People always feel that:
"There are more women who are obsessed, and there are many men who have negative hearts."
That's why there's that sentence:
"Crazy woman negative man."
In fact, sometimes, women will also fail a man, do not do anything should not be a tendon, when evaluating the love between men and women, do not want to be clouded, not to mention a stick to kill, feel that the world is as black as a crow, and there are also infatuation among men.
A man will love a woman deeply in his life, of course, some men may not have loved others, except for such men.
If a man has loved a woman deeply, he is very afraid of losing this woman, and if one day a man breaks off contact with this woman, the man will also have the following three performances.
01.
Malaise
In a man's mind, the woman he loves is everything he has, although he still has a career to do, but in terms of feelings, men care most about this woman.
If one day this woman quietly leaves the man, the two people will no longer be in contact, which is a blow to a man, and many men will never turn around.
Don't look at men who are sometimes very strong, in fact, a strong man also has a tender side, especially in the face of things they value, men will also show weakness and powerlessness.
If a man loses a woman, and this woman fails the man, the man not only feels special pain in his heart, but the man feels that life has lost its meaning, so he is not so hard at work, and he is also soulless in life.
There is a saying that says:
"That woman took your soul away."
It is because men's minds are all on women's bodies, so when women leave, men will become ghostly, feeling that their souls have been hooked by others, although this sentence is not very good, nor is it a positive word, but it shows that after a person's infatuation has reached a certain level, he will do something that ordinary people cannot accept.
Although there are some things that you can't accept, and you feel that this man is not out of the ordinary, when you really fall in love with someone, what you say may be like him, or even more serious than him.
02.
No longer believe in love
After the woman and the man break off, the man's heart will be anxious, but if the woman does something to hurt the man, and the man gives everything to the woman, then, in the future life, the man will no longer believe in love.
People actually have a common feature:
When you give everything to a person, but you don't get anything in return, then, in the future love, you will become a hedgehog, because you are afraid that others will hurt you, so you will become hurting others, and you will have some wariness of others.
When you are wary of others, it means that you no longer believe in love, because you no longer believe in that person.
If a man is hurt by love, he will become like this, so people always feel that if a man wants to mature, then the man must be deceived by the woman, and the deceived man will grow.
In the relationship, the failed man can have a good grasp of life, because such a man knows what kind of things are the most important, when the man comes to this step, he becomes very rational, and people always feel that the man has become very desperate.
Therefore, everyone thinks that men are very rational, and they are also very rational when dealing with feelings, because this man has been hurt by women before, so he will become very rational in later life.
When treating women, there will also be a scale in the heart, and some men even think about calculating women when they are married, because this man has already suffered calculations when he is in love.
03.
Crazy to contact you
When a man is afraid of losing a woman, if two people have no contact, the man will definitely go all over the world to find this woman, because the man's heart is this woman, so the man does not want to give up such a man is more obsessive.
But if the woman has already thought about leaving you, but you do it this way, you are a man without self-esteem, the woman may look down on you.
Sometimes you still love someone, but others don't love you, so everything you do is superfluous in the eyes of others.
Some people even think that everything you do is causing trouble for themselves, so they will blame you, and we always feel that we have paid a sincere effort.
But others have given us heavy hurt, sometimes we don't want to indulge in this kind of love, let alone indulge in this kind of harm from others to us, when your attachment becomes an obsession, in fact, it is not good for both people, sometimes letting go is the best choice.
Wait until one day you get older, and one day you become mature and stable, you will find that everything you do today is very absurd, you have paid so much for one person, but in the end it is a bamboo basket to hit the water empty.
If one day a man and a woman lose touch, and if it's the man's fault, then the man has to find the woman to apologize and not cause regrets to life.
If two people leave because this woman has turned her back on the man, the man can let go of this woman, the manly husband must know how to choose, but also know how to bend and stretch, and sometimes do not waste time on people who are not worth it.