Recently watched "Heart Residence", people are numb, do not know that they still think that watching "Heart Attack", the more you see the more angry, really do not understand, in this period of awkward relationship, how these people live.
The several lines in "Heart Residence" are really worthy of deep criticism and worthy of our reflection.
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Two women's plastic sister-in-law love
Haiqing
Played by"
Feng Xiaoqin
"With
nursery rhyme
Gu Qingyu
"Played by a pair of sisters-in-law, they are staged as soon as they appear
Plastic sister-in-law
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A foreign daughter-in-law who graduated from junior high school was pregnant and married to a Shanghai man.
For 8 years, I have taken care of the life of a family of five like an old mother. She has no money, she can only manage her husband like a son, pinning her hopes on her husband, hoping that he will pass the financial and accounting examinations, have a higher salary job, and better support the family; and have to please the eldest sister-in-law Gu Qingyu like a boss, hoping that the other party can lend them money to buy a house.
She always had a goal — to buy a house of her own and to take her parents and younger siblings over to live with.
, three high-ranking women with high appearance, high education and high income.
Her appearance always has a specific rhythm, high-end office buildings, high-end gyms, well-decorated small homes... The blessings of the series have made her both elite and high-ranking people set up.
She has an innate sense of superiority over her sister-in-law in the field, and guards her like a thief, afraid that the other party will bite into their family, because she wants to protect her family.
In the confrontation between the two of them, if it is a dispute, Gu Qingyu is not Feng Xiaoqin's opponent.
Taking the death of his younger brother Gu Lei, under Feng Xiaoqin's step-by-step and pressing backwards, Gu Qingyu could only be stunned to doubt himself, and then secretly hurt himself.
However, in terms of professional matters and making money to support the family, the economic foundation determines the superstructure, whether before or after Gu Lei's death, Feng Xiaoqin is not Gu Qingyu's opponent.
Therefore, Feng Xiaoqin either flattered or evaded, even if she knew the other party's sneering, she could only hide and talk to her sister.
Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Qingyu maintained a superficial calm, but in fact, no one looked at anyone.
Feng Xiaoqin did not look up to Gu Qingyu because from her pure concept, a woman is going to marry, and if she is thirty-five or six years old, she is as problematic as the "old girl" said by her great aunt;
Gu Qingyu can't look at Feng Xiaoqin, she thinks that Feng Xiaoqin has no education, no skin and no face, always has another plan, and has no lower limit for doing things.
In fact, the two of them are comparable in the performance of catching horses in the play:
One is to conceal childbirth, recognize the "son" as a "brother", only have 30,000 yuan in his pocket but want to buy a house with a down payment of 2 million, have no self-awareness, and are selfish ghosts who always think of empty gloves and white wolves;
The other is to carry out the double standard to the end, he is not married but he wants to point fingers at his brother's marriage, obviously he can open his mouth to say the problem, but he wants to hide it, and he hides it incompletely, which is the old yin and yang weird idle woman.
Both of them have the same problem in essence, that is, two sides and three knives, obviously hate each other to death, but hindered by "using" each other, and give in to each other, but do not want both of them to have a breath in their hearts, can not go up and down, the awkward "pseudo family" relationship, is really let people see it.
Pseudo-blue confidant between two women
As an urban emotional drama with realistic themes, the emotional life plot content that has aroused heated discussion is inevitable in "Heart Residence". If it is a pair of pairs, it is too harmonious.
So, the screenwriters installed the two sisters-in-law
Zhang Songwen
Zhan Xiang, who plays him, as a "blue face confidant", looks and topics come.
As a side line of this TV series, Zhan Xiang's appearance always carries some "oil wheat" in it.
Either he is a landlord who cannot collect rent, or a frustrated person who cannot court, or he is a boss who is ridiculed or reprimanded by employees (especially Feng Xiaoqin).
That's it
Zhan Xiang
In the play, he was also played with by the sister-in-law.
Zhan Xiang can be regarded as Gu Qingyu's spare tire, as long as Gu Qingyu calls out, he must respond.
However, Gu Qingyu did not look up to Zhan Xiang in her heart, but she wanted to "use" Zhan Xiang.
She said: "You have been in Shanghai for more than ten years, and this accent can hardly be changed." Like Feng Xiaoqin, she disliked Zhan Xiang as a foreigner.
She said, "My relationship with you? So good that you are not afraid of violating the rules! Although it was a joke, it also exposed her pretentious and superior heart.
Gu Qingyu knew what Zhan Xiang was thinking of her, or in the name of "friend", he let Zhan Xiang saddle up for her.
The younger brother's funeral allowed Zhan Xiang to pick up and drop him back and forth, and the grandmother's funeral allowed Zhan Xiang's feet to not touch the ground;
To round up the lie of her father and aunt going to the house to raid, but also to let others help move;
It will hint that the tickets of their favorite musicians are difficult to buy, and they will also ask others to climb the mountain and tell each other when they encounter problems with their relationship.
She obviously knew everything, knew that Zhan Xiang regarded her as a goddess, knew that Zhan Xiang wanted to be good to her, and knew that Zhan Xiang might be timid and did not dare to propose to her in a serious way, but she worked hard to "make the best use of people".
She sometimes showed her dependence on Zhan Xiang, sometimes showed dissatisfaction with her existing marriage, and even things like her separation and divorce were the first things that Let Zhan Xiang know.
Her every move made Zhan Xiang, who wanted to give up her, always sway from side to side, feeling that maybe, maybe, probably she had the opportunity to marry the goddess and go through such a married life.
However, how can someone who has not been moved for more than ten years suddenly change his mind and suddenly regard you as his lover? Zhan Xiang's "changming lamp" could not be satisfactory after all.
Zhan Xiang in front of Gu Qingyu's saddle before and after the horse, perhaps based on the love of the heart, whether it is love at first sight, goodbye to the heart, or long-term love, it is always from love.
In reality, we will definitely hate such a woman, know that others are interested in you, but still do not draw a clear line, occupy others' affection, and take advantage of it in a fair and just manner, which is really disgusting.
Of course, Zhan Xiang was influenced by Feng Xiaoqin's confession, and there was something else to discuss.
For Zhan Xiang, Feng Xiaoqin is an accessory to his help to the goddess, and as the days go by, Zhan Xiang also sees a shadow of the same disease and the same kind of person in Feng Xiaoqin.
Shanghai is a foreign land for both of them, even if Zhan Xiang lives a rich life of rent collection, but after all, in the eyes of Shanghainese, this person is an "upstart", and the residents of the community have little respect for him at all.
Every time Feng Xiaoqin asks zhanxiang for help, zhanxiang feels that he is very valuable, and he will even break the idea that he has been reluctant to invest in business in order to meet Feng Xiaoqin's expectations and open a nursing home that looks super troublesome.
Since Gu Lei's death, Feng Xiaoqin's life has not been good, the rush to deliver takeaways is nothing, not being respected, and even being flirted with has become a common thing, more importantly, it is impossible to take care of the family, but also let the two elderly people in the family have opinions, not to mention the sister-in-law who originally had opinions on her.
Therefore, when thinking of opening a nursing home, Feng Xiaoqin felt that the only person who could invest money in her was Zhan Xiang, although she still had a consideration in her heart that it was Boss Shi, but that guy was more door-picking, flirting is OK, but there is no money, so Feng Xiaoqin is full of calculations about Zhan Xiang.
When did Feng Xiaoqin's feelings for Zhan Xiang begin?
Maybe it is watching him have been saddled up for Gu Qingyu, it is not pleasing to the eye, and he wants to insert a bar when the other party is dating;
Or maybe when the deposit of 30,000 yuan she paid was recovered, even if she wanted to invite Zhan Xiang to dinner, the other party also felt that she did not have a few dollars, and suggested that she support the family first;
Or maybe it was when she went to rescue Grandma Zhang, Zhan Xiang pulled her so eagerly, and told her that he had already regarded her as a relative...
Feng Xiaoqin fell in love with Zhan Xiang, who was not looked up to by the eldest sister-in-law, and was rejected by Zhan Xiang, but she was not discouraged, and it was not impossible to take a step back or friends and relatives.
In the later plot, Haiqing acted very well, washing away Feng Xiaoqin's annoying side, and letting people see a growing woman who could not be loved.
More importantly, compared to Gu Qingyu, she is indeed much better for Zhan Xiang.
However, this also brings out some questions that need to be explored:
Are the things you love between men and women really exist? The friendship between men and women wrapped in "blue face confidant" and "red face confidant", is it a little more ostentatious, or a little more selfish?
The traditional view of the family of two women
In fact, whether it is Feng Xiaoqin or Gu Qingyu, both of them have a special traditional and simple family view, and they both attach great importance to the family, but this family is their own small family and their own mother's family.
For the in-laws, Gu Qingyu's posture is cautious
She and Shi Yuan are male and female inferior under the appearance of female superiority and male inferiority, she needs to carefully maintain the self-esteem of her husband who has no money, to please her mother-in-law who looks down on her from time to time, and to face her in-laws cautiously, afraid that if she does something wrong, it will affect her and Shi Yuan's unstable marital relationship.
But for her mother's family, her posture is respectful of me
。 She couldn't see anything different in her family, and in the face of Gu Xin and Feng Xixi's imminent crossing of the line, she tried to make Gu Xin die by means of belittling Feng Xixi, and also unceremoniously threatened Feng Xixi.
After knowing that her sister-in-law was pregnant and had a child, she knew that her brother liked Feng Xiaoqin, so she also accepted her, but it was inevitable that she would be wary of this woman and unwilling to give her a good face, even if in a family, there was something to discuss, she always wanted to leave her sister-in-law, because in her traditional values, Feng Xiaoqin was not her own family.
And Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Qingyu are also different.
Facing her in-laws, she felt ashamed inside
In addition, she has no money to be the master, so she can only take care of her father-in-law, grandmother, husband and children conscientiously, she does not have a little power to discuss things at home, and she does not do such a thing, only need to fry the dishes in the kitchen and do a good job in the service work at the family banquet.
In the construction of a small family, she is stronger than Gu Qingyu
She can control her husband Gu Lei, and she can also give orders in her mother's house. When her husband was alive, she managed her husband and encouraged him to buy a house of her own, so that she could do something for her family in her hometown as the eldest daughter.
She let her sister live in Gu's parents for many years, and when she found out that her sister and her husband's brother were hooking up, she did not solve the problems of outsiders, but righteously dealt with her sister, and also helped the innocent woman who was hurt.
In fact, just like in real life, every woman wants her own small family, has the purest sense of motherhood, but some people have the ability to do well, while some people do not have the ability to do better.
Whether it is Feng Xiaoqin or Gu Qingyu, all the chicken and dog things they experience in the play are actually not innocent. Because both of them want to override others to make plans for their families, but many times these things are often counterproductive, because each thing involves more people, and the intertwined interests are more difficult, and the difficulty of implementation is greater.
This is also in response to the sentence:
Individuals have their own way of life, live their own small family well, and everyone has their own rules.
epilogue
We often say that a good relationship must not be an awkward relationship, and if you feel awkward, someone must be in trouble.
In "Heart Dwelling", unequal and awkward relationships can be seen everywhere, as if all the contradictions and disputes in this society are displayed in one big family. It is very ambitious and wants a lot, so in the process of interpretation, it is unbalanced, which makes people feel uncomfortable and angry, and people can't help but want to ask: "Why is this family so dramatic?" "Why does everyone in this family have a mouth, but they can't talk well?"
Yes, why?
(Movie Rotten Tomatoes Editorial Department: Often Think One or Two)