brother is thick and wooden, and his life is tight.
So, although my sister is almost 40 years old, she still lives alone in a big house, and her boyfriend says that she will change it. The younger brother's family could only squeeze into his father's house and share the same house. My sister-in-law has always wanted to buy a house and move out, but even the down payment is borrowed from my eldest sister.
It seems that the house has seriously affected the happiness of the younger brother's family. The biggest dream of my sister-in-law's life is to have a house of her own in Shanghai.
As an investment company executive, Gu Qingyu would rather fake marriage to buy a second big house than lend money to his sister-in-law.
The reason was just a pact for her as a teenager. At that time, she had agreed with Shi Yuan, a middle school classmate who had a good feeling, to reunite when she was older, which is where the new building is now.
Later, although the two met dramatically in a fake marriage, Shi Yuan at this time was already in debt because of his mother's serious illness and stock traps. In front of his first love, he was extremely inferior in his heart.
Gu Qingyu generously let Shi Yuan live in his big house, and for his millions of debts, he also wanted to take the initiative to pay him back. But the more this happened, the more Shi Yuan twisted. The two of them split and merged twice, and until the end, the two people could not be together.
Although Gu Qingyu has excellent conditions, he has always cherished the ideal of girlish love. Her requirements for her future husband are naturally flawless. Therefore, this makes Shi Yuan live very tired and stressful. Gu Qingyu, every time they fall in love, they are shaped according to their first love boyfriend, and they lose love again and again because they have no feeling of first love.
She has always lived in the spiritual realm, and even if she has more wealth, she cannot find perfect love.
Zhan Xiang: Love at first sight, forming a conditioned reflex
Zhan Xiang has the same excellent conditions as Gu Qingyu, because he grasped the opportunity, he had more than a dozen houses in Shanghai, sitting on the ground to collect rent, and living a rich life. For example, his wine cabinets are all custom-made in France and worth millions.
However, such a diamond "Show Old Five", but still single, no true love, the reason is that he only loves Gu Qingyu.
For the sake of Gu Qingyu, he willingly became a spare tire. Whenever Gu Qingyu had something to worry about, he was always on call. Drinking with Gu Qingyu to heal her wounds even paved the way for her love life. In his heart, as long as Gu Qingyu was happy, he was happy, even if she wanted to marry someone else.
Such infatuation is only because Zhan Xiang met in the community where he bought a house, and he was obsessed with being a neighbor with her, one place is more than ten years.
But the display of the image of the upstart has not been able to make Gu Qingyu move. When Gu Qingyu's foot was injured, Zhan Xiang checked her knee jump reflex and said that his love was like a conditioned reflex, and there were no conditions for Gu Qingyu.
Zhan Xiang's love has entered a dead end. When people who are very materially rich often have the desire for higher requirements, Zhan Xiang and Gu Qingyu belong to this category. It is also this need to constantly go up to the next level, which makes people feel more distressed.
It's like we're envious of the rich man's mansion, and they're envious of the love we have, precious and extravagant.
Feng Xiaoqin: Bear the burden of humiliation, love has not blurted out
Feng Xiaoqin is Gu Qingyu's younger daughter-in-law. She went from being a foreigner to marrying Gu Lei and becoming the daughter-in-law of a Shanghainese. Who thought to get glory and happiness, who had thought it was to add more inferiority complex.
Because she lives with her father-in-law and grandmother at home, she is the only one who does the housework, and she is also cold-eyed everywhere. She wanted to force her husband to try to grow up to be as good as her sister Gu Qingyu.
As a result, my husband was forced to die. This has also become a knot in the hearts of the whole family.
When Feng Xiaoqin finally had her own job and met Xiaoding, a Shanghainese, as long as she agreed to marry Xiaoding, she would immediately live in a new house in a large villa.
Feng Xiaoqin, who has experienced the difference between life and death, understands that the house in front of true love is not important. If the two did not feel it, she would rather give up being the daughter-in-law of a Shanghainese and give up a luxury villa. She fell in love with the optimistic and cheerful Zhan Xiang, but because of Zhan Xiang's family property and infatuation with Gu Qingyu, she could not open her mouth to confess.
Feng Xiaoqin, who has struggled for half a life, perhaps feels the most deeply that for the life she wants, she picked up sesame seeds and lost watermelons.
Tolstoy once said: It is sad to have no money, but excess money is more sad than sad.
It is also often said that the problems that can be solved with money are not problems. And we often regard money as too important when we don't have money, and ignore the happiness around us. But when I really had enough wealth, I found that I was not as happy as I thought.
Just like Gu Qingyu and Zhan Xiang, they are not worried about the house, but they are worried about love. Even if they are infatuated and their loved ones are within reach, they still can't get them. And Feng Xiaoqin's dream all day is to have a house, even if the house is small, but once she loses her lover, she also finds that it is so difficult to find a love that she is satisfied with.
Fish and bear paws cannot be combined. Life is so imperfect that when we pursue something, we always lose something. In the end, we find that money and houses are not the most precious, and it is the most luxurious thing for people who really love each other to live peacefully together.