Any relationship requires two people to cooperate and understand each other, so as to make each other's feelings more long-lasting. Of course, the long-term factor is indispensable to the blessing of love skills.
Psychology divides the love process into three stages: the hot love period, the run-in period and the stability period. Of course, some people think that there are five kinds of love periods, namely the ambiguous period, the hot love period, the run-in period, the independence period and the marriage period.
When men and women are still in love, no matter what the other party does, it is perfect, and the occasional small temper and small willfulness are cute and moving. After a period of time together, it is time to run-in, the two sides began to pay attention to each other's advantages and disadvantages, this period is the most prone to problems, but also the most contradictory, after all, together for a long time, small fights must not be avoided. It is said that if you can get married, you will get married, and if you can't break up, you will break up. If you want to cherish this relationship, you must learn to tolerate and understand each other and control your temper. When you successfully break through the run-in period, the relationship will reach a stable period. In a relationship, the most difficult is the run-in period, the most critical is also the run-in period, many couples have lost in this period.
No one is right or wrong in love, feelings are jointly managed by two people, one party's efforts can not get the other party's response, will only push the other party into the abyss of love! Everyone wants to be the one who is loved, but the other party can't feel the wholehearted love, so how can they be willing to give all their love? So when we are in love, we can learn some love skills and give us a sweet blessing for love!
1 Occasionally prepare surprises for each other
Everyone wants to be able to receive surprises from each other, especially girls. Most girls like boys to secretly prepare small surprises for themselves, even if it is a bowl of hot noodles on their birthdays, girls can be happy for a long time, after all, it is very safe to be remembered. Of course, boys are also very easy to meet, secretly prepare breakfast for him, or recharge him for the game, in short, there are many ways to prepare small surprises, as long as you are willing to spend some thoughts.
2 Occasionally say something sweet to each other
The so-called sweet words are to come from the heart, not casually spoken, casually exported will only make people think that you are very frivolous, easy to be crowned with the title of playboy. When you get along for a while, occasionally talking sweet words will make the other party feel that you still care about her/his in your heart, even if it is a sentence of "I miss you" and "I love you" can make people feel excited.
3 Learn to be inclusive and communicate problems in a timely manner
If you want to go far in a relationship, learning to tolerate each other is the most important. Everyone has their own temper, and no one is obligated to do only the side that bears. When there is a contradiction between the two, it is necessary to communicate in time, the emotions can not be left overnight, it is said that the husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed and the bedside, the mood of the night, seemingly eliminated, but in fact, it is deeply buried in the heart, easy to become the fuse of the next contradiction. Therefore, no matter how small the contradiction is, the two sides must communicate and resolve it in a timely manner.
4 Leave your desire to share with the other
Share what you like, what you see, and what you want to share with each other, so that the other party knows more about your preferences and personality. Of course, the desire to share is maintained by the other party's response, if it has been perfunctory, for a long time, the other party feels bored, there is no desire to share, when there is no desire to share, it also means that this relationship is also coming to an end. So sometimes because there is something that can not be replied to in time, but also to explain to the other party, do not let the other party think wildly, you can respond slowly, but can not not respond.
5 Learn to praise each other
Smart girls know that boys are exaggerated, and girls have three major benefits to boys' praise:
First, girls' praise can make boys become confident. Boys who are often praised are often more confident in life than boys who are not praised. The boy who is often hit will become depressed and give up the relationship.
Second, you can make the boy appreciate you more. So-called, a good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June. If girls often praise boys. Boys will be grateful to you from the bottom of their hearts, so that their good feelings for you will only increase.
Third, boys can know how to pay. When a boy is praised, he will subconsciously try to give and be more motivated to maintain their feelings for each other. Because girls can see his efforts and understand his efforts.
In turn, girls are the same, and there is no one who does not like to listen to the praise of others, especially the person closest to them. In short, reject everything PUA between couples!
Love skills look simple, but they are difficult to do, especially during the run-in period, so it is important to learn love skills.
In the relationship, do not feel that the other party's efforts are taken for granted, love should be mutual, love should be understood, and love should be inclusive. In a person's life, we may meet many people, but the person who can accompany us to the end is the person who has walked together for a lifetime, and it is also the person we should cherish the most.