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Romain Rolland once said, "Love is an eternal faith." ”
Indeed, the most beautiful love in the world is that two loves are pleasing and evenly matched. Both people are better because of each other, and they are also better because of each other.
In the world of feelings, the way men and women express love is completely different, so the characteristics presented when conquered are also completely different.
When a woman is conquered, she may have the determination to "wash her hands and make soup", may have the calculation of "confined to the kitchen, books and love", or may have the romantic expectation of "one or two people in a lifetime".
But when men are conquered, the thoughts in their hearts are far less romantic, and they all say that when they really fall in love with someone, their hearts are humble, and I think that for men, it is true.
When a man is conquered, the most obvious signal is actually a word - fear.
One: Fear of losing you
In real life, many men are not as brave and courageous as he shows, and when true love comes, he will be shrunken and uneasy. Because he is afraid that everything in front of him will fall into vain, he is afraid of losing you, afraid that what he has at the moment is just a dream.
In the TV series "Chasing the Love Family", Qi Tian kept the goddess for ten years, and when he finally got a chance, he was eager to take off the stars and moon and dedicate it to her beloved.
When the girl did not reply to his WeChat because of something, he was so flustered that he could not do anything, had no intention of going to work, and sat in peace. Because he was afraid, afraid that the goddess would take back his life, he would be reduced to a spare tire.
For a man who is truly conquered, there is nothing more important than the other party, he cherishes this fate, but also cherishes this opportunity, so he will be cautious, afraid of a slight difference, everything will return to the past.
The fear of losing you is the most appropriate sign that this man is in love with you.
Two: Afraid of being rejected by you
Goethe once said, "Love is the real impetus for a person's recovery." ”
When a man is truly in love with a woman, the depths of his soul must be uneasy, it is hesitant, he thinks you are too good, so he is afraid that he will be rejected by you. When truly in love with a person, even the most confident person will inevitably feel inferior.
In the TV series "Heart Residence", Zhan Xiang regards Gu Qingyu as a goddess, and in order to win her favor and praise, he teaches himself English and piano, accompanies her to a boring concert, and charters a whole restaurant for him.
Zhan Xiang did all the romantic things in the world, and also forced himself to grow into a better person. If nothing else, just to take off the label of "upstart" and become a person who is not disliked by Gu Qingyu.
When a man is conquered, his pride and self-confidence, as if by magic, instantly fade.
A tall man will instantly become a big boy who is green. In order not to be disliked by the people they like, they are willing to try everything new.
Three: I'm afraid I don't deserve you
Dumas jr. once said: "True love makes people always upward." ”
Indeed, good love always has upward tension, and the boost of goodwill, urging us to fall in love one by one to become better and more perfect people. And the most beautiful feeling in the world is nothing more than, for you, I am willing to become a better person, good enough to match you, so good that God feels right.
For men, those who can conquer them must be the ones who, in some way, make it difficult for them to look back. That's why they will be moved and will be impressed.
Therefore, after being conquered by such women, presumably every man will want to work hard until he matches them.
When a man is conquered, in addition to the fear of loss and abandonment, there is also a most significant feature, that is, he is afraid that he is not worthy of her beloved.
Whether it is for Gu Qingyu's painstaking practice of English Zhan Xiang, or for the goddess Qi Tian, who has been guarding for ten years, in the final analysis, they just want to make themselves worthy of their beloved. In the face of true love, they will also be afraid and worried.
In fact, "fear" is a normal psychological change and external manifestation of a man after being conquered.
Sometimes, we are often too afraid because we care too much, because we cherish too much, we will be too worried. In the world of feelings, "fear" is also a kind of cherishing, a kind of love.
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